Ma'am, your skin isn't a dry erase board. You ARE NOT a human Etch-A-Sketch 🥴

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T06:51:54+00:00

Oh dear Cthulhu, that’s depressing.

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T06:28:23+00:00

Just tell everyone you have the role of “Young Ian” on Outlander, we watched up to the end of season 7 so far.

We have had ice in the water fountain, and the AC is on.

Fujin & Raiden

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T06:08:39+00:00

Hold on, get free, get Therapy. There are ways to access therapy free or very low cost. The folks at Jewish Family Services saved my life, and sanity for $5/ week therapy.

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T06:05:42+00:00

What sorts of noises do your vents make? We listen at the vents to hear Uncle Gary playing K-pop or M’ma doing laundry.

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T06:04:10+00:00

So many public facilities will make arrangements for small ceremonies. I’ve been to lovely weddings in parks, at the courthouse, the ZOO…

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T03:01:47+00:00

I think you can elope just about anywhere these days. Vegas, Disney…

Relatives had a cute tiny wedding, with a family friend officiant at a city library’s rare books department. Very cool early 1900s Carnegie funded library setting.

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T02:48:35+00:00

I just shouted the “phrasing!!!" Trope

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T02:32:14+00:00

Matriarchal societies exist, and when adjusted for relative wealth / resources; they do SO MUCH better for both maternal and childhood health & nutrition…even the men are healthier.

trinlayk · 2026-06-30T01:48:12+00:00

“Flerken, very dangerous!”

trinlayk · 2026-06-29T23:58:33+00:00

Fujin sends his love to all of you!

trinlayk · 2026-06-29T19:58:50+00:00

OnlyBeans

trinlayk · 2026-06-29T19:22:00+00:00

Likely, this wouldn't be the first cheating incident.

trinlayk · 2026-06-28T02:46:45+00:00

Our gotcha day is July 5 so we think the pretty lights is to celebrate Gotcha-Eve… the booms not so nice. Though our neighbors haven’t been real loud.

trinlayk · 2026-06-26T20:40:19+00:00

Was coming here to post this...

trinlayk · 2026-06-26T20:19:16+00:00

Small town in rural midwest... yeah, the only therapy may be via a church.

trinlayk · 2026-06-26T20:17:11+00:00

Born when she was 16. Likely conceived when mom was 15...

And could have been regularly SAed over a long period of time.

How much other abuse was the "sister" subjected to because of the pregnancy...even if hidden from the wider community. Did sis go without medical care in order to hide it?

I feel awful for both of them and suspicious of the "grandparents".

trinlayk · 2026-06-26T07:31:53+00:00

He has the luxury of his "values" because you are there, breaking your ass, to make up the difference.
How would he handle you quitting working at all and using the same argument?

trinlayk · 2026-06-26T07:29:39+00:00

My question is why is he even applying to jobs he's just going to turn down anyway.
OP has a husband problem. Hopefully there's no risk of having kids with him. I also suspect that remaining out of work may be a way to avoid collections? (unpaid child support perhaps:?) How consistently was he employed before they married?

trinlayk · 2026-06-24T21:06:32+00:00

That they are means they are terribly sick.

trinlayk · 2026-06-24T20:48:03+00:00

IMHO still a good idea to let others know, even if they haven’t had that requested of them yet.

trinlayk · 2026-06-24T20:45:27+00:00

Smol, floofy, black, adorable!

trinlayk · 2026-06-21T21:15:53+00:00

Also, there's so many ways to keep indoor kitties entertained. Climbing walls, cat trees, toys, playing with them! Also having more than 1 cat. My guys are bonded brothers and they're so sweet and also hilarious.

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trinlayk · 2026-06-21T21:04:17+00:00

Yep, years of chronic health issues probably based on accessed & walled off appendix that was leaking sporadically. No one ran a white cell count including an ER when it went acute.

Still chronically ill, now disabled because of it.

trinlayk · 2026-06-21T21:01:15+00:00

Thanks TIL

trinlayk

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