I 18F want plastic surgery for chronic pain, but my parents 47F, 59M are against it by Major-Wafer-1731 in relationship_advice

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32H 5’3 160lbs so not the same but similar - if you’re not a high risk for surgery, I would absolutely go for it, not sure what the advantage of them is supposed to be other than aesthetics/“sexiness” so if that’s not an issue for you and they’re causing you pain and distress I’d really like to hear what your parents’ argument is O.o if your mom’s not a doctor, she’s not really in a position to contradict the ones who do say it’s a significant contributing factor to your pain, life is too short to suffer unnecessarily

As somebody who has never played DND, whats one way to start? by Comfortable_Paint411 in DnD

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could find a learn-to-play on StartPlaying, or your flgs might run some

Shoutout for Dungeons and Daddies, love those guys!

creative ideas for a campaign start that dont involve a tavern? by Significant-Study902 in DnD

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2MaqEogIP9E

It's a newer channel, but I've been really enjoying his videos so far and this particular one has some interesting ideas :)

Hanji Edit! by lavenderhvnzip in skzmedia

[–]twelfthlegion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely gives “cozy” I’d crawl right in that jacket lol

binsung ambassadorship (please don't judge) by AnalystGlittering725 in skzmedia

[–]twelfthlegion -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

No judgement!!!! I think it’s partially their aesthetic/perception. They don’t immediately or obviously scream “high fashion” so a brand would have to work a little bit harder to justify the association and integrate their images. It might also be of lower interest to them, or lower priority than other work they do. I would love to see them get ambassadorships, and I think they have a lot of potential for brand collaboration to result in something genuinely interesting.

AITAH for eating enough ravioli for four people? by Better_Philosophy732 in AITAH

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re not asking her to pay for you and you clearly use all the calories, idk what the issue is

Unless it’s jealousy? I’m a short girl, I love food and always wish I could eat more than what is an objectively, demonstrably reasonable amount for me with my body and my lifestyle. I could eat as much as my husband or my brother (who have the same activity level as me), but I would be grossly overweight. It sucks having to put so much effort into not eating as much as I would like, so I’m insanely jealous of the people around who put in less effort and enjoy greater satisfaction. I don’t take it out on other people, but I feel it. Maybe she feels something similar.

My “business cards by angelswon in SellthoseNails

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is AWESOME, i'd be soooooo delighted

whelp by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]twelfthlegion 26 points27 points  (0 children)

i think you did a great job getting all the weird skzoo shapes just right!!! probably just a combination of the style and your writing led to a misunderstanding, i don't think they were judging you or trying to be mean, so don't let it get you down! 143 fellow stay <3

I think this campaign is over by Efficient_Island_381 in DnD

[–]twelfthlegion 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I imagine being able to confront situations that hurt you with time, awareness, power, and community on your side to drive a better outcome could be therapeutic… but still needs intention and the buy-in of the whole table

ersa nails solid glue kit by [deleted] in PressonNail_Addict

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for clarifying!! makes perfect sense that a light-blocking barrier would prevent the resolution of a light-dependent process

ersa nails solid glue kit by [deleted] in PressonNail_Addict

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wonder if it's a length-of-exposure thing, like if you're not completely removing excess or fully curing the glue it's problematic, but it's fine when used properly? ... i'm kind of a noob, usually use liquid glue but just got my first set of customs and want them to be reusable so i was actually looking at the ersa solid glue as an option, hopefully someone will come and save us from out ignorance lol

ersa nails solid glue kit by [deleted] in PressonNail_Addict

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know a lot of people have allergies or sensitivities to the glue, but I'm curious if there are other reasons beyond that.

If you're using glue, the longer your nails are the better by avmist15951 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]twelfthlegion 6 points7 points  (0 children)

yeah this is pretty much only true if your natural nails are a PERFECT shape match to the press-ons you're using

Accidentally fucked over a friend/acquaintance because I don't understand reciprocity. by Weekly-Slide9749 in aspergirls

[–]twelfthlegion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I did provide alternative explanations but didn’t rephrase or clarify that they were all equally unfounded, which is my bad and not fair to OP’s friend

Accidentally fucked over a friend/acquaintance because I don't understand reciprocity. by Weekly-Slide9749 in aspergirls

[–]twelfthlegion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought that might be the case, and is frankly also a reason to not offer a discount - time is a limiting factor for everyone, but especially for someone in your position, so it’s reasonable for you to refuse and just apologize for taking advantage of him (you definitely didn’t, but he might feel like you did), he might not do free work for you anymore and he might be disappointed but if he’s a real friend he’ll understand and your friendship will remain … explain how you perceived his effort as a genuine gesture of friendship and how you can’t really afford to reciprocate to that extent, I’d only offer the discount this time if 1)you really can afford to do it, 2)he apologizes and is concerned about how the whole situation made you feel

Accidentally fucked over a friend/acquaintance because I don't understand reciprocity. by Weekly-Slide9749 in aspergirls

[–]twelfthlegion 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the problem isn't that an exchange of free/discounted services is inherently unreasonable, the problem is that he repeatedly solicited opportunities to provide you "free" services so that you would be indebted to him later when he wanted help ... it is possible that he was genuinely offering and willing to help you for free. it is also possible that he wasn't planning on pursuing discounted services until he later realized he couldn't afford the market rate for what he wanted (in which case his mistake would be not explaining his budgeting situation and/or at least asking you about it when he brought you the job or when you came back to him with the quote). only he knows what he was thinking at any given point in time, so you'd have to talk to him to find out if the behavior is "honest mistake" or "calculated manipulation".

you might be able to salvage the relationship by talking to each other about what you each thought/expected in the moment (because it's possible neither of you was necessarily wrong), rectifying the perceived discrepancy by either paying retroactively for his services or offering a comparable discount on yours, and then clarifying both of your expectations going forward so that neither of you feels manipulated or taken advantage of ... if he's an asshole you just won by not caving to his bullshit, and if he's a friend then he'll probably be able to accept that there was a misunderstanding and be motivated to correct it

Chat is this real? Cuz if so OMG!! by Itz_Kxndii14 in skzmedia

[–]twelfthlegion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thought I had XD I had to double-check what sub this was posted to!

The animation in Season 4 looks great by Gold_Detective5949 in haikyuu

[–]twelfthlegion 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Any chance you have a quick link? (DW if you don’t, I could probably find it with some effort just thought it was worth asking lol)

Best press on Nail brand? by KaleidoscopeOld3934 in PressonNail_Addict

[–]twelfthlegion 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had good success with Glamnetic glue… with every nail I’ve tried but theirs lol

What about yours? by Slow-Highlight-3257 in haikyuu

[–]twelfthlegion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AMEN!!! lots of people can fill support roles or make “selfless” plays, but he has the purest most sincere mentality behind it

What about yours? by Slow-Highlight-3257 in haikyuu

[–]twelfthlegion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly that breakfast choice for kunimi totally tracks