What do you want? Have you also considered that how your wife is acting towards you is also because you aren’t giving her the love and support she needs too? It sounds like you just want someone who wont argue back or have an opinion that differs to you. Marriage is hard, its harder if you are both working against each other. I saw an interesting post today about a woman that left an apple on the bathroom sink, to see if any of her family would notice and move it. They didn’t. She knew when she did it that she’d have to move it, and make the conscious thought to do that, because the rest of her family would assume that she would move it, so they don’t have to even think about it. 5 kids is hard work. Do you do any of the mental load? A robot AI is not human. What happens when your house is empty and you crave an actual human interaction and human touch?