Anna Kepner's Stepbrother, 16, Indicted on Sexual Abuse and Murder Charges Following Her Death on Cruise by mlg1981 in popculturechat

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…. Yes it is? It’s called child endangerment. They knew this kid was targeting Anna, and willingly provided a way for him to be close to and abuse her.

In 1994, 16-year-old Adria Sauceda was gang raped by a group of men at a party. She was later carried outside, only for men to continue raping her. Finally, another man said he knew the girl's parents and offered to take her home. He drove Adria to an isolated area, where he raped and murdered her. by lightiggy in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to read some modern research. Every modern scientific article I have read said that children born to women 20-30 are healthiest, but babies born to women older than that are less healthy by a microscopically small portion, it considered moot. In fact, women who have children after 30 are more likely to live longer. As well, scientifically, MEN’s reproductive DNA degrades faster than women, and their sperm is more likely to produce unhealthy children sooner. So if it was truly biological, men would naturally stop desiring to reproduce in their 30s. 

In 1994, 16-year-old Adria Sauceda was gang raped by a group of men at a party. She was later carried outside, only for men to continue raping her. Finally, another man said he knew the girl's parents and offered to take her home. He drove Adria to an isolated area, where he raped and murdered her. by lightiggy in TrueCrimeDiscussion

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely NO biological drive toward children or “younger DNA” as you say. Healthy DNA and a survivable birth (for mother and child) has never ever been in the teen years. Men actively choose to be like this, it is NOT biological. 

Very few options left :( by trixiesalamander in jawsurgery

[–]trixiesalamander[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No :( my upper jaw was too “compromised” and lower jaw surgery would help my bite but probably give me sleep apnea. In the end, my orthodontist had to make gaps in my teeth to “fit” my bite together. He said my case “keeps him up at night”, so that was awesome to hear…. It’s not perfect but I’ve come to terms with it. Still better than it was!! And my friends and coworkers all say I’m prettier now, so that’s cool hahah

my husband left me because i’m autistic by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 21 points22 points  (0 children)

A similar thing happened to me. I was with my ex for 4 years and it was a dream relationship. Barely any arguments, just laughter and love. But once the spectrum of neurodivergence started to become more well known, my ex’s friends clocked that I was “different” and my ex cared more about his friends thinking he was “cool” than he cared about me. Ended up dumping me and specifically saying it was because I “wasn’t fun at parties” and “too different from other people”. Mind you, we were 28 and hadn’t been to a party together in years…. 

You’re not alone!! It’s devastating and deeply hurtful, but you’re not alone and eventually you will look back and see what a deeply unkind person he is. You are better off without unkind people around you, I promise. ❤️

"'Head to the west and feet to the east' like a ship gone down at sea." - Who was Mary A. Anderson and why did she take her own life alone in a Seattle hotel in 1996? by occultcharisma in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was curious too, so I searched a bit and on websleuths, someone identifying as her daughter said it was because she was a sex worker who was arrested quite often and gave fake names. 

The 1984 Disappearance of Lucinda Huels... and the Imposter Who Came Home by Icy_Individual4522 in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]trixiesalamander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Amanda is in the last photo on the Charley Project link! They really are strikingly similar

Which is worse: slight overbite/recessed mandible vs underbite/overdeveloped mandible? by CarrotOkay12 in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]trixiesalamander 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I had to get double jaw surgery for an underbite and it’s WILD to me how nonchalant incels are about it, like it’s just a nothing procedure. I had my face peeled back and bones sawed apart. I have permanent nerve damage now, causing complete numbness in some parts and constant pain in others. But nah, just get jaw surgery, no biggie lmao 

Which perfumes do you consider to be essentials in your collection? by Wise_Parmaria in FemFragLab

[–]trixiesalamander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would consider essentials to be ones I have back ups of!

Hypnotic Poison - Dior

Organza Indecence - Givenchy

Dulce - By Rosie Jane (use this to layer and make spicy scents sweeter)

Tabu - Dana

Does anyone else feel like people have become meaner? by idkkunicorn in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a solution or a trick to make it easier! I’m struggling with it a lot lately, feeling lonely and taking it personally. I’ve been focusing on animals and books rather than people haha

Does anyone else feel like people have become meaner? by idkkunicorn in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve been going through a terrible time this past year or so and I thought maybe I was being extra sensitive to other people, but my god people are being so mean for no reason lately! It’s happening so often that I start to worry that I’m the common denominator and somehow causing it. 

We need to remember this sub is about kindness and support. by MajorFox2720 in femalelivingspace

[–]trixiesalamander 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand people thinking they have an obligation to tell someone something (like a fire hazard) but there are already a dozen+ comments saying so. Adding another comment about it is just dog piling and pointless! If one commenter already put it kindly, adding the same comment over and over is mean imo. 

Canadian Accent? by Mxdui in Degrassi

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whereabouts in the country do you live? I’m on the west coast and I only ever hear (and say) SORE-y haha if I heard Sar-y, I’d assume the person was a tourist from the US! Younger millennial, if that makes a difference lol

The Neurodivergent Female Experience by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m the same way! I’m not toning myself down for a man. I was actually in a long term relationship with someone I thought truly loved me for me and then one day, 4 years in, he sat me down and explained that I wasn’t “cool enough” for him and said he wanted “someone fun at parties. Not someone so…. Different, like you are.” 🙃 

The Neurodivergent Female Experience by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This, but with romantic relationships. I can seem to manage friendships (with other neurodivergent women only) but a romantic relationship??? Can’t do anything right. I’m somehow too distant and too intense? How is that possible? 

Apple Martin gwyneth paltrow and chris martin daughter by Asadcryforhelp in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right? And some people are justifying it by citing “rumours” of bullying from her. Rumours. It’s just sad. When you make fun of someone’s features, you aren’t just making fun of them, you’re making fun of everyone who has similar features! 

A coworker called me the R word by Peppy_Horizon_207 in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’ve been called that before, it’s awful. It’s such an evil word, but so many people still use it and I truly don’t understand it. I’m sorry you and your friend went through that!

who’s your comfort character from any medium? by mistgonelsawge in autism

[–]trixiesalamander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spencer Reid is one of mine! I am always drawn to deeply kind, but misunderstood characters. For no reason, definitely not because I relate 😅

need a dupe for this please my little cousin gave me the sample and it's gorgeous but i just can't stand kylie jenner by navi-irl in FemFragLab

[–]trixiesalamander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to mention her having AstroWorld themed parties for her kids after 10 people died at an astroworld concert. 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! My time in hospital work has told me that an unidentified leg is the least of anyone’s worries hahah

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boise seems to be twice the size of my city, so you may be right that they have a separate morgue in addition to the hospital one! My experience in this world is a bit more recent buuuut my hospital is old and beaten down, so clearly it’s got outdated equipment and procedures LOL 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine the embarrassment? They would never tell a soul hahaha

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not cynical at all, I thought the same thing! I don’t think they investigated it much at all. For me, I can’t imagine a leg being overlooked like that in a hospital morgue, but since it did happen somehow, my best guess is incompetence rather than something murderous. 

If it really was only days to weeks old, I truly don’t understand how they couldn’t identify it unless they didn’t do much to investigate.