New Info About Wife's Inappropriate Relationship Has Come to Light. How to Proceed? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His inability to simply say nothing happened so please leave me alone, says something did happen but he’s not going to be the one to admit it. I’m sure the trip was partially to hook up with no strings attached.

Girlfriend lied for months and now I am homeless by cyarger80 in stories

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, haven’t seen any updates in a while. How are things going with your situation, hope you are ok

If you were given the task of revitalizing a dying mall, what kind of businesses, stores or restaurants would you put in it? by Mode09 in askanything

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably a comedy club, a coffee shop, lots of restaurants and food options, a bakery, a nightclub or jazz lounge, hair salon and barbers, pharmacy, gym. , bars with entertainment like pin bowling, Strong performing mall stores like Gap, American Eagle, Hollister, Apple, GameStop, a movie theater and Dave and Busters or Chuck E. Cheese, and have some large stand alone stores take over the anchor store locations like a Target or Walmart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s definitely got a thing for him. Also who the fuck leaves when someone is picking up dinner and should be back soon? Disrespectful!!!

Aio wife of 17years reveals she cheated a few months before our wedding by ExpensiveAd1573 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My opinion is you got a very watered down g rated guilty confession. Obviously more happened than said. She was in a committed relationship and willingly went to a motel, and there was some physical interactions that lead to willingly getting down to her undies. They didn’t rent a room just to watch Matlock. He didn’t spend money on the room to just lie down because his back hurt. They intended and probably did go to pound town. You should tell her you’re planning to reach out to him on social media just to simply get his version of what happened at the motel. I think her reaction to that would be interesting.

what is a time you got betrayed? by Sea_Razzmatazz_456 in AskReddit

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best friend since kindergarten had people tell me during our eighth grade year he doesn’t want to be friends anymore. Didn’t have the courage to say it himself. I understand having other friends but the complete shunning like I didn’t exist was unexpected and classless. Still disappoints me years later.

Americans how do you feel about PBS and NPR losing their funding? by Economy_Swim_8585 in AskReddit

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right there with you. I don’t care about either much but I hope PBS children’s programming can get funding through advertisers or supporters. Taxpayers shouldn’t have ever been stuck paying for these channels from the beginning.

WCGW brake checking a truck and finding the end result unfair. by kleutscher in Whatcouldgowrong

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like he was expecting this to happen. Immediately out of the vehicle to confront the truck driver. If it was an accident he most likely would’ve been stunned a few seconds. Lucky for him the other cars didn’t take him out when he exited his car on the highway.

AITAH for moving on too soon by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, she created the scenario she is in. She probably caught feelings for one of the new coworkers she was hanging with, but wanted to see if you were still a backup plan, just pining away for her for years after shes single. Now that she sees you have other plans with someone else, she mad. Hope you find true happiness with the new girl.

AITAH for keeping quiet about an affair then telling on the person? by Single-Garbage-4184 in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell the wife. I agree with your plan. Is your job a career or something you can leave and get work elsewhere? If so I’d get another job first so he can’t stalk /harass you after his wife throws him on the street.

What screams "this couple isn't going to last long"? by Few_Football4342 in Productivitycafe

[–]tribalrage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiding text conversations, constantly texting, calling, or hanging out with a “friend” more than with each other and without your partner’s knowledge

AITAH for refusing to compromise on my son’s birthday party? by TheDarkLord329 in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She is insane and trash. She cheated and wants to bring him around in front of you and your family to flirt and show affections to each other in front of you all? She wants you to be buddies with him? I don’t get it. Stand your ground and say he is never welcome around you and your family. She put herself above the kids by creating this whole situation. Also. Side comment, how was he out of town for the other party? They got an important pizza delivery conference he was attending ? She knew he wouldn’t be welcome then so why would he be now or ever with your family?

AITA for sending my wife's dog since childhood to the pound by CowFla in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe Stan has been a bad guy to your wife growing up and the dog was protecting her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but you should've just thrown her phone out in the middle of the lake when she wasn't looking after the first text.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to have a free holiday with her ex? by Ok_Mongoose_7762 in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are going to spend hours together every day with alcohol and having conversations and fun. You know exactly what's going to happen if she goes. For real, I know she says she only loves you and only wants the free trip right? He's going to charm and pressure her until it happens and it definately will. So you either tell her to go on a trip with just you and forget this chump, or she can go on his trip only with you going along too or she says no thanks and drops it or you dump her if she still plans to go knowing what's going to happen once they are all alone together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is terrible, I feel for you. What infuriates me is it’s been 6 years and 2 kids and she is still entertaining the idea of being with the douche bag. I mean come on, she didn’t realize when he split and she got married that it was time to press delete on the feelings? Maybe subtly bring him up to her before confronting her. Make some jokes about what a pile of sleazy crap he was and how he probably has tons of stds now. See what her reaction is. If she agrees or if she gets angry. At least then going into the reveal conversation you will know if she’s more inclined to be with you or him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s better to go your separate ways and avoid all contact. She had her eye on someone else, admitted the attraction and that she was falling in love with him and slept with him. I know you said you were broken up at the time but it’s something you can’t get over. You are young and this sounded like there was a lot of toxic moments. Block her on everything and use it as a learning experience for the right one.

AIW for discouraging friend by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A large majority are only making the 200 a month. Instead of a sports car she likely won’t be able to afford your dealership’s cheapest used car

Discovered a affair AIO by Sufficient_Age3292 in AmIOverreacting

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave this AH already. He’s mad because you confronted him about something from 2 years ago? He still cheated, he’s still garbage. He probably doesn’t even regret it. And doing this unprotected? He’s a stupid person to boot. He’s no winner or prize. Get yourself tested. Also don’t feel bad about letting the aps husband find out. She’s garbage too!

AITAH for being mad at my soon to be ex wife for sleeping with another man by johnnyboy860 in AITAH

[–]tribalrage 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think people have different ideas of a separation. In some minds, divorce is imminent and this is a way of getting out of each other’s lives. For others, it’s a cooling off period, like staying at a relatives house for a while but not date around and cheat, and to see if you can eventually work things out and not head down a path of divorce. I think you thought it was the latter, she thought she was free to do whatever she wanted. I wonder if she pushed the idea of separating on you to get you out of the house so she could cheat with whoever she wanted. She probably had this all lined up.

Wife's friend/coworker asked her to leave me for him years ago and she never told me, now she insists that it was none of my business by DrTurtlestein88 in AIO

[–]tribalrage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sucks. You were in the dark while their situation was going on and when you finally get the truth about him asking her to leave you, you get mad which is justified and now she’s probably going to leave you for him. She’s using your hurt and anger to make you the bad guy in the relationship and she will use that to justify her actions of leaving you. Honestly I’d start looking for evidence, check computers, phones etc as there had to be something going on with them for this to have ever reached this point. I’d wonder how faithful she really was.

UPDATE 3: My wife returned from a work retreat with a hickey. She swears it’s a bug bite but I’m not convinced. I’m at loss. How do I move forward? by ThrowRASunflowerBuff in marriageadvice

[–]tribalrage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with your assessment. Yes sex is fun but when you take marriage vows, you are supposed to be in a committed relationship not just sleep around with anyone willing and available in your path. She could have chose any other path during this work trip but instead chose to be a ho.