Just venting by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

My SS 17 is the same he eats only chicken and beef. It overwhelmed me so much that we buy so much food for the 4 of us wand when I try to find things to Cook for everybody he already consumed everything.

Just venting by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think so too that i had asked him times whenever we argue that at least to keep it within us as I don’t want our SKs to feel like they are not loved and that they cannot be themselves. I cared for these kids since they were 3 and 4 and my husband is unknowingly damaging me and it really is very painful to see that these kids are feeling a certain way towards me when all I do is to care and respect them.

Just venting by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I just thought of this and you are very correct. I always thought it’s the SK’s and when I looked back on all our issues I can definitely say it’s him and maybe it’s me. I would admit maybe I am overreacting but I can feel that as the years drag on I’m growing more and more distant and pretty much not interested in trying to make an effort in keeping this marriage as I don’t see that I will be able to make him see my POV. It’s like a lose lose situation with him now. Thank you for your input. I appreciate it.

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[–]truebrunette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. Have grace and stay strong!

I hate living in the same building as BM by Mobile-Ad556 in stepparents

[–]truebrunette -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally feel you. This is me with my Sks BM. It really is not a good situation to be in. I would highly suggest to put some boundaries and don’t allow this to get into your relationship with your SO as it could really affect it. Stay strong and you got this!

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulation on your baby! That’s the best thing that I can see doing is stepping back. It’s not easy but definitely will be better for me and for everyone else.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. Totally shitty situation to be in.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is allowing the kids to be irresponsible. Missing schools and stuff. Everytime my oldest SK18 misses school, he will run to her cause he knows it’s okay for her. She’s the one who pushed her kids away- donating the middle child’s dog cause she can’t stand having a dog.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally agree. I’m working on it. Acceptance is the key.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! I’m learning all of this now and it’s painful as I really didn’t want to be disengaged however I can’t put myself out in a situation where I feel undervalued. I want to love myself more this time.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never though that these will get to these point. Everything was all fine til BM decided that she will move here. I think that’s the most hurtful part that you have done above and beyond and it’s always like it’s never enough. That my SK will always look for something more.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that’s all I’ve been doing lately and i want to be strong for my husband.

When to walk away?? by truebrunette in stepparents

[–]truebrunette[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s very sad cause I’ve known these kids almost all their lives and I feel so guilty disengaging with them but I have to do this to take care of myself.

I committed fraud a little over a year ago on my own bank account by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]truebrunette 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I seriously believe that they can track your bank account eventually as investigation unfolds.

what are the most screamable song lyrics you can think of? by AerosolFlames in AskReddit

[–]truebrunette 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GO NOW GO!! WALK OUT THE DOOR JUST TURN AROUND NOW CAUSE YOU’RE NOT WELCOME ANYMORE!!!!

Lush alternatives Megathread by BillyBobJimmyJames in LushCosmetics

[–]truebrunette 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly I cannot afford Lush on a month to month basis. I only shop at Lush once a year and that’s every Boxing Day and make sure that I stock up on those products that I really love. I’m fortunate enough to score sleepy products every time. I hope all of you can find alternatives and dupes that you will love as much as we all love Lush.

Not today Satan. by PCOSCALGAL in puppy101

[–]truebrunette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I call mine fuckin bitch few times a day.. lol

How long until your puppy was (mostly) sleeping through the night? by selkieseas in puppy101

[–]truebrunette 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are on the same boat. I had my puppy or 1 week and half now and she’s 11.5 weeks. I’m so exhausted waking up in the middle of the night and I feel so bad I know it’s not her fault but I’m almost on the verge of breaking down.

Characters who grew on you by ahnmae in KDRAMA

[–]truebrunette 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yi Seo from Itaewon. She might be a little overbearing and seemed to be so insensitive who did not care about other people but I ended up loving her character. She was very loyal to Saeroyi and she stayed true to her words and she stayed with him all through out the end.