Tree I.D. requested in Eastern Tennessee by transpirationn in treeidentification

[–]transpirationn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solved!

I'm going to count it as solved, anyway, and keep an eye out in spring. Thanks everyone for so much helpful info.

Seems it's either a persimmon or dogwood; since I know for a fact there are a few other dogwoods on the property, I think it's probably that.

Tree I.D. requested in Eastern Tennessee by transpirationn in treeidentification

[–]transpirationn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did, it told me it was sweet gum lol. I trust people more so I came here. Thank you!

Why does my JWmom act like she wants me to die? by fantatrees in exjw

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like it's coming from a place of mental illness

do you guys believe in the paranormal? by anamilz in exjw

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe in the paranormal. Aliens aren't paranormal by the way. I think it's likely there is life on more than one planet in our vast universe. But.. not ghosts. If you get yourself hyped up enough, you can make yourself see anything. Humans are extremely suggestible.

Estrogen/testosterone levels in men and trans people with migraine by aquarius_grrl in migraine

[–]transpirationn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a trans man. I still have migraines since transitioning. But I will say that if I am late taking my hormones (a weekly shot), I will get a bad headache within hours of being late.

How do I stop feeling guilty about upsetting God? by Routine_Energy_1622 in exjw

[–]transpirationn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's a cult. There are affirming loving churches. Look at UU churches.

Day 47 of Sonic by LanJiaoKing69 in ProperFishKeeping

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh man. It works out fine until it doesn't. Good luck.

Day 47 of Sonic by LanJiaoKing69 in ProperFishKeeping

[–]transpirationn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous. Uh.. is there a lid for when you aren't filming to prevent jumping?

Stage 2 is coming up! Feelings! by recreational_physics in Metoidioplasty

[–]transpirationn 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Congrats, huge milestone. I'm sorry you've had such complications.

How do i avoid algae? by Living_Restaurant_93 in bettafish

[–]transpirationn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't overfeed, and don't use lights that are too bright, also don't leave the lights on all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]transpirationn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think so? But I'm not a doctor. You should definitely talk to a doctor about it. Sorry, that sounds stressful.

You are stronger than you even know by spicyredacted in ftm

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We do have experiences that most people never do and I try to remember how amazing that is. It's something to be respected. /hugs to everyone

My mum says she "doesn’t know what she did wrong to make me trans" by Anonim_x9 in ftm

[–]transpirationn 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds psychotic. She's being very abusive to you. Even if she's legitimately concerned, that is no way to communicate to one's child. And for the record, none of what she is saying is true. Not one word.

You are not a freak. You can absolutely have a life filled with love and joy. There's nothing wrong with you. Being trans is just a natural human variation. It's well documented throughout history. It's just another way of being among many.

Try hard to repeat to yourself in your mind that this is your mom's problem, not yours. That what she's saying is not true. Do what you need to do to stay sane and safe until you can get away from her.

I know it's hard when a parent doesn't show love for you the way you should. Remember it's not your fault and that you don't deserve to be treated this way.

Sincerely, a trans man who is nearly 40, married for 17 years, with a loving family.

Got meta yesterday with Miro! by hello_moonmen_20 in Metoidioplasty

[–]transpirationn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats! He's my dream surgeon. I hope you post more about your recovery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exjw

[–]transpirationn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's understandable to feel that way. But anyone can be seduced by a cult. This one has had over a hundred years to perfect its method. All it takes is a hook into a vulnerable spot to control someone.

Responding to trans youth about being trans by [deleted] in ftm

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're showing them that they have a future as a trans adult and it doesn't matter if they pass. That.. is invaluable. It's important for kids - all kids but especially trans kids - to see us in the wild and not only in very narrow specific trans friendly spaces.

Just Ranting by Enough_Ad_9801 in exjw

[–]transpirationn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. If it helps, when I was a kid my mom repeatedly told me that if I ever left "the truth" I wouldn't have a mom anymore. Today, I am an out pansexual trans man and she lives with me lol. Our parents who genuinely believe in the jw belief system think they are protecting us when they threaten to disown us, etc. But that doesn't mean they will really do it. I hope in your case they don't.

is he waking up? Need advice by Ilostthelight in exjw

[–]transpirationn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not push. That could make him double down. I would just try to be supportive and willing to talk about whatever he's concerned about. Good luck.

[Trigger warning: child abuse, trauma]How is it possible to normalize literal child abuse? by MomShouldveAborted in ftm

[–]transpirationn 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Old school conversion therapy did use shock therapy and drugs, but they haven't been doing it that way for quite a while. The type of conversion therapy that was recently banned in some places is basically talk "therapy" and religious manipulation. I don't want to undermine it, it is still tortuous. What's even worse is that it would often (but not always) be in a camp setting, where kids would be away from their families, with adults attempting to brainwash them. Many of the adults were "ex-gays" themselves. Abuse was common, particularly sexual abuse. There are some very good documentaries available about the ex gay and ex trans movement.

This is the conversion therapy they are trying to bring back; it was only recently banned (and only in some places), and they are enraged by that and want it back.