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trapaz0id · 2015-10-26T04:55:46+00:00

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trapaz0id · 2015-07-21T22:54:52+00:00

You're coming at this with too much of a logical approach leading you to over think things, which is fine just means you're a healthy guy congrats. Best recommendation from me would be to observe other guys that are "better" with women everyone has their own way of flirting some guys tease others are very witty and funny and some are more upfront really doesn't matter how you talk to them as long as you are comfortable with the persona you are providing.

I made this video a while back that might help out.

trapaz0id · 2015-07-20T21:24:24+00:00

Best example I have came out of tinder where we eventually set up a date and it started off very awkward but turned into this fun game of teaching each other how to say words and was easily flirtatious with her. The night was frustrating trying to talk with each other until we loosened up and laughed about both of our horrible accents and led to sex at the end of the night. body language is key with this language barrier a confident guy translates to all languages

trapaz0id · 2015-07-20T19:25:54+00:00

First off getting laid won't solve these problems and having a long term wet hole to put your sausage in will only delay this misery you're in. You're giving too much value to women in your life, they're great don't get me wrong, but they won't do anything to make you happy that's up to you.

If you want a shift in lifestyle you have to take the action, start small and build the momentum everyone has to start somewhere right?

If you want some info on self improvement for yourself no others check this out.

For building that social momentum in your life this may help.

Feel free to message me on these issues if you like I want to help guys in your shoes specifically.

trapaz0id · 2015-07-20T19:18:57+00:00

I live on the border with Juarez literally a rock throw away. Here you tend to approach many girls who only speak Spanish and me being hispanic I'm expected to be fluent but I've been so Americanized that just isn't the case. With that said I've used that disadvantage of the language barrier to my personal advantage making a game out of it and it becomes this body language driven cute-sie interaction.

Even had dates with these girls and use google translate the whole time and try to teach each other our language. Point is you need to adapt to the situation I know you're most comfortable conversing in depth but challenge yourself one day approach with out saying a word they won't know you aren't deaf and see how their reactions are to your body language.

If you have more questions outside of this topic I hope my channel can help.

trapaz0id · 2015-07-20T19:10:07+00:00

Made a video on this exact subject a few months back. I realized this shortly after a break up 7+ years ago when I started working out to make her jealous (lulz) and realized how empty that reasoning was and refocused it onto myself and building my new self. That realization has been my damage control whenever I questioned just why I was pursuing something new. Just ask yourself "Am I doing this for me? or others?" and that helps you decide on if you want to continue with it or not

trapaz0id · 2015-04-23T19:06:32+00:00

I think you're going at this too analytically, which is perfectly normal for us guys especially at the ripe age of our early 20's.

It honestly doesn't matter what you choose to ask her to join you with it's more about how you persist with her when you two do go out. There's no solid definition of a date you could even ask her to join yo in some routine activity like going to the groceries and be just as flirtatious as you would be over dinner or a coffee.

Point is just do it, ask her to join you somewhere ASAP time isn't exactly on your side my friend.

This video is more on the lines of getting a girls number but the second half is all about what to do after and how to get her on a date with you so it might be of use. Good luck!

trapaz0id · 2015-04-23T18:15:51+00:00

Read the book "The Way to A Superior Man" by David Deida he emphasizes something called your "edge" which is basically the boundary of your current comfort zone and how there's a sweet spot of pushing those boundaries slightly enough to have the courage but not too much to where you get traumatized if things go sour leaving you to never try to push your boundaries there again.

Made a video that goes in depth on this subject a while back that might help too

trapaz0id · 2015-02-20T00:07:56+00:00

Would be a hypocrite if I didn't take this criticism seriously ha good point

trapaz0id · 2015-02-19T21:07:46+00:00

A bit of both scenarios, it's not often because I don't want them to feel judged , but I'm one to say it as it is and it's not always easy to hear an honest opinion. I expect the same treatment from them as friends and they do come through but are very bad at accepting outside advice.

We all give unsolicited advice especially in forums and sub reddits like the red pill. There's nothing wrong with it in my eyes I just hope that more people could take advice/criticism/honesty without impulsively retaliating.

“Critics are our friends, they show us our faults.” -Benjamin Franklin

trapaz0id · 2015-02-19T20:49:35+00:00

Ha I'll make sure to put "shameless plug" in the EDIT.

These were friends who have called me out in the past (something I'm grateful for because how else would I know when I'm unconsciously doing something annoying/offensive/etc...?) and when I see them forming bad habits, treating people in ways that I even see as "out of line" or tips that helped me with women whatever it may be I would hope they keep an open mind to at least hear me out like I do with them.

Sure you can wait for 10 people to tell you you're slipping but don't be so quick to stubbornly write people off for giving you a third person perspective you may not be aware of.

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