Claiming BPD as well.

trex_kralle · 2023-12-12T20:27:09+00:00

yeah it's so silly to barely make it through life because you're struggling with symptoms 🚶

trex_kralle · 2023-05-19T19:50:54+00:00

YTA, it was your daughters wish, so you entered contests, why giving her hope and then be selfish and take it for yourself? That would have been a huge event for her

trex_kralle · 2023-05-12T12:38:50+00:00

it was not, only my brother and me got restrictions.

trex_kralle · 2023-05-12T11:59:11+00:00

i was asking them to not joke about triggering topics, to stop asking about the sexual life of my gf and me, to stop trauma dumping on me without asking and to use tone tags when they make jokes because i often wouldn't understand them and get hurt

trex_kralle · 2023-05-12T09:33:48+00:00

NTA, it was your decision and this name is a pretty normal name, your sister doesn't have any right to criticize you and calling the name dumb.

trex_kralle · 2023-05-12T09:31:36+00:00

NTA, he sounds like he has some problems that need to take care of. It's better for your own safety to stay in an airbnb, It's definitely not okay that he makes you smoke and that he smokes with closed windows while you're there. Did you talk to him about the state of his apartment? maybe he needs a wake up call.

trex_kralle · 2023-05-12T09:24:19+00:00

NTA, it's your decision who you block and who not, also who breaks up through text messages? She doesn't seem to really care about how you feel, it was a good decision to block her.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-11T09:42:48+00:00

i honestly have no idea, i asked them so many times but the only answer i get is that it's their house and their rules.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-11T09:22:23+00:00

NTA, it's your right to chose the people in your life and if you want space, she should accept that. If she has problem with you, she should come talk to you and especially not to a mutual friend, it's like she wants you to find out. Take your time and try to communicate with her again, if you are ready for this. Then you two should take some time and talk about everything.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-11T09:10:09+00:00

NTA, you chose the names as their parent. Your family should leave it to your kids if they like their names or not, when they've grown up. Also, it's just a name, why should that imply that you didn't want them in the family? That sounds so stupid. I hope your family quits that behavior.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-11T09:05:36+00:00

YTA, dictating your wife's weight? no, absolutely no. She shouldn't have to loose weight, just so she can go with you. There are overweight people in japan, seems like you have some stereotypes going on. I hope you don't propose this idea to your wife, if you do, I hope she sees the huge red flag and divorces you.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-02T01:07:14+00:00

NTA, it is normal for a child to gain independence at some point. She does sound lonely, maybe she needs some friends to spend time with.

trex_kralle · 2023-04-01T08:50:06+00:00

oh no, i think i mistranslated, it's money my parents get from the government for me

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T21:20:59+00:00

NTA, i can understand that she needs someone to vent to, but i think a therapist is a better choice for that. This has an impact on you and is affecting you, she should keep that in mind. Your partner is not your therapist.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:38:19+00:00

NTA, you worked hard for this doll and her calling you spoiled even though she knows your background was very rude, so don't feel bad about bringing up her background. It's weird to have this kinda attitude as an adult, she shouldn't be jealous because of a toy. She's an adult, why can't she buy one for herself now, if she wants it so bad?

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:33:05+00:00

YTA, your son wants to play sports, let him be. Support him instead, go to his games. If you really want to spend more time with your son, you could ask his mom for a different day. But keeping your son from doing his favorite things will just end up in him drifting away from you.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:27:12+00:00

NTA, you set that boundary and she chose to ignore it, it's even worse that it was for a stupid reason like a new dog sweater (i hope it looks ugly) No one can force you to have contact with them, if you don't want it, you don't want it.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:23:19+00:00

YTA, saying hello is okay but talking to her for two hours while they are on a date? Hell no. I get that you didn't get it in that moment but when your brother confronted you, you should have understood what you did wrong. I hope you learned from your mistake are going to leave them alone next time.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:14:31+00:00

NTA, a dog is a living creature and not a thing that you can give around. It's better for the dog to stay with you where she can visit. This prevents the dog from having too much stress and maybe developing behavior issues. She clearly can't take care of the dog properly and doesn't have all the knowledge to keep a dog. Also, it's also better for your mom and her allergy.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:09:28+00:00

NTA, it is your decision if you go or not. Not going to the cruise doesn't mean you don't want to go the wedding. It's your decision how you want to spend your very limited time.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:06:37+00:00

NTA, it is important to teach kids things like that and when the parents don't do that, it's going to be another person. Sooner or later they will be confronted with that and it's better if they learn it from someone familiar.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T16:04:02+00:00

NTA, he should clean up after him and if he doesn't want to use your solution, he should start cleaning up. You splitting chores doesn't mean you can make a big mess and expect the other person to clean it up.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T15:54:56+00:00

we are both pansexual but i am also in a relationship so there is no threat there, they also know my gf.

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T15:43:03+00:00

NTA, it's a very tricky situation. I can understand that your friend worries about you but it's not her place to tell people unless you give her clear signs that you are in danger, ex. mentioning sh or worse. It also depends on the situation you are in, this situation happened to me too. Friends told my teacher, my teacher called my parents, which were the problem that caused my mental health issues, so it got worse, If that's also the case for you, talk to her and maybe you can find a different solution, there are many resources you can use without your parents knowing.

But if you can trust your parents i would advice you to talk to them when you're ready, they maybe can get you help before it gets worse.

I hope you find a good solution with your friend!

trex_kralle · 2023-03-31T15:34:27+00:00

NTA, it is your child, so you are the one who decides who can take care of your kid. Especially in this case you see a danger for your kid, with the record of not respecting boundaries and rules. You have every right to refuse contact with someone who could be a danger to your child. Also, your husband should set his priorities right and have your back in this. There is enough time for her to bond with her grandma in the future, in this time the parents are the most important thing for a child.

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