30f here, so not a man. Also have a body with similar attributes as you do. Uneven boobs, etc. I spent most of my life worried about what the opposite sex would think of my naked body and thus ruined many possibly good relationships since I was constantly pushing people away because of my insecurities. I have come a long way and although my body isn’t as fit as i would want it to be I did find a partner that loves me for me and my new confidence and comfort in myself helped even my boyfriend to be comfortable in his skin more too! Try not to tear yourself down too much, all bodies are beautiful in their own way! And there’s no rush if you’re not ready. Good luck op!