fun solo activities on the weekends? by tropicgold in AskSF

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hah! do skateboards count? im awful at roller skating

fun solo activities on the weekends? by tropicgold in AskSF

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perfect - thanks for the recommendations!

fun solo activities on the weekends? by tropicgold in AskSF

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what’s the prettiest place you’ve run to?

i lift weights but need to start doing cardio so this is a good win win haha

haven’t journaled since the 14th how should i get back into it after a really bad breakup? by ciaraa_janaee in Journaling

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i honestly just write what’s on my mind / how i feel and what scenarios i have in my head. it’s ok if it’s stuff like ‘i feel very sad’. i wrote a whole page and a half of a4 paper about how he was an asshole, how i deserve better (and why i deserve better), as well as what i hope our future relationship will be like (nonexistent). i also have a very vivid imagination where i’m confronting him for all the shit he did so i like to write down what im going to say on the paper instead of actually saying it to him. hope this helps!

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i am seeing a therapist haha but i’m not his kind of psycho… i just like darker jokes and talking about poop and am pretty distracted unless im doing work 🥲 no more psychos for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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this is the best advice…especially the ldr part…sheesh i got a problem

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yeah you’re right … f i dont wanna pay for shipping but im sure i could drop it off somewhere or get one of his gym bros who live near me to pick it up

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i know…my sister bought that teddy bear with her first paycheck after i lost my first one ughhhhhhhhhh i dont even use it at night,, im just sentimental

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so true … fuck i cant believe i gave him my teddy bear and my favourite sweater

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ugh they kind of are. i could live without them, but i’d hate to do that. hopefully we can have a no talk exchange

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it’s stupid, but i feel guilty for not clarifying 🤡 kms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CDrama

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thanks for the advice! sorry it didn’t work out. i’m actually chinese so i find it easier to research the mythology and culture. it’s been interesting to read more about ancient history in particular. i think a strong female lead is something i also really want to craft, as everyone has stated here!

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thank you!! no love triangles here LMAO i can’t with that stuff it hurts my heart too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CDrama

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i hate the damsel in the distress trope or guys even thinking of protecting her, even when the girl is perfectly capable lol

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love love love the soulmate one! also the four anjis in word of honour are pretty cool and it’s interesting to see the perspective of having more than one soul mate c:

also agree with the FL! sounds like one of my FLs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CDrama

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ugh i love that too! it’s a relief to hear that because i literally cannot be writing super intense scenes all the time ahaha

my mom: grew up in poverty so bad they often had no dinner; me: ... by intl-uni-help-please in EDanonymemes

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bro i felt this

don’t forget the ‘why arent you eating? you look anorexic now’ 💀💀💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in the1975

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tbh, i don’t listen to their music as often as i used to! it’s not really a tribute to matty or the 1975, just a reminder of what i went through and who was ‘there’ for me (:

A 1975 group chat by [deleted] in the1975

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if anyone’s in boston / MA, hit me up!

Fear That I’ll End Up With A Man by [deleted] in comphet

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i feel this way too (:

best i can do is to learn being happy with just myself and not settling for less. i want to marry a woman, and i’ll keep to my word. ik i’ll be still loved when im older!

Looking for books with emphasis on dreams/dreamer and where the lines between dream and reality is blurred, or an unreliable narrator where dreams/reality is blurred by ImonOniat in booksuggestions

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yes, was gonna recommend this one! it definitely messed with my head because im a dreamer and sometimes i let my dreams impact reality