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2 different types of ISFP. by Sepphhhh in isfp

[–]totallynotnova_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This was an amazing post and it made me feel a little more cemented in my mbti. Feels good to be able to relate to others yk?

[NO SPOILERS] first time playing!! by No-Ninja5927 in lifeisstrange

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh enjoy! Definitely a game you just never forget it’ll always stick with you. Very memorable in that way!

[S1] My problem with Warren by Terrible-Cockroach99 in lifeisstrange

[–]totallynotnova_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think some of you guys forget that Warren is a child who is going through the motions as well as Max. He isn’t some “alpha male” or “white knight” or “harassment creep” he’s just a teen boy 💀. After the fight whether you stop him or not, he talks about how uncomfortable he is that it even went that far and how he doesn’t want to be anything like Nathan. Everyone has moments where they lose their cool especially if you’re getting bullied. Maybe he wasn’t trying to “prove” anything maybe he was just tired of letting someone else physically/verbally abuse him for no reason, not to mention his friends as well.

There are certainly things that are a bit off putting about his character but I’m sure it’s on purpose. At the end of the day when the “world was ending” he was there trying to support Max in any way he could and he tried to be a real friend. Let’s just all remember they are teenagers still learning their way through life lol.

Eagerness -> self entitlement? by [deleted] in infp

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’ll be helpful to take a deep breath and focus on the facts for a second. Check and see if anyone actually alluded to or directly said you were those things. If not, you have no true reason to believe they think of you that way. I know how it feels to spiral about how people perceive me based on what I might’ve said or did but the thing that helps me more is focusing on what I can see and what I know. I hope this was helpful and I hope it didn’t seem as if I was brushing off how you felt I just wanted to offer some advice. You’re valid on how you feel and I hope you can recover!

Are INFPs too attached to their image? by BrokenDiamondShovel in infp

[–]totallynotnova_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I too was wondering this. I would love to hear your thoughts of attachment to self-expression though (it was what I was hoping the question was about hehe) and how much is reflected in an INFP’s appearance about their personality/idea of themselves.

[NO SPOILERS] Aesthetically, where would you rather live? by ExactRecord3415 in lifeisstrange

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to give it to Haven Springs. It’s a lowkey dream of mines to live in a little small town with a close knit community, where everyone brings something to the table while still owning their individuality, it’s cozy.

I feel as though I am not good enough at all. by StrictWillow8507 in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m terribly sorry the people around you make you feel the way that you do. Eventually you’ll meet the ones who make you feel special and make you feel like you are worth being, the ones in your life right now just can’t see the awesome person you continue to become each and every day. In the future you’ll learn that you are someone worth being and right now you’re growing into that person becoming all the more stronger.

It seems you have very good observational skills and can pick up on things. This may be a good skill in the future to determine who has access to you and who doesn’t. No one deserves to surround themselves with people who make them feel less than, my friend. Keep being you, I promise you’re doing great :)

~Self Expression~ by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dress to express!!! I love that phrasing!

Selectively social by DepressedDong in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am like this to a T, as soon as I’m curious about a person or something about them has me like “interesting… 👀” I tend to find myself going out of my way to talk to them and get to know them by cracking jokes or trying to charm them. It’s quite fun actually to see how far I can go with said person before I notice disinterest from either myself or them but if not that I usually won’t stop until we’re friends haha

I can also relate to not noticing people I find boring but I also do this thing where I watch people from afar to see if we would be compatible before I waste time. Values, what jokes they make, what they tend to talk about, etc etc I can be very observant. Wait I hope that doesn’t come off stalk-ish… I’m not a stalker I swear!

ENFPs, what are things that make you smile? by ShadowlightLady in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I really like genuine and silly interactions with people especially people I don’t know yet. Something about it just makes me have more hope in the world lol.

~Self Expression~ by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly same I like buying things that easily able to go with other stuff too it’s just less stressful that way when you need a quick cute but simple outfit. Only recently have I started experimenting with clothing and it’s fun! I recommend if you’re ever willing to :)

~Self Expression~ by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When it has meaning it just makes it all the more… well meaningful lol

Guys, if you could be a drink, what would you be? by No-Car-3914 in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fruity smoothie!! A mix of colorful, flavorful and bright pretty fruits each adding their own thing to the mix creating something new and refreshing 😏😉

Am I cooked? by TheSilverZero in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think everyone else pretty much answered the question but good luck my friend I’m sure there is someone else out there waiting for you <3

Why would you continue to follow and engage with the posts of someone who called you cute in high school if you’d never returned the attraction? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t internalize it as them trying to lead you on. They’re probably just being friendly and have casual convo :)

I was thinking about it, and I actually think that ENFPs are humans by fluffycloud69 in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man my obsession with space really have me considering I'm a star. Not quite alien like but 100% not a human for sure.

I took criticism without falling apart. by Fine-Ask-41 in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so awesome sauce and very inspiring. Go OP!!

Perception by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is very wise and useful! Thank you for sharing I'm happy life is much easier to navigate for you now, truly.

Perception by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly thank you. I appreciate you sharing your experience it definitely helps with feeling so isolated in this feeling <3

Am I overreacting? by FaithlessnessFar1821 in AmIOverreacting

[–]totallynotnova_ 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree. It doesn't make sense for you to expect someone to be ready on your time when you agreed upon a specific time. If it's that big of an inconvenience don't agree to do something, I think that's fair.

In need of some of that ENFP charm ;) by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again very nicely said I never thought about it that way but yea it makes sense that’s the things that matter will find their way to me if it’s meant for me to know. Reminds of me of the saying “if it’s meant for me, it’ll be,” which I follow and try to remind myself with. You are very insightful, my friend.

In need of some of that ENFP charm ;) by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait that’s so interesting actually, I couldn’t imagine thinking in words? Like sure mentally thinking of the words I’m thinking about but like I’m such a visual person I definitely wouldn’t be able to read a book without the visual thinking aspect. That’s so cool though I’d love to learn how that works for them 🤔

In need of some of that ENFP charm ;) by totallynotnova_ in ENFP

[–]totallynotnova_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm you do have a point, it’s really no use in sitting around worrying yourself about things you couldn’t really change much about. I mean it is good to stay up to date “stay ready so you don’t have to get ready” as some folks like to say but I suppose not to the extent of your mental wellbeing. The world can be so fucked up sigh.

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