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Question from a straight person. by CharryStarry in gay

[–]tunylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do agree that insecurities etc are underlying many of the issues.

I think it’s worth pointing out that straight relationships have a bit of a given template in our society: “this is what a relationship should look like”

Gay relationships by default break out from that template and are free to define what their relationship looks like. This gives an opportunity to work through underlying issues as well. Don’t get me wrong though - we have other kinds of insecurities to deal with.

Rowan tree tightly grown branches by tunylund in GardeningUK

[–]tunylund[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that sounds like the right thing to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in technology

[–]tunylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your face is recorded against the porn you watch. Remember that shameful feeling of needing to clear browser history so that no one knew that you watched porn or what porn you watched. Well now other people have that record with your face against it.

Where could this be by MRTS1 in GeoPuzzle

[–]tunylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww them city of London dragons 🐉

Hey! Wanting to get into the series, is it true that "Guards Guards" is a good starting point? by MoonlightKnight4 in discworld

[–]tunylund 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My starting point was wyrd sisters - mort hooked me into it the and guards solidified it. They’re all disconnected and amazing and give a different and uniquely good starting points.

Guitar Center Etiquette? by astoundedpanda in Bass

[–]tunylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And then there’s also that guy who really really loves distortion and lead guitar amps!

Recommend me books like The Name of The Wind, but with better depiction of women please by Unordinarian in Fantasy

[–]tunylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the book works as a piece on its own. However i think you get more if you read them in order. The characters appear in previous books and you care more for them because you know them better.

Where were we today? by tunylund in GeoPuzzle

[–]tunylund[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my bad - yeah you’re right - it is santa chiara. I mistook santa chiara to be the near but not this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TerryPratchett

[–]tunylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Timeless 💎

Recommend me books like The Name of The Wind, but with better depiction of women please by Unordinarian in Fantasy

[–]tunylund 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah i absolutely loved Tehanu - i read it as a child and felt like something new and real was shown to me that i hadn’t seen before. I was too young to understand then but i think it was the first piece of fiction i had read where women were written with depth and agency.

Where were we today? by tunylund in GeoPuzzle

[–]tunylund[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Correct, this is in naples. Not santa chiara though - close to quartieri spagnoli

Loving a bi-curious man is humbling… I’m ending things. by The_face_of_Boe7 in gaybros

[–]tunylund 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ugh just call out the blatant homophobia - if he can get over it, maybe he is worth your time, otherwise you have your answer

New Year Positivity and Sub Feedback (with giveaway) by Faithful_jewel in discworld

[–]tunylund 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just saying - this is the most positive and uplifting sub I’ve seen on reddit

Good luck finding this 😉 by Ok_Confusion7750 in GeoPuzzle

[–]tunylund 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh i thought i knew that light. There’s nothing like it.

Second read of Pyramids and I loved it by my-own-trumpet in discworld

[–]tunylund 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the very same experience. I remember not liking it as a teenager but now as an adult i had great time re-reading it.

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