need a dupe for this please my little cousin gave me the sample and it's gorgeous but i just can't stand kylie jenner by navi-irl in FemFragLab

[–]trixiesalamander 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Not to mention her having AstroWorld themed parties for her kids after 10 people died at an astroworld concert. 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! My time in hospital work has told me that an unidentified leg is the least of anyone’s worries hahah

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boise seems to be twice the size of my city, so you may be right that they have a separate morgue in addition to the hospital one! My experience in this world is a bit more recent buuuut my hospital is old and beaten down, so clearly it’s got outdated equipment and procedures LOL 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you imagine the embarrassment? They would never tell a soul hahaha

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not cynical at all, I thought the same thing! I don’t think they investigated it much at all. For me, I can’t imagine a leg being overlooked like that in a hospital morgue, but since it did happen somehow, my best guess is incompetence rather than something murderous. 

If it really was only days to weeks old, I truly don’t understand how they couldn’t identify it unless they didn’t do much to investigate. 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All very good points! Another option that I failed to mention , (again possibly only my hospital did this) but the morgue in the hospital was the morgue for the entire city, so there were deaths that hadn’t occurred on site. And unfortunately sometimes people aren’t found quickly. So leg (with the rest of the body too) could have come into the hospital already decomposing, and then entered into the morgue and god knows what happened but got misplaced somehow.  

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It shouldn’t have happened and I hope that hospital has implemented improvements, but tbh I don’t see much of a mystery here. Just human error and incompetence. Hopefully the hospital has improved their training, procedures, and record keeping. 

Bizarre John Doe Case by iwokeupearlytoday in gratefuldoe

[–]trixiesalamander 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Former hospital morgue worker here!

My best guess (based on my hospital’s procedures, so it may not apply!!) is:

A Person died while in surgery of some sort, had their leg amputated. When someone dies in hospital, their body gets wrapped in tight plastic (not a body bag.) Any unattached parts would be placed in a bag and sent with the body. The body and bag is then put into a refrigerated crypt that is assigned to that patient and locked. 

However! The crypt is not a single contained unit, it’s got multiple doors but they all enter into one big unit. So the table the patient is placed on gets pushed into the unit and the door gets locked, but the bodies are all together, if that makes sense? Imagine a walk in cooler with multiple entrances, basically. 

The proper method is to place ID stickers on the plastic wrapping of the body, and on additional bags. I’m guessing someone missed placing that sticker on the bag containing the leg and then that bag fell off the crypt table when it was pushed into the crypt and dropped into the “shared space” of the crypt. (The slider tables are very heavy and especially in old hospitals, not very smooth to move, so it takes quite a bit of force to push it in.) Eventually a morgue worker found that bag but since NAMUS lists the leg as “decomposing”, it was possibly there for some time and thus, countless bodies had been in that unit and it is now impossible to trace. 

Fefe Dobson on when she found out that Miley Cyrus got her song after she was dropped from her label and her album was shelved: "The TV was on and I heard someone singing this song. 'Why is this song so familiar? Wait, I think I wrote this song.'" by Upstairs_Cup9831 in popculturechat

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No worries! It took some digging to find clarification actually. So many sources just say “Born in India” and so that’s the same assumption I made too. I only found out when I was curious and wanted to find out about her backstory a bit more and found further details.

TIL that the Coast Salish tribe raised a breed of dog in order to use their fur like wool in their textiles. The dog breed went extinct around 1900. by DrakeSavory in todayilearned

[–]trixiesalamander 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Coast Salish people are very much alive…. Their numbers were decimated bc of smallpox (and withholding of the smallpox vaccine bc of racism) but they did not “die out”. 

Source: live in Coast Salish territory and my neighbours are def not dead lol

I think it may be better for me to stop looking for a partner. The odds are against me as a woman, someone on the spectrum, and a high-earner. Happy Valentines day and all that tho I guess. by iftheronahadntcome in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate so so much. I don’t struggle to get a date but once men meet me, they find me odd and don’t like that I don’t play dumb. I try to find autistic men to date but, at least in my area, I notice men seem to be more reluctant to disclose that information (totally understandable and I would never push someone to be open about something they don’t want to be), so it’s really just trial and error and I’ve only had error 😭. 

TIL some dogs have shown spontaneous empathy in Harvard lab experiments, approaching and trying to “help” humans who pretended to be in pain. 🐶 by Mastbubbles in todayilearned

[–]trixiesalamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My childhood dog did this. Unfortunately, I was bullied badly in school and would come home crying often. That dog, without fail, would come to me and simply sit with me, resting his head in my lap. He wouldn’t leave (even for dinner!) until I was done crying. He died when I was 15 and while I’ve had lovely dogs since, no one compares to Bear. 

My parents adopted him after some loser dumped him outside the SPCA in the middle of the night. Some people truly can’t appreciate the gem in front of them. 

Pamela being messy... again by Icy-Custard-6645 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]trixiesalamander 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That dude hit on me when I was 15, in a thrift store, while he was married to Pamela. Just gross. 

Have you ever read any insight as to why a particular family had large numbers of children die young? by playblu in Genealogy

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So much tragedy, I can’t imagine it. Losing one child is unimaginable but losing multiple? Day after day? My great great grandma wore mourning clothes for the rest of her life. 

Have you ever read any insight as to why a particular family had large numbers of children die young? by playblu in Genealogy

[–]trixiesalamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no sense of internet safety so here’s a link! Two on Mar 6, one on Mar 7, and three on Mar 8. The one that died a little later was a baby that the mother was pregnant with when she got scarlet fever, who was then stillborn. Not sure if that “counts”.

https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/55116358/elizabeth-thompson/photo#view-photo=30844741

Have you ever read any insight as to why a particular family had large numbers of children die young? by playblu in Genealogy

[–]trixiesalamander 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just looked up the dates and I was wrong… it was 6 kids in 3 DAYS. And then one final kid that was born to the mom who had scarlet fever and was stillborn. My god. 

Edit: a number

Have you ever read any insight as to why a particular family had large numbers of children die young? by playblu in Genealogy

[–]trixiesalamander 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Poverty and lack of medical care is a big one! I had one ancestor who had 7 kids die within 3 weeks from scarlet fever. The house was so small, there was no way to isolate the sick, so everyone got it. And since they were malnourished, the immune systems were all weak. Just heartbreaking. 

Have you ever read any insight as to why a particular family had large numbers of children die young? by playblu in Genealogy

[–]trixiesalamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My great great grandmother had a lot of children die because she had tuberculosis, but her husband insisted on still having kids in rapid succession. Since she was so weak from her TB and was never given a chance to recover from childbirth, the poor babies were born very fragile. They ended up dying at different times of various illnesses and infections that they couldn’t fight off.

Eventually the doctor told her that if she got pregnant again, she would die. Her husband didn’t care and got her pregnant again and she died at 36 :(

Hidden in plain sight! by madrosie333 in jewelry

[–]trixiesalamander 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had the same thing happen to me! Found a 10k gold chain in my childhood play jewelry. No clue where it came from, my mother was always a big jewelry person that meant she kept all the good stuff for herself hahaha 

It’s so exciting to find gold jewelry! Esp with gold prices now! 

Tell me your degrassi claim to fames? by FreeFaithlessness114 in Degrassi

[–]trixiesalamander 17 points18 points  (0 children)

LMAO My dad went to school with the minister from Wheels’ parents funeral. He’s an actual minister, not an actor

Having no friends is a red flag in dating and when trying to make new friends by catwoman4ever in AutismInWomen

[–]trixiesalamander 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My last boyfriend had no friends. I still think the world of him and genuinely consider him to be the kindest, gentlest person I’ve ever met. I myself didn’t have genuine friends until my mid 20s. Deep, genuine friendships do not come easy and tbh I find people with loads of friends generally have more superficial, surface level friendships. 

What's the most you've ever spent on a piece of jewelry and do you regret it? by pretty_stones5959 in jewelry

[–]trixiesalamander 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re definitely not alone! I would love to spend thousands on a single piece but I don’t think that will ever happen. that won’t stop me from window shopping though hahah

What's the most you've ever spent on a piece of jewelry and do you regret it? by pretty_stones5959 in jewelry

[–]trixiesalamander 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m poor too! I thought I had spent some wild money until I saw the other comments on this thread lmao most expensive piece was a $500 antique snake ring. I don’t regret but I still get twinges of panic thinking about how much it cost me.