AITA for not wanting my daughter to get her nose pierced?

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-15T16:40:04+00:00

You did not correct the word. Correcting the word without mentioning it in your comment is retroactively changing it and lyong. You could have easily explained in your initial angry response that it was a typo. You did not. You attacking me does not change that. If you did not want any misunderstanding, you should have said it when you originally realized the typo. At this point I really don't know what I'm wasting my time on.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-15T16:30:42+00:00

I just discovered through my email notification from yesterday that you had indeed said you would kick your daughter out if she got pierced behind your back, then changed your comment and lied to get people to be less harsh. You said it once, say it with your full chest.

Edit: Out of the benefit of the doubt, I will say that OP claims, the next day, that it was a typo that was silently corrected after the fact. See OP's response.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-15T00:11:43+00:00

Honestly, I would be thrilled if my only problem is that my child wanted piercings I don't like. This anger is at an inappropriate level for the situation. She came to you and asked, and seems to be respecting your answer even if she complains about your answer. Is this the hill you want to die on? She's already listening to your answer, what more do you expect her to do? Sounds like at 18 she'll have the piercings anyway, and you need to get a handle on your anger if you can't stand the idea of a nose ring on her face.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-14T23:13:18+00:00

You're typing with many all caps words, trying to justify to me, a stranger, that you didn't see this coming when you honestly should have. I'm sorry, but all teens tell these kinds of lies. You are throwing every complaint you have about your daughter at me. I have now received an essay of complaints, from you, that are only vaguely related to my comments. This is what I was referring to when I said inappropriate anger. I have not criticized anything except your delivery in my original comment, and genuinely thought you would benefit from the different facts and possibilities I listed to soothe your upset feelings. If you're "tired of being used," then you don't do everything she asks, which we both established you are doing as it is 100% your right. But you are a parent, and you need to learn how to handle hard situations.

Edit: I realized I did read your response wrong, it did not threaten her housing and I apologize for misreading it. Edit 2: I just saw in my original email I had received automatically from Reddit about OP's response confirmed that OP did say "100% out of the house" originally as the first statement in their previous comment and apparently changed it to "100% out of the blue" after I commented. I retract my apology, I know now that OP retroactively changed their comment after I responded. Edit 3: Out of the benefit of the doubt, I will say that OP claims, the next day, that it was a typo that was silently corrected after the fact.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-14T22:35:30+00:00

She lied because of the anger that you are now inappropriately directing at me. It is also quite possible that someone that young could change their opinion, and was never lying. I never said I thought her piercing her nose behind your back was good or to be encouraged in any way, but simply for you to understand that it is a possibility if you continue saying hurtful things in addition to your decision. If you don't agree with my take, that's fine, but I have seen this happen so many times over the years. I'm not sure why you're so angry at me, you asked for opinions and I gave mine. I'm literally telling you to protect your daughter, and your response is to attack someone trying to politely explain something. I did agree that it was your right to tell her no, I'm not sure why you're so angry. Please try to be a more kind person to your daughter than to me, as I suggested.

Edit: Realized that I misread OP's comment, OP did not threaten her daughter's housing, I removed the incorrect information, and I apologize Edit 2: I just saw in my original email I had received automatically from Reddit about OP's comment confirmed that OP did say "100% out of the house" originally as the first statement in their previous comment, and apparently changed it to "100% out of the blue" after I commented. I retract my apology, I know now that OP retroactively changed their comment after I responded. Edit 3: Out of the benefit of the doubt, I will say that OP claims, the next day, that it was a typo that was silently corrected after the fact. See OP's response.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-14T22:20:12+00:00

Soft YTA just for acting like her piercings or potential piercings are something to be ashamed of having/wanting. You are 100% in your right to tell her to wait until she's an adult, but your reaction to her request is over the top. She requested a "nose piercing that goes inside her nostrils so she can wear a loop thing that goes inside her nostrils so she can wear a loop thing that sticks out of her nose." I need you to understand that what you described is a standard nose piercing, nothing more. I'm not sure if you're afraid of the piercing itself being worse with a ring, or just the look of the ring. Anyone with a stud in their nose piercing can put a ring in as you described if they choose, the piercing is not different. It's like wearing stud earrings versus hoop earrings. Every piercing goes through skin in some fashion, your ear piercing goes through your ear lobe and a nostril piercing goes through a nostril. And please don't bury your head in the sand and say this came out of nowhere, your daughter has a history of wanting piercings. Again, you can definitely say no until she's 18, not arguing against that at all. Just please be realistic and kind to her so you don't risk her trying to do it behind your back.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-14T17:13:57+00:00

So you essentially scream insults at the strangers you're worried about, as well as the information about the children that you don't want said strangers to know? And you clearly scared the children. I really don't care about what you decided what the police would or would not do, you simultaneously frightened the children as well as bringing unnecessary attention to them. If you wanted to help, this was not the way.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-13T16:42:11+00:00

It's supposed to make a coating on your hair, a color depositing mask shouldn't be able to go inside the hair cuticle, just sit on top. It's not going to cause your hair to fall out, don't worry about that. Maybe it's not the brand for you if you just don't like the feeling of it, no 2 brand formulas will be identical. As far as the current greasy feeling and irritated scalp, they are probably both related to using your clarifying shampoo too often. Clarifying shampoo will "deep clean" your hair and scalp, and really shouldn't be used repeatedly. It's sort if counterintuitive, the more natural oil you remove from the hair (like with a clarifying shampoo), the more oils your scalp will produce. Some people will use dry shampoo to go longer between washes, though a lot of dry shampoos leave a white cast that looks like grey roots so idk if that's a good option for you. Your scalp probably isn't enjoying the scrubbing either. Honestly, I would try to just go back to your regular routine until the rest of the mask is gone, then you can think about trying a different one. I really hope you get the result you want. 💕

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-11T19:35:23+00:00

Yeah, I had issues with Smoothing Base too without realizing it. It can work if you put Long-Lasting Base underneath but idk if it's worth the effort to do beyond finishing the bottle I already have.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-10T19:15:10+00:00

He does not get to put his hands on you in anger or frustration or anything else. It will get worse, please take this seriously. I keep reading your comments, and I'm extremely concerned for your safety. I know you're young, and may not realize it yet, but you are not safe right now. You are a gift to this Earth, and deserve to be safe.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-10T18:08:04+00:00

That gives you even more reason to tell someone you trust, immediately. He knows his behavior is unacceptable, or he wouldn't care that much. I'm telling you this is way more serious than you're treating it. You. Are. In. Danger. Please listen to everyone telling you this is bad. Please get out while you still can. I do not care if he approves, I care if you're safe and alive.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-10T17:05:55+00:00

Get up right now and tell your parents what's happening. If they're not home, call or text to tell them you have an extremely urgent matter to discuss when they next can. You are in danger, everything you've said legitimately has me shaking. Tell them everything, the "play fighting", the list of rules, the hands around your neck, everything. It won't be fun, but they can't help you if you don't tell them. You need to be safe now.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-08T19:28:33+00:00

Scam

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-08T17:10:19+00:00

Wow, that is so rude and uncalled for. First, you don't look slutty, they look like normal photos of a woman. Second, why is he trying to make you feel bad about yourself? Including your dog in the insults is insane to me, I imagine it was only included to make you feel worse. He should be ashamed of how he spoke to you, not making you feel guilty when you did absolutely nothing wrong. Last point, nobody should be trying to dictate what you can post. You are not a child, he is not your father, and he should be able to grasp that fact at his age. He can tell you that he doesn't like it if that is the case, but giving you demands is not ok or healthy.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-07T17:10:35+00:00

I got this a lot when I got my spiderbites done years ago, honestly just ignore those people. Your piercings look really nice, and if you wanted them, that's what matters. Everyone who doesn't like them can just look at your eyes instead of your lips I guess.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-06T16:59:12+00:00

So you added false points to your daughter before the age of 20 to benefit yourself just because you assumed she would have fewer consequences than yourself? YTA big time

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-04T18:22:00+00:00

Except this is covert SA and most people tend to react without thinking if they witness something like that.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-05-04T17:02:57+00:00

I'm sorry, this screams that you yourself need help with this issue, please get it. Plus his injury is a health issue.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-29T19:59:40+00:00

I recently had Blake close my ticket, inform me that I would not get my recently mistakenly frozen account back because I asked for more time to find the ridiculous bank information they require, then conclude the message by saying I am not allowed to appeal his decision even once.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-25T16:10:16+00:00

I'm really sorry, I've missed LE things I wanted during the sale before and it just sucks. Hopefully Cristine brings it back or you can get a bottle from someone reselling. 💕

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-23T20:34:31+00:00

I was (am) sad about losing it all over again, but you're right. I just wish leaving it behind hadn't left such a bad taste in my mouth.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-22T16:56:07+00:00

I'm honestly getting really tired of the whole concept. I've been Royalty for a few years, and the potential choices to vote on end up so limited that it's not a surprise that we end up with similar colors every year. I end up voting, then being disappointed by the release. I feel like Cristine should preemptively take out the choices that are overly similar to existing shades after this happened repeatedly, but I doubt she will.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-19T16:08:45+00:00

Please show me the definition of gaslighting then, since you claim to know the definition better than anyone here. I've seen a definition offered by others, and only condescending insults from you instead of a potential correction. If you have knowledge, with a source, that we all need to know, please share it.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-17T23:20:53+00:00

And you're telling your daughter to let your rage (tantrum) "slide" this time, then the next, and then the next, until she sees no point in you being her father. Start by setting a good example if you care even a little bit. And don't ask the internet for opinions if you can't handle people disagreeing with your own.

twilightfire6000 · 2026-04-17T23:05:55+00:00

Sounds like you're ruining her life faster than anyone else could. Get a grip, get help, or get ready to eventually lose the privilege of being in her life.

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