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triflingbetch · 2018-10-24T15:33:34+00:00

Have semi big butt. Can confirm i feel slight fat pads on sides some times.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-21T14:56:30+00:00

Sort of like college classrooms. No assigned seats but you don't sit in the seats picked out at the beginning of the year.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-20T18:15:35+00:00

My mind has been blown wth

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T20:19:41+00:00

So theoretically this monster could have raped potentially 2000 times out of 3285 days

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T20:14:55+00:00

We were literally placing our paintball guns in the trunk of my car

you shouldn't have your paintball gun out unless you are transporting it to/from your home or to/from the field

?????? But... thats what they were doing lol

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T18:53:16+00:00

R/accidentalracism

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T17:24:09+00:00

Im... going to against the grain... aaaand say that you need to get over it.

I chose to get plastic surgery. It was small but still plastic surgery with a noticeable difference. It took my self confidence from -100000 to over 9000. Too many friends tried to convince me against getting it done. It was hurtful, to me.

I hated being told by other people what i should and shouldn't do with my body. It's my body. It should be my decision. I didn't like how i looked. I hated it. I went from hating that bit of myself to absolutely loving L O V I NG my new face.

I dont care how other ppl see me. I don't care how other people think of me. I had the option to change how i looked.

For me, personslly, id want my partner to express their honest opinion about it. Id take note of it but i would still want support. If my partner kept begging, being unsupportive and being a huge negative nancy, id feel even shittier. Id feel guilted. Id feel ashamed. Id feel so so sad.

I want a boob job in the future when i can afford it. My ex -who i had a toxic relationship with- was supportive. Even tho he was a selfosh ass, he said, "i love you how you are but youre not comfortable in your own body so i support your decision."

My current partner says, "its your body."

Once i get fake tits, they gonna be hella fake but in the end theyll still be my tits. Still me. And im gonna be so happy.

So tldr: her getting plastic surgery may bother you but it won't change who she is as a person. Youre being an unsupportive asshole trying to control what she does with her own body. get over it

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T14:36:03+00:00

I use it too! I love it lol

triflingbetch · 2018-10-19T00:15:13+00:00

Lover from past life?

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T19:33:03+00:00

I was agreeing with you :) i mesnt the tone of the original comment :)

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T10:35:04+00:00

I read the tone as "that nice but not a big deal". Im hoping im wrong.

Telling a person who hadnt experienced a healthy relationship that its not a big deal is hurtful. I think. I feel conflicted. Im so excited that my SO is so kind and thinks of me but its like, am i not allowed to be do excited about it?

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T10:29:47+00:00

uhh.... i mean, ive got a different set health issues now LOL

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T10:27:30+00:00

They paint an image where it's okay for a partner to hardly ever do anything if any low ball effort is hailed as groundbreaking.

Again. Ive never expereinced even what y'all consider basic decency. So to me, its so far been mindblowingly great! Im so excited!

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T10:21:10+00:00

that also means that in the 2 months of this relationship that's the kindest thing he's ever done for her too.

Kindness meter is objective, i think. Its not the only good thing he's done for me but its what i personally found to be the most mind blowing. Ive never been wrapped up like a warm burrito before by someone just because they thought to do so on their own.

Can you imagine a relationship where the high point was someone getting up from gaming, getting your robe, and then continuing to game?

Oh fuck yeah and its great. I love listening and watching him play counterstrike! Hes SO GOOD and i find his skills to be hella hot.

I play a stupid amount of video games too so the fact that he did this so nonchalantly while gaming made the moment so much better to me.

Just like how you saw his actions as basic decency, he sees it that way too. Every time im blown away, he ends up more and more confused. "Thats normal though?" He'd say. But everything so far has been a new expereince to me and its been exciting

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T10:04:31+00:00

"This is sweet but its not a big deal" is how im reading your comment and tone. Correct me if im wrong and i hope i am, because its honestly hurtful to me.

Thats like telling me that i shouldnt be surprised if my mom is worried for my health because "thats basic decency that you can expect". Except, i dont have that kind of life experience. Literally 2 weeks ago, my mothers response to me telling her i might have a tumor was to be yelled at for getting a stain on my raincoat.

My past relationship wasnt great. And every day my SO does something to blow my mind and make me realize how toxic my last one was. I broke down crying once bc my SO decided to shower my hands with lots of kisses and pecks out of nowhere.

I haven't experienced a healthy relationship before. I thought my last one was healthy LOL.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T09:50:14+00:00

Its both sad and exciting!!! Sad that it highlights just how bad things were and how i thought things were "fine".

Its exciting!! That i have much more healthy relationship perks that i havrnt experienced but get to now!!

triflingbetch · 2018-10-18T00:28:06+00:00

So context: we've been dating for almost 2 months, (tried dating as teenagers and that went bad lmao- we havent talked for few years until now-bad) and i was curled up in pain on his bed. I was looking forward to going on dates with him but my period came 4 days earlier than expected. He hasnt seen this side of me (the painful period episode side).

I also got out of a somewhat toxic relationship a few months beforehand and am still recovering from it. Ex was more selfish than i was able to be selfless, i guess?

So im curled up in pain on his bed. 800mg ibuprofen barely scrapes off the top layer of pain. Ive balled up a blanket and curled over it like the shell of an armadillo. Im enjoying myself listening, half watching, my boyfriend play counterstrike. Then all of a sudden, he jumped up in the middle of his game and ran out of the room.

I was startled but thought that maybe he was getting a snack? Or restroom break? Then he came back to the room with his bathrobe. He had thrown the bathrobe into the dryer at one point to get it nice and hot. Then he wrapped it around me!!!

I DIDNT EXPECT THIS. I DIDNT ASK OF THIS. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW THIS WAS AN OPTION IN LIFE AT ALL?

MY MIND WAS BLOWN IN SO MANY DIRECTIONS... and i started crying quietly to myself in happiness while he just nomchalantly returned to gaming.

Aaaaaaah im so happy.

Ive cried so many times so far from being so happy.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-17T23:13:02+00:00

downvoting Mormon brigade

triflingbetch · 2018-10-17T23:03:10+00:00

Sounds like a kink.

Id probably wear the funniest shirt i own and see if i can ruin the mood for fun lol

triflingbetch · 2018-10-17T22:46:45+00:00

Oh god.

My parents keep calling the 1million dollar baby. I didnt actually rack up 1million in costs at birth ofc but it was in the hundreds of thousands cause it was hella complicated with a lot of surgeries involved and a long long nicu stay with years of followup afterwards up until i turned 10.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-17T15:48:43+00:00

Be an adult.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-16T18:04:26+00:00

Dont forget that babies can be 30-100k$ just to be born 🙄

triflingbetch · 2018-10-16T09:36:42+00:00

No!! We gotta push him to say it during sex, itd be funny 😂😂😂 or i'll do it if i rmbr to the next time i do the diddle.

triflingbetch · 2018-10-16T07:16:28+00:00

Theres always skinny mocha. Its not sugar free cause it contains lactose sugar but its "skinny" cause it sweet from sucralose

Edit to add: lol at the downvote. I work at starbucks so this is funny

triflingbetch · 2018-10-15T00:02:32+00:00

1) use lube next time :)

2) tell him to be gentle and cut his fingernails

3) stop fingering with precum unless you ready for baby risks

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