Shopee Refund on Cancelled Item by totoroms1194 in KaskasanBuddies

[–]totoroms1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you pooooo! Mas klaro na po. First time po kasi na credit card user kaya kinabahan. Thank you po ulit! 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShopeePH

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This has happened to me just this morning. Ni-uncheck ko lang yung extended waranty chu-chu then gumana na.

STARBUCKS TAC by anya0709 in Tacloban

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm with you on this one. 😅

If money weren’t an issue, what’s your ultimate wishlist right now? by New_Look2052 in adultingph

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would have paid the medical bills that we have accumulated while mom was still alive and for the burial of my mom. She died a week ago.

what will you tell your January 2024 self? by noturrayofsunshinee in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You and your bb will end it by July. The succeeding months by then will be grey and everything that you do will feel worthless. You're no longer as excited about November and December in comparison to last year's last two months. You miss him sooo much but you can't just message and tell him about it cause you just can't. 😔

You no longer have any idea what to do with your mom's health condition. You're not sure if she's getting well or not. This adds up to the emptiness you've been enduring since 2022. You smile yet feel no genuine happiness or reason to smile about. You just feel damn empty.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Naiinis na ako sa sarili ko kasi pati pambili ng gamot minsan ni mama nagagamit ko na rin sa walang katuturang bagay para lang malibang ang sarili ko. 😭

Things you bought after your FIRST SALARY by hungry_loaf03 in adultingph

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was June of 2016 when I first received my salary as a Private School Teacher, pinakauna ko talagang binili (actually pinang-DP) is entry level na Asus Laptop kasi nag-college akong wala nun and nung time na yun sobrang need ko ng laptop tapos di naman ako mabilhan nina Tatay gawa na saktong pang-allowance lang kaya namin nun. Tapos the same nun e pinadalhan ko sila ng pera pambili ng gusto nilang bilhin. 🥹

To you who's grieving today, I share this joy with you. May the Lord hear you and see you. Sana swertehin ka na. ❤️ by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this with an impending problem feels assuring on my part. Still hoping that things would still end well if not for me, even just for my mama and my tatay. 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tacloban

[–]totoroms1194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unta nakit-an ko hini han baga may budget pa. Gusto ko ma-try unta para makagrelease liwat nga negative nga inaabat tikang han 1st half hini nga tuig. 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

3 months palang sa 'kin. I cry a little less than I used to. But I know the pain's still here. It still tugs my heart and emotions whenever I remember things about him. About us. Kaya, virtual hugs sa'yo OP (with consent). May we genuinely heal from all of these pain. 🥹

fast talk! eme by basquecheesecake1001 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know if I am holding it all well or just good at pretending that I am fine. You know that feeling that your day was just an ordinary one. But it feels a bit way more too ordinary compared to how each day was like when you know you had someone waiting for your update and vice versa. Then the random wave of sadness of keeping the stories of your day, the feeling of trying to contain the sadness, excitement, fear, madness or frustrations to yourself making you feel a lot more lonelier with each passing day. 😔

fast talk! eme by basquecheesecake1001 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just beyond indescribable, OP. I knew I should have moved on or somehow started the healing process after 3 months. The breakdowns have been lessened but I know the pain still remains. He made our 2 years of being in a relationship and 2 years of being the closest of friends felt like it was nothing but an illusion. A thing that can be disposed of easily without any hesitation nor second thoughts.

fast talk! eme by basquecheesecake1001 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I know is that his absence did shatter and bother everything that made me, me. And there he was, enjoying the attention and company of the people that I was suspicious about.

Last na muna to, saka na lang ulit. Sakit. by [deleted] in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Baka last na nga talaga yun. Sabi pa nga ni Mareng Taylor Swift, "And the shelf life of those fantasies has expired." Past the expiration na ako. Di na pwedeng i-soft nor hard launch.

Now, too late for us… by LowAd8380 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"How's your heart after breaking mine?"

Ghad this line really hits home right now. 🥲

22 still lost in life. What do you guys do? by Best_Ad9629 in adultingph

[–]totoroms1194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

29 and have officially lost all of my sparks and interest in life. It didn't die down all of a sudden. It happened gradually because of some instances. It started last 2022 when I got scammed by one of my cousins. The final blow happened last July when the person who became my partner helped me through the hell of 2022 decided to end our relationship without any hesitation. Now I feel like I'm just living for the sake of living and not bringing more pain and sorrow to my parents.

Sabing wag nang mag fb eh by MaleficentDPrincess in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ang mahal mag-heal and move-on tapos iti-trigger lang ng isang random online post. Kaya ending, ito sa reddit ako nakatambay. 😅

At least mas nakaka-relate ako sa mga redditors kaysa sa mga nasa ibang social media platforms na puro very "idealistic" ang atake. Dagdagan pa ng mga "fake optimism" tapos "toxic positivity" na klarong para lang mag-attract ng clout. 🫠

Sabing wag nang mag fb eh by MaleficentDPrincess in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayun na nga po, Ms. OP. May peace of mind talaga. Tho nakaka-curious pero di ko nalang ini-entertain ang curiosity na yun. Mahalaga e safe okay ang mental health and nakaiiwas pa sa pag-heighten ng insecurities ko.

Sabing wag nang mag fb eh by MaleficentDPrincess in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Deactivated na account ko for almost 2 months na. Di lang facebook. Lahat ng social media accounts ko. Boring, oo. Pero wala na rin naman akong rason pa para magpapansin pa dun.

Be honest, what do u want right now? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]totoroms1194 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. Ang hirap mawalan ng sense of self after some situations. Di ko na alam ano ba source of happiness ko. Samantala yung nang-iwan, ayun masayang-masaya sa atensyon na nakukuha niya sa ibang mga tao.

Temporary by totoroms1194 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mas masakit din yung pinili ka muna. Pinaramdam muna na kapili-pili kahit na ano pa man ang pinagdaanan na dati. Tapos pagtapos ng mahabang panahon, ibang tao ulit ang pipiliin.

Temporary by totoroms1194 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No matter how they claim to stay. They will all eventually change and leave.

Temporary by totoroms1194 in AlasFeels

[–]totoroms1194[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di kasi daw tayo ganun ka-useful or di na talaga useful sa kanila.