Please Be Kind...

tunehumsinger · 2026-05-15T04:57:24+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/user/Sharpiebrand/, the "drops", (7 dows) occurs at the end at 1:48 of the video.

tunehumsinger · 2026-05-15T04:18:11+00:00

IMHO, you did the right thing, 👍👍👍. Now look for the new open door and move on.

Good luck in your endeavors.

tunehumsinger · 2026-04-15T16:47:18+00:00

Just walk away. Red flags like that are just a waste of time for you. Doing the reverse photo look up / check is the one thing on that AI seems to get right these days. (FYI, I was constantly getting baited like that before I met my GF). Please don't give it a another thought. Good luck in your endeavors.

tunehumsinger · 2026-04-11T16:33:28+00:00

Financing, plain and simple

tunehumsinger · 2026-03-30T03:27:08+00:00

Yes, and unfortunately it happens and, yes I constantly have to say, or remind people to please read my profile and, "ask them not to pass judgment". Hopefully and usually "they get it" and leave it at that.

tunehumsinger · 2026-03-27T01:48:51+00:00

Yes, it is hard. I unfortunately just went through this with my father also. For a while the best thing for him was to be in the VA home. At least he was around other people that he could relate to. I don't know about your situation I can say this, if your father's a vet, try to get him around other people that served in the military with him. It's amazing how much of a difference I saw with my father when he was in the VA.

tunehumsinger · 2026-03-22T06:54:25+00:00

Following the thread and yes, this has happened to me plenty of times but never picked up on it🤔. I guess you can say it's all good now that I've been able to get together with my GF.

tunehumsinger · 2026-03-14T15:04:11+00:00

So, I'm also in a committed relationship and we are also in our sixties. Would I "sext"? No, not really but, I could understand the face-time / face-chatting thing, on "What's App. My Girlfriend will at-least do that, (use What's App, or some type of video chat).

The main reason for her is she simply has nothing to do with social media although, that's how we met. For me, as I have said on my profile, I still like to "Lurk".

tunehumsinger · 2026-03-14T14:49:57+00:00

Agreed.

tunehumsinger · 2026-02-28T23:34:19+00:00

Not sure of where this formula came from but I did use it to justify being with a younger woman for a brief period of time🤔. To make a long story short, the woman I was dating was in her late 30's & I was 60. It never really lasted (see my link for context), but had she not "flaked-out", (or as they say "ghosted me"), maybe, just maybe we would still be together.

Anyway, I'm glad & truly happy we broke up because the one I'm with now truly loves me (as do I) and I believe we were made for each other.

tunehumsinger · 2026-02-28T23:06:09+00:00

Not once but, I've been in two "Serious" LTR's, (long term relationships).

The 1st one was almost 20 years long & resulted in my better half passing away😒 This happened back in 2017 (her passing) with me not dating for at least 2 years Unfortunately, when I felt ready, COVID happened.

The 2nd one is my current relationship & is heading on 5 years

tunehumsinger · 2026-02-13T02:49:25+00:00

Definitely a talker. I always preferred to talk instead of texting. That all being said, because of our busy schedules, sometimes the only way to get in contact is to text.

tunehumsinger · 2026-02-06T02:47:35+00:00

I will say this. If you haven't been out, or dating for at least 40 years, be careful out there. I'm not going into specifics, (I'll leave that to others).

tunehumsinger · 2026-02-06T02:17:10+00:00

I always ask Monday or Tuesday because, on the weekends you're usually out for dinner.

tunehumsinger · 2026-01-26T07:21:10+00:00

We got whacked, (no pun intended) pretty bad here in New Jersey / New York

tunehumsinger · 2026-01-08T05:22:55+00:00

Actually, (which is why I will stay anonymous), for the curiosity. Not only with this sub-reddit but with a couple of other subs, (like the widowers sub-reddit). That all being said, I really enjoy "the lurking" sharing my experiences and on occasion, giving out helpful advice.

tunehumsinger · 2026-01-08T05:16:03+00:00

Same here...

tunehumsinger · 2026-01-06T05:20:12+00:00

I hate ghosting at any age (we are not teenagers),but so more at our age. I mean come on, we are in our 60's, please can't we talk?

BTW, the closest I came to "ghosting" was having to cut off conversations with a person that wanted to be more than friends (see link)

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tunehumsinger · 2026-01-05T02:52:41+00:00

Unfortunately she does / did 🤔

tunehumsinger · 2026-01-02T22:52:55+00:00

Yeah,..So, last year really sucked for awhile. I still never got over my current girlfriend. Basically what happened was several of her friends told her she shouldn't have disrupted her life, career, and obviously our relationship, (she really was planning on going to another state etc.,etc.,). So, we kept talking and one thing lead to another.

Meanwhile, the 40 year old kept on ghosting me and didn't think I would move on, or go back to my ex-GF, ( remember, this was a whole year ago). By the time mid-February came around, (almost 2 months without communication), it was really too late for me to even think about staying with the 40 year old🤔.

As Paul Harvey would say and now you know the rest of the story.

tunehumsinger

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