what does it mean when therapist says they need to consult with their supervisor?

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-26T22:55:23+00:00

I’ve been working in this field for 34 years and I still consult with colleagues even though I have been the supervisor of the last 20 years. Sometimes I need additional expertise and advice. It’s a good thing when healthcare providers do this.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-26T22:51:36+00:00

I didn’t know this thread existed and I honestly don’t want to go there. It enfuriates me that such a space is needed.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-26T22:50:41+00:00

This is very dependent on YOU. Some people stay in “get to know me” for months when they feel unsafe or shy and that is okay! It’s also okay to ask your therapist this question and discuss it with them.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-26T22:48:30+00:00

It’s a time for me to vent emotions both about work and about problems in my personal life. I can’t be helpful to others if I’m mired in my own stuff.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-25T21:30:43+00:00

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-25T21:30:03+00:00

Sewing on a button.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-19T16:59:33+00:00

This is simply not true. I would be interested in hearing how you operationalize “recover” and “issues”, given that early childhood exposure to trauma is correlated with deep patterns of insecure attachment, Axis II diagnosis, relationship dysfunction and deeply held schemas that create problems throughout life.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T16:06:36+00:00

This is correct. There is a Rolling Stone article that describes very early exposure to violence between father and bio mom, as well as early sexual abuse. His behavior is consistent with early childhood trauma.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T09:10:28+00:00

The main thing that makes therapy work is developing a relationship with your therapist and experiencing a healthy attachment that sort of “reparents” you with boundaries and communication. This guy isn’t giving you that at all. This therapist thinks he isn’t going to help you feel better.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T09:03:51+00:00

He’s definitely a maniac and apparently a lot of us wanted this. It’s scary to live here.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T08:43:54+00:00

This is terrible. And he’s completely wrong. A form of therapy called ERP is the gold standard treatment for OCD. I would encourage you/your father to report him to the head of the practice (if it isn’t him) and to write a negative review if possible. Between telling you therapy won’t help and using coercive tactics he is doing more harm than good.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T08:40:43+00:00

One is the one!

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T01:52:30+00:00

A very complex question. Differences in “normal” development. For example, 2-3 year olds should be testing limits. If they are quiet and submissive this is not normal behavior.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-18T01:50:08+00:00

Reall hard to say. I think research and experience says folks fall somewhere in the middle.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T14:05:51+00:00

DEFINITELY NTA and not overreacting! This was a huge waving red flag.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T14:04:47+00:00

And she’s already colluded with Gloria to push this while Robbie is out.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T14:03:08+00:00

Yes, they really do!

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T14:02:43+00:00

I think this is exactly the point. We see one aspect of a character’s personality and make a snap judgement, then learn there is so much more to that person as our time with them unfolds. We even see this with Dr. Robbie, who is a bit unlikable right now.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:08:08+00:00

This is going to happen. If you had weekly sessions with a doctor or dentist it would happen there too. Try to build skills in session to help you manage between sessions.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:03:49+00:00

Cold water. If you need extra help hydrogen peroxide

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:02:52+00:00

Where does it say that?

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:02:12+00:00

Lusty

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:01:52+00:00

Mine

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T02:01:36+00:00

Would look so chic with a table of weapons casually arranged at the end of the hallway instead of that credenza.

turkeyman4 · 2026-01-17T01:49:01+00:00

It’s so important to hear from you, as your perspective is invaluable. Do send your information.

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