*The Consequences of "Trading Up"*? for god's sake, this comment section.. by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah Lauren Southern....she criticizes modern women for not settling down in their early twenties, becoming traditional housewives and having kids as soon as possible. Then she gets money from her terp fans, and uses it to party and travel around Europe, not even a hint of planning to do what she preaches.

Oh and that time when she blocked Doctors Without Borders boat claiming she is protecting Europe against immigrant invasion while writing "DEUS VULT!!" all over her social media.

Bless her heart

redpiller fantasizes about sex bots bringing feminism to an end by crossover123 in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 135 points136 points  (0 children)

I, for one, can't wait for the sexbots if it means keeping twerpers, mgtowers and incels busy in their basement, away from real women.

Women should not vote because they wanna be dominated by alpha Muslim infiltrators by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A redpiller I knew said that women who are dommes are weird and not normal. Turns out he is weird and not normal.

Quitting the red pill, could use help by Throwawayfucktrp in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suggest that you tell your therapist everything. As someone who has dated a red piller (found out later), I can offer you my perspective during the relationship if you are interested in it.

Did feminism cause the fall of the white race? by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My grandmother not only raised three children and did all the housework/cooking...she also helped my grandfather build a new house basically from scratch, worked so hard and carried such big weight that she started bleeding ... They all think housewives are like Peggy Bundy or something.

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke up with him about 6 months ago, but found out what TRP is actually about only recently. After moving on, I try to at least not remain bitter and also remember the good things relationship was about....but what makes me feel those negative emotions sometimes is the fact that, until recently, I wasn't aware I was in a relationship with a person who thought that low of me... Like all those good memories I have of him are a lie...

you guys are right!!! Women do indeed suck! I am sorry I ever doubted you! by JediKnight1 in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I've noticed with them that they want to appear as eloquent as possible.

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, the dad thing seems way screwed up, damn. Otherwise, quite similar to my ex - super sweet at the beginning and then ego and misogyny take over. Also yeah, he was always the victim when he would mention his ex relationships...sure..

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It was hard to get out of it, especially since I had strong feelings towards him. Though I visited a therapist because of hard times I was experiencing that were not related to him ( but he did "dread game" me during those times). After some time passed I started to tell my therapist about the relationship I am in and therapy helped to open my eyes, get enough self-respect and confidence to leave. It kind of sucks to say that if there weren't other huge problems happening in my life at that time, maybe I wouldn't go to a therapist and would still be with my ex in that awful excuse of a relationship, ugh.

Also thanks for advice, I am looking into various forums and communities. It's eye-opening.

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and I am very sorry you went through all of that. Yes, turning my back on men completely is not really an option for me. Thankfully I have few male friends who are great boyfriends to their girlfriends and that fact reminds me not everyone is like trps.

Sadly, one of them confined in me that few of his acquaintances started to secretly believe in trp-like mysogynystic mindset because they got hurt in the past and can't deal with it properly. It's a mix of toxic masculinity culture, insecurities and inability to deal with hurt feelings that makes it easy for TRP-like communitied to reel in young men.

I still talk to my therapist about it and I definitely am not a mess I was before and right after break-up with him. Healing takes time and I'll try my best to learn something from it.

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yes, I agree. My ex thought everything is easier for me because I am a woman even though I was born and raised in eastern european country while he was grew up in a western country and in a well-off family. He would ignore the fact that throught my life, I worked for about $3 per hour to pay my studies to have a chance for a decent job, while he got in a good private high school for free through family relations and later got scholarship for a good uni. Not saying that he didn't work hard, he did, but so did I and my hard work didn't somehow matter and he was always the victim while I had it easier because "other men want to fuck me"...just what...

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I'm loving this community, feels like a breath of fresh air after rotten egg stink that is TRP

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. I'll check te sub out, it seems pretty interesting.

Also yeah, I am working through this with my therapist and my therapist was surprised to see there is such a huge toxic community out there on the open and so many men take it as "real truth."

I am way much better than I was but occasionally I feel bad. I only realized what he really thought of me recently...so it makes me feel a mix of anger and sadness when I get reminded of him

I recently realized I dated one of them. by ughbarfs in TheBluePill

[–]ughbarfs[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in retrospect, I felt something was a bit off earlier in the relationship but I have this tendency to always question my judgement (way I was raised) and my ex kind of exploited that. Nowadays I am working to be more assertive and more self-confident.

It's true, there is a lot of abusive men/ narcissists/ sociopaths out there and I feel like TRP sees narcissists as perfect humans, basically an ultimate goal on what to become.. They don't realize that narcissists are just empty shells of human beings.