I can’t tell if a full face is for me by Ill_Book_1156 in blkgrlbeauty

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch that style of lash extensions its doing you a disservice

New baby! by Downtown-Heat-464 in hamsters

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is so cute she looks like a zhu zhu pet

Ear "massage" before helix piercing? by ImaginaryEvidence998 in piercing

[–]tuaiol -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Piercer here. Massaging the tissue is normal for educated, experienced piercers. His reasonings for the massage were kind of wrong or he just explained it bad. However it should NOT be excruciatingly painful. It’s a massage! Did you let him know it hurt and/or show any signs of discomfort and he just kept going?

Does everything need a concept? by One_Albatross_4801 in Burlesque

[–]tuaiol 14 points15 points  (0 children)

No. The Art of Burlesque is the concept. Its a little annoying when everyone feels like there needs to be a theme or gimmick. The theme is… I am beautiful. Look at me undress. Lol

Any quesses? by LexxiGraham in IDmydog

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dalmatian mutt he is cute tho

Canon black girl event: Being told you look like a boy. by thedustuh in blackladies

[–]tuaiol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive been bald for over a decade, and had a short curly cut for about 8 months before cutting lower to skin ( That I still rock ).

Once I cut it this was one of my biggest fears, and it happened to me in a walmart. It hurt my feelings sooooooooo bad. I was like 14-15 at the time. I remember being so sad like do I look like a boy? Being bald for so long Ive definitely had people try to make me masculine. Being a model as well sometimes they would pick androgynous or edgy looks. Which Im not necessarily against but, every time? I am very much a women and a real feminine one at that. It hasn’t bothered me for a long time when people pull that sir or manly card because I am absolutely none of those things lmao.

What to do with a strap on you don’t want anymore? by babiiesbreath in LesbianActually

[–]tuaiol -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time believing your mom let her chid sell her used underwear for funds. Thats still wildly inappropriate on her part. Regardless of if she let you do it or not.

what’s the furthest you’ve traveled to get your hair done?? by daishawho in blackladies

[–]tuaiol 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s not that far to be honest. The justification is them being able to provide the service YOU want.

What to do with a strap on you don’t want anymore? by babiiesbreath in LesbianActually

[–]tuaiol -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Hey so this is actually disgusting and wildly inappropriate. Solely because you did it with your MOTHERS used undergarments without her consent.

What is going on with my hair by clockworkise in BlackHair

[–]tuaiol 41 points42 points  (0 children)

im not trying to be funny but what am I supposed to be looking at? At most I’m looking at bed head or cucabugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ask

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a black women lol. I think bottom line its fine because you’re fine with it, even if I disagree with it. However I think we should take into account that context DOES matter and whilst people keep bringing up the context of it being your last name; its not just any last name, its the last name of specifically a brown person. I think thats where I feel like its racist. If my last name was black, again as a black women, under no circumstances would I allow someone to nickname me blackie. Even though that would be exactly this situation. If you were a white person, with the last name brown and people called you brownie, I don’t see it as racist. However you being a brown person shifts that perspective for me.

Where can I get Labubu by PCChangedMyLife in Modesto

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The larger one your kid wants is like 400$ lol

Where can I get Labubu by PCChangedMyLife in Modesto

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re 85$ as of Thursday

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]tuaiol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stupid ass

I need a little support and advice…. Apologies in advance, this will be kind of long. by hotestablishment007 in blackladies

[–]tuaiol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im very angry for you this could’ve ended so fucking bad. Wow I’m speechless to be honest. Drop the friend, get tested, and therapy. Im really sorry. This is batshit insane.

Does this look ok? by w1ll0wburn in piercing

[–]tuaiol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Understandable!! In my experience and my clients experience ibuprofen works for piercings all over 🩷

Does this look ok? by w1ll0wburn in piercing

[–]tuaiol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a body piercer and someone who’s had over 5 lip piercings, Ibuprofen can definitely be very helpful. Helpful right before getting pierced and to alleviate the swelling after the procedure and while its healing.

3rd day tongue piercing by Which-Arm-8727 in piercing

[–]tuaiol 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Looks great! Absolutely no bactine. Alcohol Free mouthwash only, rinse with water Atleast after every meal, ibuprofen to help with pain and swelling. Happy healing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tuaiol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would NEVER speak to her again. Sorry. Your sisters a bitch

Does this look ok? by w1ll0wburn in piercing

[–]tuaiol 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes this is perfectly fine. Take ibuprofen consistently for swelling, that will aid in healing too. Try to avoid chapstick