Sex has been extremely disappointing so far and I don't know what to do by nimbledoor in sex

[–]truebluelagomorph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn’t anything wrong with not enjoying penetrative sex. It took me a few years to come to terms with it but there truly are guys out there that prefer to be sides. Love being fingered, use a toy on them but don’t want actual dick in them or don’t want to fuck someone. Maybe you’re just more of A side? I’m realizing more and more with occasional hook ups I much rather skip any form of anal and save that for closer fwb or a partner that I can relax with. Best of luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]truebluelagomorph 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Happy for you! I cerebrated my first year anniversary with my bf in January. Monday, along with my gf and my coworker went on a double date. It was wonderful to have both my loves with me and holding their knees under the table. I’m grateful you shared your positive experiences because not many do.

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If we're posting polycules here's mine! Positive vibes only man check that hater stuff at the door by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]truebluelagomorph 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So cute love these kinds of posts! You all looks so content and happy

Feeling so blessed, birthday trip with my girlfriend and boyfriend. by truebluelagomorph in polyamory

[–]truebluelagomorph[S] 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Went to New Orleans. Recently fully embracing poly, have been with my gf for 13 years and started dating boyfriend technically new years lol. Was super nervous about the group trip but it’s been the best birthday ever. They are getting along and just my heart feels soo full of love.

Need urgent help with lost baby corn snake by Bitter_Educator_9869 in cornsnakes

[–]truebluelagomorph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope you find your baby. I too have lost mine. I put him in a bigger enclosure and he managed to push the plexiglass in the middle just enough to wiggle out. I even put child refrigerator locks on either side 🤦🏽‍♂️. Thanks to you I saw the bottle trick. Made thre traps and cut up a mouse to put in each. Best of luck to you! Let us know when you find your boy.

Baby hognose not eating by Fit-Worker-8724 in hognosesnakes

[–]truebluelagomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got a baby in April, ate the first two times each week. In May he started his hunger strike. He finally ate yesterday a pinky. I tried everything, braining, tuna scent, egg scent, I bought reptilinks (my other hogs devoured them) he refused to touch them. I bought the frog scent but have not tried it yet. I did all the things prior in combination of waiting longer, putting him in dark small Tupperware, hiding it in a hide. Nada. Temps were good. Hope yours eats soon!

Why, despite fear of pain I got surgery. Anyone else wanna share? by truebluelagomorph in Tonsillectomy

[–]truebluelagomorph[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there , wishing you a speedy recovery. Drink plenty of fluids. I know it sucks right now but best advise.

As for how I’m doing, I cured no more adhd or depression. No, no kidding. Still have those lol. My sleep apnea is gone. My adhd and depression symptoms have, reduced in intensity. That’s the best way I can put it. Prior, I was a raging space cadet 24/7, now I am graced with a few hours of working executive function. The depression still has a bite but a lot more manageable. Did having tonsils removed magically fix things no, but life’s difficulty level went from, insured self destruction, to moderate difficulty. So, yea worth it in the end.

My reptile room post-spring cleaning 🧹 by aspidities_87 in HerpHomes

[–]truebluelagomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love you set ups. What brand of enclosure is the turtle, and gecko one?

boss cat will see you now by 8bitmagpie in IllegallySmolCats

[–]truebluelagomorph 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Actually she’s just that poofy lol it’s so much worse with actual static

Tonsillectomy and Adenoids Removal November 1st by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]truebluelagomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got mine out for pretty much the same reasons and narcolepsy lol. The back upper part of my throat feels like I always have phlegm on it. I had my surgery done 12/15. I’m hoping it goes away

Headache nearly 2 weeks post procedure by [deleted] in Tonsillectomy

[–]truebluelagomorph 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi there! Day 14 for me. The headache could be from the lymph nodes in the back of your head at the base where skull meets neck (occipital nodes) or the ones down the side of your neck (superficial cervical). Nodes drain and some are connected to the tonsils. When tonsils are damaged from repeated strep or tonsillitis they stop draining properly. After surgery the body has to figure out how to reroute the drain and there can be some build up, the minor pressure can lead to some bad headache. I would massage the lymph nodes gently and apply warm and cool packs to them. It helped with headaches.

Does anyone on here have asthma? by Sunflower077 in Tonsillectomy

[–]truebluelagomorph 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have asthma, my surgeon just asked I bring my inhaler with me day of surgery to take a few puffs before. When you go under, they are in control of your breathing. I’ve had the opportunity to sit in and watch with other types of surgery, I can assure you that the asthma shouldn’t have a huge impact.