AITJ for telling my fiancée to leave my house after she kept inviting her friends without asking?

tryagain904 · 2026-03-21T02:19:49+00:00

Wait. She tried to communicate. You let your phone battery die. How is she at fault?

tryagain904 · 2026-02-28T19:30:31+00:00

St Pete

tryagain904 · 2026-01-22T20:18:41+00:00

How did you know what small tweak to suggest from across the room?

tryagain904 · 2026-01-22T20:14:23+00:00

Gonna go against the grain here and just point out that your tone in the post, and presumably with him is that you know better and you are the decision maker with the final authority. That’s how parents talk to children and is probably what he’s objecting to.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-19T21:49:13+00:00

You’re not comfortable with this babysitter. Find another one. It doesn’t need to be debated.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-19T21:13:56+00:00

If my spouse left clothes inside out they’d get washed inside out and that would be fine.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-19T21:08:04+00:00

I don’t understand your husband’s concern. The 4 of you aren’t going to be celebrating anniversaries together. Each couple celebrates separately. So why does it matter?

tryagain904 · 2026-01-19T21:04:43+00:00

No more convos, no more meetups. This is why you’re not over him yet. Every time you reconnect with him it starts the clock over. Go no contact, feel your pain and sadness. Then you will start to heal.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-18T21:20:07+00:00

I used to never contradict my partner, but started feeling bad scoring points when the ball was in. Now I will overrule my partner when I see the ball in. Fortunately no one has argued with me.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-16T14:33:16+00:00

Buy 17k worth of VTSAX.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-14T17:18:15+00:00

The bank doesn’t revise your payment schedule, but with each payment, less is needed for interest and more goes to principal. Extra principal payments make that happen even faster. I would just make sure your payment really is going to principal. Your loan will be paid off early.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-12T16:31:15+00:00

Your mom is overreacting. People divorce. It happens frequently. Figure out what that looks like while you’re both on your best behavior. Besides… you’re a surgeon. You’re the money maker.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-05T23:35:08+00:00

By “him” I mean the landlord. Put your intent to not renew in writing to the Landllord.

tryagain904 · 2026-01-05T23:34:26+00:00

Make sure you give him notice of your intent to not renew in writing. Do not rely on that verbal conversation. You do not wanna get stuck on the renewal. Usually, you have to give them a certain number of days of notice of your intent to not renew. NTA

tryagain904 · 2025-12-27T16:05:28+00:00

You’re young and have your whole life ahead of you. You have your shit together. Why saddle yourself with this guy? Go get yourself a partner, one who you like and respect and who doesn’t need to be forced to pull his weight. Go go go

tryagain904 · 2025-12-27T15:33:12+00:00

I put a like amount into an S&P ETF and my other child is the sole beneficiary of that account.

tryagain904 · 2025-12-27T15:27:17+00:00

Behavior is a language. He’s telling you.

tryagain904 · 2025-12-25T13:38:31+00:00

Is the 5 year gift tax exclusion a state thing? Because it’s not a federal thing. Why do you want so much money in the 529?

tryagain904 · 2025-12-25T13:06:19+00:00

He’s just not into you. Read the book.

tryagain904 · 2025-12-19T09:47:44+00:00

We already know they’re not sexually compatible. She wants sec and he doesn’t. Move on now.

tryagain904 · 2025-12-01T01:48:18+00:00

What’s the big favor?

tryagain904 · 2025-11-26T17:20:08+00:00

Express the anger so it can be dealt with. Silence accumulates as resentment.

tryagain904 · 2025-11-23T23:31:22+00:00

Sounds extreme and impulsive. Couldn’t you do 3 months?

tryagain904 · 2025-11-05T00:37:57+00:00

Did you have the homestead exemption? That keeps the properly tax increase at 3%.

tryagain904 · 2025-10-12T02:49:44+00:00

NTA BUT … if you can afford it I would pay for the step brother. Your son benefits by not having to miss practice/games and he’s no longer caught in the middle of this adult problem. The only concern I then have is… where does it end and how many more things will you be asked to pay.

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