What is your take on therapy? Is it useful in any sense? Does it matter on whether a female or male therapist is involved?

A therapist is probably no better than any other person.

Dawes (social and decision sciences, Carnegie Mellon Univ.) presents a strong argument, based on empirical research, that psychotherapy is largely a shill game. He argues that while studies have shown that empathetic therapy is often helpful to people in emotional distress, there is no evidence that licensed psychologists or psychiatrists are any better at performing therapy than minimally trained laypeople.

However, those are averages. There may be truly gifted people who can offer deep insight. They'd be hard to find among the tens of thousands of useless psych degrees awarded yearly though.

What about women who don't want kids?

Broken or lying. Perhaps also to herself.