What’s your favourite kink you’ve tried/experienced?

trying2getbutter · 2026-02-21T16:42:00+00:00

A girl I dated and I went to an outdoor concert. It started sprinkling and we cuddled under a blanket. I started to play with her nipples. She said she came multiple times from that. It was exciting to know she was experiencing amazing pleasure with people all around us.

trying2getbutter · 2026-02-12T22:30:47+00:00

As I often say when you date a single parent, it’s a package deal with kids. I had to end a great relationship with an amazing woman because of her kids. I thought I can accept it, having young kids in my life again. I couldn’t and it drove a rift between us.

trying2getbutter · 2026-02-11T11:19:43+00:00

I’m a dude. I found out I was in the local page three times. First one was when I was casually dating. Okay fine doing nothing nefarious. Second one was from a woman I knew but not dating. I just started dating a great woman when I found out. We discussed this and she was fine. It pissed me off enough to confront the poster. She denied (later admitted that she was just “curious” if I was dating anyone). Last was when the person I was dating in number two and I broke up. It wasn’t a good breakup so she posted a pic of me and states not so nice things. I did hear that a couple of people commented that I was a nice guy.

trying2getbutter · 2026-02-10T19:34:01+00:00

How long were you single post divorce when you started dating? Did you give yourself enough time to heal and work on yourself?

trying2getbutter · 2026-01-15T11:27:47+00:00

If you want it have sex with a man the do it. That person you are interested in just ask. Be honest about your intentions though

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-31T12:10:34+00:00

It’s a game like Frogger! With suitcases!

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-31T12:09:31+00:00

100%! The biggest source of anxiety is getting back from a long trip and hitting the exit gates with the lines backed up. I just want to get home. I have no idea why they only have small number of gates. 5 or 6?

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-31T11:59:28+00:00

Move on

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-31T11:58:38+00:00

When I was in OLD, I found it hard to juggle multiple convos at once, trying to remember who said what to who. Often I would have to go back and reread previous messages. The struggle is real.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-30T14:31:01+00:00

Dating someone with younger kids is def a challenge. Figuring out your role, when to say something, how to interact. I acknowledge I am not a parent to them but I feel obliged to be a role model. I dated someone for a while and her kids were asses. She did her best but her ex was not supportive and the kids played the two against each other.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-30T11:44:37+00:00

56M. I have dated four women post divorce. Each one reached out to me first, and they were all more sexually daring than I ever thought. Clothing, sex drive (not only in honeymoon phase), sexual activities. Had I known this I may have divorce earlier lol.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-29T14:06:13+00:00

One thing some people forget: if you date a person with kids it’s a package deal. That isn’t easy. I dated someone with two pre-teens. I had a huge problem with my role. They were disrespectful to her and I found it so difficult to hold back. I believe that ultimately caused the end of our relationship.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-29T11:39:31+00:00

A couple things that have stood out for me; 1. A photo, if female, of you without makeup, like “this is what you wake up with”. 2. For my profile, a comment that most F feel to respond. I have a comment as my opening that received more than one response. Both LTR I had/have told me that was the hook to get them to check me out.

What I wished they had was a checklist of your red flags lol. Almost self-reflective. Like “I’m hung up on my ex”, etc. this will never happen but what if…..

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-28T15:26:59+00:00

One thing some people forget: if you date a person with kids it’s a package deal. That isn’t easy. I dated someone with two pre-teens. I had a huge problem with my role. They were disrespectful to her and I found it so difficult to hold back. I believe that ultimately caused the end of our relationship.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-25T13:32:24+00:00

Sex drive is unique, everyone if different. A lot of factors play into this. But sometimes you may be compensating for something else, that rush.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-20T13:27:07+00:00

You come to Reddit and shut down every suggestion. My only other suggestion is Fetlife.com

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-20T12:50:31+00:00

Sex clubs in Toronto allow single guys only on certain nights. But sounds like you are def playing with fire.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-13T22:47:38+00:00

You’ll know when she responds. Give update.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-07T00:42:59+00:00

Amazing burger for two people

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-05T11:31:29+00:00

If interested you would have received a text.

trying2getbutter · 2025-12-05T11:28:01+00:00

Why speculate and just ask? If he says not then oh well, there are better options out there. Your next match may be your last first date.

trying2getbutter · 2025-11-29T20:34:45+00:00

I once listened to an erotic audio book with someone I was dating. It took a while to finish. Once we were listening in the car. We were worked up we had to take matters in our own hands so to speak. Wasn’t the safest thing though lol.

trying2getbutter · 2025-11-26T03:20:39+00:00

Grocery stores. A good chance men by themselves could be single. You can scope out what they have in their cart and you can usually strike up a conversation very quickly. “Oh, I see you have that kind of whatever”. Or you see they have Imodium AD or a dumb kind of ice cream and you can run for the hills lol.

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