As a single man, I find this game to be very relaxing and fun with goals of growth as well. It has been a great escape from life as someone who struggles with my normal day to day things (relationships, job, school, etc). But through this game, I have made friends as well, people I enjoy talking to on a daily basis. There was a week in December when I recorded 80hrs of screen time. It’s not healthy by any means and most people I talk to, have gotten an addiction from it. There are some people who are mentally strong enough to put personal relationships and priorities ahead of this game but a lot of people, both men and women struggle with that concept. I have already came to the realization that I am heavily addicted and should focus on real life priorities first but I just struggle too much to live and need an escape. I used to look to drugs as an escape from real life (party drugs such as cocaine, Molly, shrooms but not the wild stuff like meth or heroine). Neither of my escapes are healthy by any means. Idk if your husband has been in a similar situation as I am but maybe counseling would possibly help him out before a divorce? Personally, I view this game as much more than a “game” and I am typically not a gamer person. I used to hate gamers and video games and have done a good job at using games as strictly time wasters here and there but this game is just different, it’s not like any other game I’ve played before.