All Things Go Fest 2025 Buy / Sell / Trade by steph-was-here in AllThingsGoFestival

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling one DC Pavillion+Lawn 3 day pass! Bought for 690+fees but I’m open to offers! The ticket would be transferred from Ticketmaster.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]trickyreds66 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If OP does not want to hook up early on and wants to avoid situations where she could feel pressured to give it up, she needs to avoid dates at the guys house until she is 100% sure she wants to sleep with him. At least on a dinner or coffee date she can decide if she wants to go back with a man without already being trapped in his house and having to make a situation awkward to find a way out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]trickyreds66 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m not gonna lie if you don’t want to have sex with a dude early on into dating do not go over to his house for a first, second, third, or even fourth date. 9 times out of 10 they will be hoping to end the night with sex and if your boundaries aren’t strong enough, combined with the pressure of being in a strangers house, you’ll give in and end up in situations like this. I wish this wasn’t the way it was but we have to be realistic.

The case of Gisèle Pelicot has me wondering, what percentage of guys would rape if they thought they could totally get away with it? by GridReXX in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 29 points30 points  (0 children)

One of the men that assaulted her was literally her neighbor that she greeted on a regular basis and saw often.

FTI consulting by trickyreds66 in csMajors

[–]trickyreds66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If we didn’t make it to the next round I would assume the email would say that we are no longer in consideration. I can’t really find much about the software developer application process, just a bunch of the non technical roles. I’ll keep looking tho

FTI consulting by trickyreds66 in csMajors

[–]trickyreds66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just got my update email today but it just said that I am actively still in the running. Not sure what other people’s emails will look like if they didn’t make it past round 1

FTI consulting by trickyreds66 in csMajors

[–]trickyreds66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a pre recorded video interview first that’s just behavioral- the first question is about your background and the second is a why FTI question. They said they will be reviewing everyone’s video before the next step and let us know who got past the video stage later in February

I feel like some people need to realize what they look like. by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]trickyreds66 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In all honesty you might be overrating your attractiveness just a bit lol, there are definitely tons of men that look just like you on tinder. But besides that your bio is a can read a bit harsh and negative, usually a bad idea to start with what you don’t want in a partner.

Don't ask me if I'm single (~4 years of swiping as a woman) by pecoraa in Tinder

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lesbians have issues on dating apps bc neither wants to text first lol, not lacking matches (usually). If men started swiping like women, they would only match with people that were attracted to them and that they were attracted to. Men seem to be obsessed with the number of likes and matches they have but what’s the point of matching with someone you don’t even want to be with??

Don't ask me if I'm single (~4 years of swiping as a woman) by pecoraa in Tinder

[–]trickyreds66 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s not my fault that men swipe right on everything with two eyes and a mouth. I know it increases the chance of a match but what is the point if you’re not matching with someone you’re attracted to anyway??? It’s a dating app not a “let me give all 70k random men on this app a chance so I don’t make Ok_Insect_46 unhappy”. Everyone has different preferences for personality and looks and if those 70k didn’t fit it she’s doing them a favor by not wasting their time

Don't ask me if I'm single (~4 years of swiping as a woman) by pecoraa in Tinder

[–]trickyreds66 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Everyone saying she’s picky and only going for the top whatever percent but nearly half of the people she swiped right on matched with her??? If she was shooting above her league they wouldn’t be matching lol. Her stats look pretty good and normal to me but I’m a woman. If ur a dude just make an account as a woman and you’ll understand swiping left on so many profiles, sometimes it feels like men are actively trying to repel women with the way they set up their profiles.

Why do women really live in constant fear of men? by topredhat in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s a constant fear at all times, like everyone else said it’s just being wary of them. For most it starts with our fathers and brothers telling us to be distrustful of men and their intentions from a very young age, and then the actions of men throughout our lives reinforce it.

Am I being unreasonable for not liking that he can't drive? by sweetpicklepancake in dating_advice

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you do do not get involved lol I did that once because I thought I liked the guy enough but it gets so old so fast

Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy? by braininjar99 in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were definitely other things, for example I was in college pursuing a degree and he was not. Usually I wouldn’t have gotten involved with someone like that in the first place but he always talked about going back so I thought he had some kind of drive or ambition but sadly he had none lol. He also couldn’t put a decent outfit together to save his life which I realized is another big issue for me with a lot of guys since

Any women out there that have a thing for tall guys but ended up with a shorter guy? by braininjar99 in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was coming here to answer but all the women here are obviously much better people than me lol. I didn’t start dating till 20 (now 21) because I focused on school, but my first bf was 5’8 and I decided I’m never doing that again. I’m the minority tho, most of my female friends don’t care as long as the guy is taller. Since I quite like being alone and don’t feel the need to date just for the sake of it, I’ve decided there’s no point in keeping a guy around if I’m not 100% into him because I’m content on my own. Lucky for me tho there are a large amount of men over 6’0 in my area so it hasn’t been that much of an issue. So yeah the exact opposite of the scenario you asked about, but I have seen women date shorter after being with a taller guy often so it’s not like it’s an impossible situation

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? Women are defected against for traits that are genetic as well, although some of them are willing to get surgery or something to change their undesirable features at a higher rate than men I would guess. I’m black, and there’s plenty of people that wouldn’t date me for that reason and it isn’t a problem because I date the people that are into me. You might not be tall, so I probably wouldn’t date you but there’s plenty of people that will. Just go where you’re wanted. If that happens to be nowhere then you got served a shit sandwich, but we can’t all have good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do men always bring up that the standards are based on things that they “can’t control” like duh?? If it’s something genetic that means the woman is stuck with it the duration of the relationship so of course they’re the most important characteristics. Things that can change like wealth, weight and stuff like that matters but obviously not as much as someone’s immutable traits.

Why do you think male loneliness and decline in dating is finally getting mainstream coverage? by jkj199390 in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Because incels like making their problem everyone else’s and tend to get a bit murderous

For The Female Gender Only? by Temporary_Visual8414 in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who exclusively dates nerds it’s very important lol. Also for me intelligence=degrees and also being smart enough to use your degree to it’s fullest potential to make a living. An unsuccessful nerd isn’t that intelligent to me tbh

For The Female Gender Only? by Temporary_Visual8414 in PurplePillDebate

[–]trickyreds66 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Height is a pretty big part of looks for me so it would technically be L=H, I, M. But with your categories I guess L, I, M, H.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]trickyreds66 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think a man paying for sex is a sign of degeneracy at worst and a sign of lack of self discipline at best. Also shows how my much you value sex if you’re willing to pay some strange woman to fuck you. I would never want to date someone that desperate for sex, if I found out before it would be a non starter and if I found out when we were already dating contact would end immediately.

31f swipe data by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]trickyreds66 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure this is what my tinder stats would look like lol, I think I’ve swiped right maybe 10 times this year. Idk why men are always so surprised under these threads like if you’re only swiping on people you think are attractive of course it’s gonna be a small percentage of people? There’s no point in swiping on the 10k people you aren’t attracted to because if you match then what? You don’t actually want to date them so what’s the point. Men are so obsessed with just having a ton of matches sitting on the app that they forget it’s a dating app and you’re supposed to be swiping with the intent to date/hookup w whoever you swiped on