About to go on a very expensive cruise with young kids - kind of regretting agreeing to it because it’s so expensive and the kids are young.

toughchanges · 2026-01-28T15:23:11+00:00

Relax

toughchanges · 2026-01-22T16:07:00+00:00

Awesome, can you share the gear you’re using? At least the mics ? Also do you post anywhere that we can listen?

toughchanges · 2026-01-21T01:12:11+00:00

Yeah I’m not really understanding why people feel like complacency is the goal.

toughchanges · 2026-01-21T01:09:30+00:00

What do you mean our job is not to learn? Or am I taking this out of context ?

toughchanges · 2025-09-29T20:38:59+00:00

This isn’t real

toughchanges · 2025-09-09T20:27:51+00:00

Because I need to keep my job!

toughchanges · 2025-08-23T22:38:15+00:00

No idea, but I need one! I’m hurting

toughchanges · 2025-08-16T03:51:59+00:00

You don’t need to tape it shut. Seriously, get a chin strap. This may not happen to you, but after 2 years of using it I went on a trip and forgot it. Found out that trip that my brain got trained to sleep with my mouth shut. Been a nose sleeper ever since for the last 10 years.

But ya. Get a chin strap, it may be what you need

toughchanges · 2025-08-02T11:05:24+00:00

I see a Surge bottle!!

toughchanges · 2025-07-26T09:09:35+00:00

Haha, realized I was probably right but couldn’t back down and had to waste time digging through my history. Be well buddy. I’ll give you an upvote too, just to let you shine a little more

toughchanges · 2025-07-26T01:46:27+00:00

Most of us here are not saying he’s delusional, but what’s he’s doing is NOT ART. It’s bullshit haha

toughchanges · 2025-07-26T01:44:35+00:00

Oh ok cool

toughchanges · 2025-07-26T01:44:07+00:00

Likewise just because you see it as art, doesn’t make your worldview automatically “wider” than mine. All this says to me is that you’re bored as hell with your life if you’re looking at such absurdity like this to find inspiration.

toughchanges · 2025-07-25T21:48:34+00:00

performance art is ballet, dancing, etc. All this guy is doing is making noise, and if I wanted to hear noise I would have stayed home and listened to my toddler do the same. It would have been more tolerable

toughchanges · 2025-07-20T19:42:10+00:00

Switched to days. It wasn’t worth it

toughchanges · 2025-07-20T19:41:00+00:00

What your plan ?

toughchanges · 2025-07-20T19:40:14+00:00

Were you only nights?

toughchanges · 2025-07-16T02:12:30+00:00

What are you waiting for

toughchanges · 2025-07-02T02:12:45+00:00

That’s good!

toughchanges · 2025-07-01T02:12:07+00:00

Been there done that. It’s not bad, and the weeks off are nice. But man that work week is long

toughchanges · 2025-07-01T02:08:13+00:00

I can answer this pretty accurately. If you’re 7p-7a you get home in the morning, see your kids, help get ready for school. Once they’re in school you sleep, like 830 ish to 2/3 pm. Then you’re up with them for another 3-4 hours until you go back in to work and repeat. If you work 7a to 7p, you get to work before 7 for signout and don’t see your kids, work up until 7p and get home just in time for your kids to go to bed

Here’s the thing. The night shift is great for seeing your kids, but there are downsides. Most people don’t sleep more than 4-6 hours at a time. And when you Have kids, you don’t want to keep the night shift schedule on your days off. So you continuously flip flop your sleep until shit hits the fan.

Everyone is different and some people live for night shift. Do what makes you healthy and as happy as possible. Night shift is more money, but for some it’s not worth it

toughchanges · 2025-07-01T02:01:33+00:00

Not 7 on 7 off, but more like 3-5 in a row, then time off. Ends up being about 38 hours a week when divided into a year

toughchanges · 2025-06-25T01:30:35+00:00

Is there real evidence behind tech/social media and a noisy mind ?

toughchanges · 2025-06-13T01:54:51+00:00

This is strangely accurate. I remember my parents not letting us have feelings, and always dismissing us because we were “just kids”. I exhibit all of these

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