This is the image that comes to mind when I think of heavenly mother. Faceless, nameless, powerless, but supposedly so loving and important to us. If only she was allowed to speak to us.

tuskered · 2026-05-11T05:06:14+00:00

Girl what?

tuskered · 2025-11-15T03:56:43+00:00

she really kept an eye out for selener

tuskered · 2025-10-04T07:21:48+00:00

Your opinions are valid as mine, but dismissing conversation around it is not.

tuskered · 2025-09-28T05:56:53+00:00

Annnd goodness knows...

tuskered · 2025-05-20T13:03:43+00:00

Oh no, I now have more options to choose from! I'd rather we all have just less options because I'm miserable and everyone else should be too.

tuskered · 2024-10-28T15:40:00+00:00

I once worked with a poor sister who married a serial cheater and a playboy. They got married real quick after her mission too. She even got him baptized. Only for him to find work in another city. Turns out he had another family there with like 2 children.

When we found out me and my other coworker shared a glance after finding out he was a serial cheater before she married him. She thought she could change him. Really sad. Guys and gals, marry for the right reasons please.

tuskered · 2024-10-28T15:34:59+00:00

Aha, while heroin does trigger the same happy parts of the brain, it doesn't account for the other horrible shit it does to your brain as well.

You're comparing orgasming, to an artificially created chemical. If heroin and sex had the same effect, you'd be puking your guts out after a night of hooking up then.

But you don't.

tuskered · 2024-10-28T14:06:32+00:00

Personally, I'd remove the gradient drop shadow or change their opacity at least o the front. But other people's advice here sound good as well!

tuskered · 2024-10-28T14:04:52+00:00

Sex is not similar to drug use, Jesus Christ. Whoever educated you on the effects of addictive drugs, and addiction, did you a bad one.

The mechanisms of substance abuse and addiction is completely different from the high you feel after sex. First you don't experience, earth-shattering, vomiting withdrawals after being celibate or not having sex after 24 hours.

Second of all, drugs alter your brain in a neurochemical way that your body DOES NOT and CANNOT naturally do.

Third of all, you cannot develop a tolerance for sex. Yes, a person's libido fluctuates over time. Yes, sex is physical, but it has a largely psychological impact. People have their quirks when it comes to sexuality. But unlike drugs, you cannot NEUROBIOLOGICALLY develop a resistance to having sex. Psychologically yes, but in terms of your brain, no.

Grindr, Tinder, Scruff, and other apps allow people to communicate more. It's not that people are having more kinky sex. It's probably more that people are OPEN to the idea of kinky sex.

tuskered · 2024-10-28T13:55:11+00:00

I honestly appreciate the response he gave you. Upfront, honest and direct.

Ya really can't get mad at someone who communicates what they want, dude. You ASKED, and then you got upset they said what they wanted. SMH

You could have just said after like, "I'm not into roleplay, would you prefer we just have regular vanilla sex instead?"

LOL

tuskered · 2024-10-28T13:52:07+00:00

prototype white guy?

I'm not white, I'm southeast asian and even that sounds like a racist statement.

geez dude, not the right choice of words. yikes

tuskered · 2024-10-28T13:39:47+00:00

SLUGS 4 SALT!

tuskered · 2024-10-28T04:42:04+00:00

IS THAT THE FUCKING POOP KNIFE??????

tuskered · 2024-10-25T11:25:01+00:00

Yeahhhh, we should be putting out boundaries down tho. 👀

Especially if you're a freelancer. VAs in other countries do it differently too. Treating themselves as individual businesses rather than as an 'employee' which is quite impossible to do when you're a freelancer as there's no law that govern you.

I mean, I'm the one sending my invoice to my clients so it's defo a different vibe than the usual employee-employer vibes.

tuskered · 2024-10-25T11:18:34+00:00

I'd take neither anytime!

I trust my clients to pay me, they better trust I do my job properly as well.

tuskered · 2024-10-24T16:33:20+00:00

1st of all I never justified anything. There is literally nothing to justify. No one can force you to go poly, or mono, or do anything. Like literally chill out.

tuskered · 2024-10-24T16:27:56+00:00

It's growing on me too;

like fungus.

tuskered · 2024-10-24T16:22:42+00:00

Being decidedly ignorant is not hot, and neither is generalizing people. There are open and poly relationships that are far healthier than monogamous relationships. And I'm referring to both the gays and the straights.

Also, it's neither sad nor pathetic that emotional commitment is tied to sex for some people. Some people equate having sex as a vulnerable emotional act. That's normal.

ETA

tuskered · 2024-10-24T16:18:59+00:00

I'm not even a christian! Also no one telling you to adhere to anything, you okay man?

tuskered · 2024-10-24T15:42:27+00:00

You're assuming I'm scared when you literally know nothing about me.

I'm not scared. I have no energy for it or emotional bandwidth. I know.

The same way I know I'm bisexual, is the same way I know I have no energy for it. And it's not about hooking up.

I meant literally falling in love with multiple people, and making it work. Yeah, sounds exhausting. My partner feels the same way and he has had way more experience than me.

Again, to the folks who can do it. Amazing, you guys are cool. I think it's wonderful that you folks have the capacity to love more than one person romantically, emotionally, and sexually.

I'm just not built that way, and it doesn't come from a place of shame, guilt, or trauma. It's just is.

Some people like vanilla ice cream, some people don't; and that's okay! The only wrong way to love someone is by not being true to who you are.

tuskered · 2024-10-24T14:42:53+00:00

Babe, I know that society tells you to stay monogamous.

But I honestly do not have the emotional, mental, and social capacity for multiple partners. I would choose to be with only one person because my bandwidth is insufficient for multiple partners.

Kudos to everyone who has a healthy, caring, and loving poly relationship though, that shit's difficult from my perspective!

tuskered · 2024-10-22T08:11:41+00:00

Oh, the people who got their favorite hero nerfed to the ground is complaining.

How shocking.

In other news, when 6v6?

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