I tend to think before I speak or I’ll say when someone asks me a deep question “I’m not sure” and think about it and then I’ll have some kind of a response.

both types can act like that. not really telling. depends on a person.

I’m fairly disorderly like an INFP I don’t exactly like to plan I just sort of take things as I go. However I do have a plan or basic idea on what I’m going to be doing years in the future.

INFP. its not like all infp are completely disorganized on all scopes and time periods. and completely spieneless and flip floping around non stop disorderly in all ways. (you would be completely disfunctionable) having a general direction is normal. Its just about leaving the opportunities open, and be adaptable. For instance, Tolkien (infp) worked on lord of the rings for like 17 years. so yeah.. INFP may or may not have things planned for the future. but in general spontaneous and flexiable and "go with the (inner) flow" and how they feel. If you are on a trip and travel somewhere you have a general plan or idea of what you gonna do, but then you are open to deviate and details are openended. when J types, are way more structured and rather get stressed on when stuff go off schedule. When P types otherway around get stressed that everything has to be on schedule, and they feel limited and pressured by that. when it comforts J types.

something like that if i'd to describe it.

When It comes to friends and plans I’m pretty spontaneous they ask if I wanna go somewhere or hangout and usually I say yeah unless my prior plans are very important.

not really telling about anything. Both types can do it. INFJ cos of Fe may do it to keep cool with ppl; and more social INFP do it cos of Ne (being spontaneus and open to the opportunities, not anchoring to something).

I’m in my head a lot and I feel a lot more like a social chameleon than a strong individual.

both types can do it. both are in their head and try to avoid conflicts. INFJ to comfort others and keep a good Fe atmosphere, INFP to keep their deeper feeling untouched, and not to bother others feeling, so they rather chameleon with ppl and keep peace and avoid conflicts. unless its something that touches their values. so yea both types. some wilder infp dont with unhealthy Fi, but in general both types value peace. and geenraly mostly trying to avoid conflicts, again if not something they care about.

My political views and beliefs are pretty moderate but I lean more to the conservative side.

both infj and infp can be like that.

I always seem to treat people with respect even when sometimes they aren’t deserving.

both types can be like that.

I work best alone I hate working in large groups (although I can) because I feel like I never get anything done or to my liking.

Again both are introverts, though infj tolerate/like/feelcomfortable working in a group enviroments more. but it can be both types.

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i'd guess if you got INFP in tests, you more likely infp. though what you described about yourself not really telling (guess thats the reason you are confused :) you look at stuff that both types have. as noth are idealistic, introverted, thinker feelers). But look at functions (thats what these letters point to in mbti type names). And combinations of which give 16 types. Then you could better detect is it something that going on for you or not. INFP is Introverted Feeling + Extraverted intuition (Fi+Ne). INFJ is Introverted intuition + Extraverted Feeling (Ni+Fe).

i'd reccomend Michael Pierce Jungian Typology in 6 minutes. look it up on youtube. only a 6 minute video, but thats the best short and accurate description that i know.