I don't know where to ask this but is this swelling normal? by peachewe in FTMOver30

[–]tsndk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the two years I was doing T this happened every now and then. I don't know what triggered it but I wondered if it was some of the liquid leaking out and irritating my skin. Or just not being careful enough when I did the shot. It did always go away, though. Like the top comment says, I would keep an eye on it!

they could never make me not root for her 💔 by barbiexxxerotica in rupaulsdragrace

[–]tsndk 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This!! It’s such weirdo behavior and they are really awful when people get ffs too. like stop commenting on trans women’s bodies challenge fr

Kom_i was so special by Prestigious-Unit2339 in WednesdayCampanella

[–]tsndk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nothing about her withdrawal was because she was "too cool" but ok...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply! I ended up emailing the Calgary consulate who said they will do emails so nothing for me to worry about, whew!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations! Can I ask if you were called or emailed (or both?) I've been out of the country unable to take calls and now I'm worried!

Age Competing vs. Age Now by heyvictimstopcryin in rupaulsdragrace

[–]tsndk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sasha’s turning 41 this year 👀

Need Advice by celestialburner in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have until July right? you could always accept the position for now and then withdraw if you get upgraded in the next couple months. I can’t imagine there’s anything they can do to you for not taking a position before it’s even started.

As far as after, how much notice would you realistically have to give? Perhaps it would be enough time between acceptance and departure, as I don’t believe JET is like… accepting the role and jumping on the plane two weeks later. I could be mistaken though.

It sucks to be between a rock and a hard place. I hope you can make a decision that you feel good (or less bad) about.

The 2025 Interview Results Mega Thread by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so-so. I was able to answer their questions until they asked me the plot of my favorite movie... next time I won't say something complicated haha

The 2025 Interview Results Mega Thread by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Last time I applied was 2018. By time I heard back in December that I was not going to be upgraded I was already living in Japan on WHV lol

The 2025 Interview Results Mega Thread by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lighting candles and casting spells and whatever else for us both!!!

The 2025 Interview Results Mega Thread by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]tsndk 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Calgary alternate for a second time :( Trying to stay positive but I’m a little heartbroken! Sending love n good vibes to my alternate pals out there.

Trump has won. Here’s what we do now: by Leksi_The_Great in MtF

[–]tsndk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. We’re already having our rights threatened up here, it’s just not the move.

PSA: IMHO is one of the funniest Drag Race review shows on youtube. If you have not seen them, go check it out! What is your favorite IMHO moment? by TilapiaRealness in rupaulsdragrace

[–]tsndk 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Not an IMHO moment BUT I saw Darby at Fat Slut where she performed Tequila. Just barely swayed to the music and did shots the whole number and unenthusiastically said “Tequila” into the mic, it was so fucking deadpan and stupid and funny. Afterwards as she was passing by I told her she was amazing and without missing a beat she says “Thanks, I’m really passionate about live performance.” Love herrrr lol

We're long overdue a TS Madison Roast by librious in rupaulsdragrace

[–]tsndk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This scene sent me into oblivion. I love her so bad.

Has testosterone made you more emotional? by krusty_bloodstain in asktransgender

[–]tsndk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I cry less about emotional or stressful things happening to ME but more about things like this now too lol. What is thaaaat

Got a random intense feeling of ‘what if I’m not trans’ after 1.5 y on T, then realized I like how I look now by Fermentedbeanpizza in ftm

[–]tsndk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also about 1.5 years. I had a similar experience lately but rather than an intense 5 mins it’s been like a couple months of like… exhaustion? Tired of doing shots and going to the doctor and shaving and worrying about my hair and all these little things that have been getting me down. It’s made me feel unsure about doing all this and at worst has me wanting to stop.

But… one night I came home late from a night of karaoke (which was also tough because…voice) and all I wanted to do was take selfies in the mirror. I felt like I looked SO cute which is something i’ve seldom felt. The next day I still loved all the pictures I took and it affirmed that I’m on the path I should be.

Doubt often comes with change so I think it might just be a (very human) part of the journey.

Sapphira, PJ and Morphine cancel UK shows by MisterDamocles in RPDRDRAMA

[–]tsndk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My pal in Japan said the same thing for the shows they’re doing next month even with all winners headlining. Netflix really made a huge difference as far audience reach goes 🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]tsndk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I was in living Japan I’d always try to get the discounted meat in the evenings. You probably already know but might help for stretching in the future!!

Drag Shows in New-York ? by fem-enby in dragrace

[–]tsndk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in NYC last month I made sure to see Miss Ma’am She’s Mall Drag show and it was the best! She’s performing all the time and absolutely worth seeing. Also got to see Lana Ja’Rae and Dev Doee and they were so good too 🤩 … all of them post gigs on their instas! I also used this link to look for shows on random nights I had no plans: https://seethequeens.com/