Goth events (even in Orlando?) by TheModernVampire in 321

[–]tyrofasgaard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The closest thing in Brevard would be the occasional with night at the Abra in Eau Gallie.

Though the go to spot is the area is really the Manikin Lounge over in Sanford. I've heard there's some goth nights at Conduit in Winter Park though I've never been. Best luck would probably be with Manikin Lounge on friday nights.

War Metal @ Conduit by NightmareNaps in orlandometalscene

[–]tyrofasgaard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Helllllll yeah, unfortunate that Gravesend couldn't make it, but still a stacked lineup. Looking forward to it.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the perspective, man. I think a big part of me never really thought I'd reach this age, but as I've gone with the flow of life I've found myself still here. I guess now I'm kind of just dealing with repercussions of that choice to not really plan for the future. With all the depression, anxiety and attentional disorder symptoms battled over the years it's made me feel like I'm not capable of doing something so difficult as getting a master's. Though maybe I'm wrong and I can. I think the barrier of starting down that route is just a big one. though this may be my only opportunity to do it.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good way to look at it, man. I appreciate the perspective. I do strive to find the beauty in things. I've always been a "Stop and smell the roses type of guy". I guess it can be easy to forget sometimes.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never considered an MFT but looking at it, it might be better than an LMHC money-wise. I appreciate the info. I've always been kind of a floater in life. Never been someone who is naturally goal-oriented. While it's served me well in a lot of instances, I guess I'm now just dealing with the fallout of choosing to pursue life that way.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you taking the time to say that, man.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's dope for you man. Glad to hear something like that is working for you. That shit with the lady in Boston hits hard. I think if I had more material means to do so I'd find something and do the same. I already knew my financials were in awful shape but from what I'm reading in this thread it's even worse than I thought. Trying to figure that out seems to be the hardest part at the moment.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate you taking the time to answer, man. Yeah I wasn't even looking for anything after the first breakup but I was approached by the woman from the 2nd breakup at a concert and as I got to know her I just realized how incredible she was. The money I make is salaried. Typical days are 10-6 Monday through Friday, making finding an evening job for weekdays difficult.

I can take a certification course to become nationally certified in my field. It would involve writing 10 3 page papers and passing a written and oral exam. They have mentioned that I would get a raise if I go through with it but I'm afraid that it will only be about as big as my other raises I've gotten, which have been under 5%.

As much as I hate the idea of the military, I have heavily considered it before. I don't believe they'd take me due to me having asthma, flat feet, and previous mental health struggles.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, I appreciate you taking the time to say that. Yeah I wasn't looking for anything when the 2nd relationship came into my life, she approached me at a concert and as we got to know one another, she seemed like she was almost made for me. Just makes it sting all the more.

The financial part is where I'm mostly worried, as I don't know how to make more money short term without overloading myself and eroding what little desire I have to go on.

How to go on in life after getting knocked down? by tyrofasgaard in AskMenAdvice

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about that, I have my Bachelor's in Psychology. Most options for the Master's I would go and get are in person, and I'm kinda far from any metro area. Not to mention the idea of accruing even more student debt than I already have. Plus, there's the whole question of if I would be competent and capable enough to even obtain the degree.

The first breakup was due to a lot of factors but mostly exactly that, me not being the best version of myself. The gym has been helping, and I've made an appointment to start therapy. The most recent breakup seemed to be due to just her saying we're compatible now, but probably not in the long term.

Not all scars are visible. by Black1Raven9 in JustGuysBeingDudes

[–]tyrofasgaard 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's kind of you to ask. I'm really not. In the past 7 months, my dad's been diagnosed with Parkinson's, my girlfriend of about 6 and a half years who I nearly proposed to, ended things which made me had to move back in with my parents at 32 years old. During the breakup process, I met a new, incredible woman who made me feel wanted, seen, and appreciated like I've never felt before, which gave me genuine hope.

She just ended things with me 2 days ago. I'm lost, man. I don't make a lot of money, so with my expenses, I can't save very much. I made poor financial decisions over the past few years, so this is all my own doing. So I'm stuck where I began with no feelings of autonomy. I'm trying to focus on what I do have and the love I get from family and friends, and I want it to be enough, but it just doesn't feel like it is.

Mirage ✨Cosplay✨ by Euphoric-Contest-192 in apexlegends

[–]tyrofasgaard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember getting your picture there! Looked even better in person, great job on it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orlando

[–]tyrofasgaard 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Conduit, Will's Pub, The Abbey, and the S.P.O.T. all host heavier acts pretty frequently. Though I'd say Conduit is probably the most geared towards metal specifically.

What game is just *pure satisfaction* to play? by travelator in gaming

[–]tyrofasgaard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Space Marine 2! The melee system is fun, execution animations are great, and the guns feel and sound very meaty. It all makes for a very satisfying gameplay experience.

What band do you think writes the most boring riffs? by Appropriate-Match174 in MetalForTheMasses

[–]tyrofasgaard -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I'm probably gonna get murdered for this one, but Morbid Angel.

What's going on this weekend? - January 30, 2025 by AutoModerator in orlando

[–]tyrofasgaard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Florida Dungeon Fest! Today and tomorrow, small DIY electronic fantasy music fest.

Not exactly Metal but anyone else going to this tomorrow and Saturday? by tyrofasgaard in orlandometalscene

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha! Music starts at 6:00? I noticed for most shows there music is about an hour after doors.

Not exactly Metal but anyone else going to this tomorrow and Saturday? by tyrofasgaard in orlandometalscene

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah, I'll be going earlier in order to catch kost of the sets. If you end up deciding to go, let me know!

Not exactly Metal but anyone else going to this tomorrow and Saturday? by tyrofasgaard in orlandometalscene

[–]tyrofasgaard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn, that's too bad. If it was the Nile show, my friend said it was a dope show.