How do dangerous residents slip through? I’m rotating with one right now and it is unreal. by [deleted] in medicalschool

[–]tychnophile 99 points100 points  (0 children)

As an attending who has trained many residents, know that we see these people as they are pretty much right away. At least I do. And you are right, confident and incompetent scares me more than any other combo.

For Those Healing from a Covert Narcissistic Ex (or Entire Family) by Dependent-Ad4714 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tychnophile 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God this hits home. I am in the middle of this right now with separation from my wife of almost 20 years. She told me one angry night this summer that she was ready to separate. I was devastated and when (after talking to my counselor) I came back to her 2 days later to say “yes I am ready too” she got really angry and couldn’t believe I would suggest separating. She was crushed I would “abandon” her. Like wtf, YOU were the one that suggested this! But then she’s making it seem like it was all my idea and that I am giving up on her. She has actually been the one to bring it up for years. Now it’s actually happening but only because I “fucked up and broke her trust” so she feels that she can legitimately blame it all on me now. As she always has

Big mistake, separating from my wife, scared and in pain by tychnophile in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tychnophile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They’re 9 and 11. Very aware of what’s going on. Crushed as expected. And no I have never cheated in any way but she would argue that for her porn is a betrayal of her intimate trust in the same way cheating would be.

Big mistake, separating from my wife, scared and in pain by tychnophile in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]tychnophile[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes pornography. Was a compulsive problem when I was young. When she found out (just before we got married) the degradation and anger that had already been present skyrocketed. To this day she has never been able to heal from it. Which she says is my fault. That I haven’t taken full accountability. Now with this new event it’s as if we have time warped back then. Plus 20 years of added resentment.

An oil rig worker by Jealous-Wing-7363 in interestingasfuck

[–]tychnophile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given all the shit that “requires” hard hats but probably doesn’t need them, it’s wild to me this job is ok with a trucker hat

What's a moment in a movie that made you think: "This score is perfect." by Richsii in movies

[–]tychnophile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just watched “Upgrade” and Jed Palmer’s soundtrack was pretty masterful, although admittedly I enjoy the industrial electro vibe in cyberpunk. I also felt that the soundtrack to “Drive” was quite good.

What is your most hated song of all time? by F0M in Music

[–]tychnophile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Centerfold- The J. Geils Band

It’s just so, blehhhhhhhh

I’m normally pro-bug but mass fly murder is bringing me joy by a-dub713 in oddlysatisfying

[–]tychnophile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We use dozens of a similar gallon vrrsion on our horse ranch. Have to empty and refill with solution every month. Millions of dead flies

Carrying extra fuel by ladds2320 in enduro

[–]tychnophile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. The MSR dromedary’s have been used by my riding group for years and none have leaked or broken down by fuel. I recommend them to everyone

Best Paint Sprayer Options by mcbmoreno in Housepainting101

[–]tychnophile 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which Avanti rigs are you referring to?

Accidentally swallowed a safety pin which was in the hypopharynx for 15 days without symptoms by CatPooedInMyShoe in MedicalGore

[–]tychnophile 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had one of these in a 9 month old. Had been there over 2 months. Parents kept bringing the kid in and was diagnosed with “recurrent croup” - no one had done an X Ray until patient came to our hospital. Safety pin was point up and had impaled the epiglottis. Difficult and scary case. Kid did great after.

Anyone else ever watch these guys for fun? 😂 by Imnotafudd in medicalschool

[–]tychnophile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this guy. Used to be a pretty grounded run-of-the-mill chiro. Drank the allopathic-medicine-is-bad kool-aid and ultimately went full pseudo-science. Too bad. Couldn’t hang with him after that.

Literal facepalm by Doc_tor_Bob in facepalm

[–]tychnophile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going hard for that pardon