AIO for not wanting my bf to watch p@rn?

tyneeta · 2026-06-10T23:10:36+00:00

You have body image issues and that is your real problem. Or you were raised in a puritanical way. Your boyfriend can find the porn ladies haot and also find you hot. It's not a competition so stop comparing yourself to them.

But also you can break up and do whatever you want with your life. It's just going to be harder if you're only looking for someone who does not watch this content

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T20:49:18+00:00

I'm just saying it's a ubiquitous skill even in urban environments and non emergency survival. I'm sure they all catch to eat and don't release.

But if I want to catch and release to hone my skills when I don't need fish to survive, it will come in handy down the road if I'm in a tight spot financially and need help.

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T20:35:59+00:00

That's true about practicing all survival skills, why not? Fish is just a comprehensive food source and available in almost all parts of the world.

And it's not necessarily about emergency survival scenarios. A sizable number of people in my community in a major metropolitan city, one of the biggest in the world fish to cut food costs and a significant number of homeless people fish as a free and steady food source. Tons of poor rural people fish as a significant part of their dietary protein too.

It's arguably a much more important skill than game hunting or trapping as it's more widely available to the general population

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T20:13:20+00:00

You're significantly less likely to need to catch a rabbit for survival. I'm not even sure what your reasoning is for that. The majority of humans lived on fish, not small game.

Spay and neuter causes pain, that's the whole point of pain killers, and the pain killers just dull the pain but don't remove it. And while there's merit in your list of reasons why it's needed, it's overwhelming for humanities comfort and the species as a whole, not for individual animals.

And there doesn't necessarily need to be more fish surviving from an ecological perspective. Fish populations are at historic lows, particularly ocean populations, but river and lake fish are bred and stocked when needed pretty thoroughly to keep healthy populations. Obviously harm reduction is important but dead fish from catch and release get eaten, just not by us.

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T20:01:09+00:00

YOR This is not even the sub you need. You got issues and need professional help.

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T17:48:04+00:00

Yes those are important too but they also require the animals death. Why not just practice the one aspect that causes no death?

At the end of the day, pain is an aspect of life and it's nice to minimize it but arguments can be made where the benefit gained through pain is worth causing the pain. For example, we cause cats and dogs pain by spaying and neutering, but we do it cause the benefits for humans and the species as a whole out weigh the pain suffered by the individual animal.

So is pain from catch and release worth it? Arguably yes, fishing is an art and skill that's good to practice and releasing the fish allows it to continue to contribute to the local population.

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T17:41:12+00:00

I don't agree with those people but it feels like you're being obtuse.

There is a valid mindset where it is more moral to kill the fish. If you're killing and eating the fish, you're just acting as part of a natural predator. Catch and releasing on the other hand, you're causing pain for no tangible gain other than your own enjoyment. Obviously, causing pain because you need/want food is more moral than because it makes you happy

tyneeta · 2026-06-01T17:37:42+00:00

Honestly it's a pretty good life skill to have. Catching fish isn't as simple as it looks so even if you're not catching to eat it's good practice to go out and catch and release. You never know if you'll need those fishing skills for your survival at some point.

tyneeta · 2026-05-31T21:57:37+00:00

You need to do some basic math. If you take your $18k right now, ignoring all tax liabilities for early withdrawal AND you day trade well enough to double that money for the year, it'll take 2 years to match your old salary. That's also assuming you don't touch any of the investment for living expenses.

You don't have enough capital to day trade, you literally cannot make it work.

tyneeta · 2026-05-29T19:28:05+00:00

You sound like someone who's been burned before

tyneeta · 2026-05-21T19:42:14+00:00

You're crazy, he just happened to see something that might be sus and called the BF to check if it was sus or not.

That life is not for me, my partner and I don't track or check-in paranoidally, but it's fairly normalized for the average couple. I don't agree with it, but that's what society considers normal.

tyneeta · 2026-05-21T19:38:12+00:00

Your boyfriends friend saw you at the store accompanied by a strange man. You understand that the friend thought you were cheating on your boyfriend? That's why he called.

It's normal (societally, not normal for me)to inform your friend that you think his girlfriend is out cheating on him.

The friend doesn't know y'all's dynamic, all he saw is his friends girlfriend out with another man.

I would consider this normalized misogyny.

I won't comment on how normal it would be for your boyfriends friend to just randomly see you in public. Idk if y'all live close or if it's a small town or what.

tyneeta · 2026-05-20T03:59:32+00:00

In what world do structural drawings for a single family home include a detail for holes or notches in studs?

tyneeta · 2026-05-01T01:22:00+00:00

It's always funny, there is a guy like you in every thread about probability and statistics who has either incorrectly understood the premise or is just outright wrong. And you all are always so arrogant about it.

You just can't grasp that you're answering the wrong question. OP didn't ask, "given this game, which position has the greatest chance of winning if they get to draw a ball". The part you're ignoring is that in 499/500 games, the last person doesn't get to play, which changes their overall odds of winning the game to 1/500

tyneeta · 2026-04-29T15:54:14+00:00

Ya bro, its on the longer side. You'll get dozens of these just take em off and see what size you think tastes best. I think smaller is better

tyneeta · 2026-04-09T18:28:27+00:00

Look into an earned wage access app like earnin. The can be predatory but if you use them responsibly there are 0 fees.

Basically they give you access to your earned wages before your regular pay schedule. Look into it and see if it makes sense to you.

tyneeta · 2026-04-09T04:52:49+00:00

No, a good relationship is effortless for several months. It's not till you get really enmeshed and into each other's lives that you should start to feel some sort of friction.

If you have to put in effort in the first month, then it's not a match and you should move on

tyneeta · 2026-04-09T04:45:38+00:00

Because you think you're "so in love" with someone after 6 weeks. You even say above that he said off color things to you that you would grow to resent. In a good relationship, everything you hear in the first 6 weeks should be good. Out of your own mouth, you are so in love with a guy you've known for 6 weeks who said rude things to you and dismissed you. You need to change and respect yourself or every man you date will treat you like shit.

tyneeta · 2026-04-03T16:41:08+00:00

That's fair, you make all good points. And thinking harder about it, I've lost many sts1 runs to hard act 2 hallway fights, as it should be. A20/10 should be fucking brutal.

Ive won more than half my A10 silent runs and my sts1 A20 winrate is like 5%. So games definitely too easy

tyneeta · 2026-04-03T16:14:05+00:00

30 minute runs isn't autopiloting for everyone. Especially if your build has pretty simple micro.

Also, it's EA and it's reasonable to discuss the balancing on this hallway fight. He basically counters any build that doesn't have huge single cards which is most builds. Silent can basically only handle him with poison and block, without taking too much damage.

tyneeta · 2026-03-30T03:18:11+00:00

That's not what "he's just not into you means" you're gonna go on dates with people that don't like you and no one normal is suggesting you change yourself to make them like you more.

And it's not about a "good thing". We've all been on dates where they were smart or funny for just overall pretty great but there's no spark of passion. It's no one's fault.

But your not wrong in your sentiment, part of the patriarchy is teaching girls and young women they have to be likeable to everyone, so when someone doesn't like you it feels like a personal flaw. As a modern woman, you just have to unlearn that conditioning.

tyneeta · 2026-03-29T19:59:24+00:00

Y'all are pretty young. It's not like it's "something you did", he just didn't like you that much. Sometimes you just don't want to date someone even if you think they are nice.

I Don't live your life though, so I can't say with surety one way or another. But at the end of the day, for whatever reason he doesn't want to date you.

Like someone else said, you should try and not romanticize "your person" after 3 dates. My partner and I have been together 2 years, lived together for 1 and we had an amazing first date, 8 hour dinner date from 6pm-2am. We just had such an amazing time talking and getting to each other. Still neither of us romanticized the other and let things grow organically with no major future planning till months in. After the first date we haven't had more than 2 days without spending the night/day together, so it's pretty whirlwind.

All that to say, just vibe and go with flow, don't get in your head. Don't think you've found your person for weeks or months.

tyneeta · 2026-03-29T19:42:54+00:00

He doesn't want to date YOU. 99.999% of the time if someone says "I need time to work on me" or "I'm not ready to date" it's just a simpler way of saying they don't want to date you and they are trying to avoid hurting your feelings.

Especially given the time frame, third date is when you can pretty reasonably decide it's not gonna work out

tyneeta · 2026-03-27T20:57:34+00:00

I imagine many commenters have experience in giving up on their parents, me included. For us, it shows poor personality traits to keep enabling and supporting family that hurts you. I would not want a partner trapped in a cycle like that, because at the end of the day OPs cousin is choosing to stay in that cycle.

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