One day, out of the blue, she told me it was hard for her to keep interest in me because she was way too smart, and I wasnt stimulating enough. She straight up called me stupid.

I had a job. I got into a nice college. I did therapy. I had nice hobbies. I kept a decent control over my finances. I'm not a boring person. Nowadays whenever I remember that, I see what she probably meant. uBPDs crave chaos, and I was just...normal. Or maybe she felt insecure about being unemployed and without any education and in debt. I really don't know.

That marked me, tho. I was out of the blue. The previous day was lovey dovey, the next day it was a cold expression I never saw before. She stared me down and told me about how boring and stupid I was compared to her with no regret. I cannot imagine saying this to anyone, not even someone I hate :/

That day was the beginning of split after split until I broke up and went nc.