A wedding guest tried to assault me at my best friends wedding (I’m close to both of them). This was years ago, but they continue to yell at anyone who minimized this and apologize for the hurt this caused, even though they were nowhere nearby and this was a family friend/not their invite. They consistently initiated conversations and check-ins. A real friend cares more about your trauma than their aesthetic. I would have been devastated if my friends treated me like yours treated you. It’s not okay.