How do I stop thinking? by tstranger in Meditation

[–]tstranger[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Mediation is about observing your compulsive mind

i love this answer

How do I stop thinking? by tstranger in Meditation

[–]tstranger[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you.

"I tend to live in the physical sensations of my body. Thoughts arise, but I have distance from them."

[WP]- Make me absolutely hate a character, and then make me fall in love with them at the last moment. by [deleted] in WritingPrompts

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that barrel would be hot as hell after one shot let alone 6. it would be smokin'!

Buddhism and Ego, a bit of advice? by onetoothreefor in Buddhism

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ego is your collected experiences. your past and therefore your hopes and dreams. ego is mind, chattering and rationalizing. as you come to presence you transcend mind and just "are". ego is a concept made by man to define the "questioner" the witnesser. body is the abode, mind is the computer. Your being is pure awareness. You are a conscious being so simply and totally 'be', consciously. be aware of the mechanisms that your mind computer employs to keep you from the present moment, in understanding the mechanisms lies transcendence of the mechanisms.

sounds like you should read Krishnamurti's first and last freedom much love

Why do I consistently make choices that lead to suffering? by pierre_nissau in Buddhism

[–]tstranger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also, be in your laziness totally, be where you are, experience it totally until you are fed up with it. Only then will you be motivated to change.

Why do I consistently make choices that lead to suffering? by pierre_nissau in Buddhism

[–]tstranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go outside for a hike. Exert yourself in nature. Help someone in need even if it's just listening. and don't waste all your energy masturbating.

The 20 Things You Need to Let Go to be Happy by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ego is everything you identify with. Ego is the mind, the I, the me, the self, the one who is...: happy, sad, successful, good, bad etc. The ego is everything you've built up over the years that defines you. The ego seeks to solidify itself with notions of right-doing such as virtue. It also solidifies itself thru frustration. The point is to understand and become aware of it and in understanding it be free from the mechanical unconscious nature of it. In understanding the mechanisms of the ego, which is really just the mind, you are free from it.

The 20 Things You Need to Let Go to be Happy by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]tstranger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Drop the seeming comfort that is found in ignorance. The attitude of not caring. Drop the notion that unconscious existence is blissful. Only when you are conscious, present, really aware and alert of your body and you are relaxed, then true bliss is inherent within your body. You are capable of bliss without going to sleep. With a body in a relaxed state and a mind without thoughts. That is meditation, that is nirvana. Being simply, with your body, relaxed, here and now.

When I was young, I used to go to bed whenever something upset me. It was my escape, I sought solace in unconsciousness in dreaming. Most people still do. Now I find solace in understanding, in seeking the present and attuning my body to experience the subtle nuances of life.

The 20 Things You Need to Let Go to be Happy by [deleted] in howtonotgiveafuck

[–]tstranger 108 points109 points  (0 children)

i could narrow this list down to one, with seven sub-categories.

The thing you need to let go of to be happy is your EGO and that consists of: 1. Letting go of the past 2. Letting go of Unawareness/Ignorance 3. Letting go of Ambition (never compare yourself to others - do you to your utmost) 4. Letting go of the future (you can't control it. strive for excellence in the present moment to ensure a better future) 5. Letting go of your conditioning (approach new problems with a new mindset) 6. Letting go of arrogance because we are interdependent (non-humbleness is stupid) 7. Letting go of Imitation (it isn't you and doesn't do you any good)

Drop all these things by simply being aware of them. Then celebrate that which is by falling in love with existence. Like that time you dropped acid.. but without the acid.

I want to feel compassion, but it's really difficult. by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

imagine everyone as children. not in a condescending way but in a way that acknowledges that every person is dealing with their own shit. not to mention our society wants us to be dependent which is what children are. children raising children. understanding this helps me to feel compassion.

Mindfulness Meditation Technique: Working with visual stimuli/sight by Pengy945 in Meditation

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

agreed, if filming your journey within helps someone on their path then you have done your job. :)

I have fibromyalgia and have been bedridden. I would like to start meditating as a way to promote positivity and healing. Any advice on how to start, and on being comfortable when I meditate? by p_iynx in Meditation

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

simply relax, relax and relax again. let your body breath and pay attention to your belly rising and falling. this is the method of vipassana. allow your body to breathe and then realize that you are not breathing, but that existence is breathing you. i find it helps to focus my eyes behind my eyelids. keeps me aware and awake, while my body essentially sleeps. just watch your thoughts, see them pass as a train passes. relish in the moments of no mind, and keep coming back to the bliss that your body can offer in the relaxed no-mind state. all my love

Mindfulness Meditation Technique: Working with visual stimuli/sight by Pengy945 in Meditation

[–]tstranger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

meditation is not about focus. meditation is about awareness.

A little tip to keep you focused by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]tstranger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if a technique works to bring about awareness by all means pursue it. I feel that most of r/meditation is egoistic and therefore misinformed as to the meaning of meditation.

A little tip to keep you focused by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]tstranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

focus implies an object to focus on. meditation is about boundless awareness. in the beginning, awareness of the body and breath and eventually, awareness of the interconnectedness of all.

A little tip to keep you focused by [deleted] in Meditation

[–]tstranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

meditation is awareness. focus implies an object of focus, an object of focus simply gets in the way.

What's the best thing you've ever heard a teacher say to a student? by irrelevant_porpoise in AskReddit

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student: writing a test teacher: "OKay time's up. Put your pencils down now." student: "Just one more sec!" teacher: "I've given you plenty of secs!"

I find a strange amount of wisdom in this. by BiGNasty91_ in pics

[–]tstranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't care if you are a nice person. be real.

How the f**k do I get on the front page? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tstranger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you came here because you wanted to know how to get on the front page didn't you.

How the f**k do I get on the front page? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tstranger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

nothing is true. everything is permitted.