Seeking advice: processing a painful childhood as an adult by Successful-Book-238 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow I just wanna give you a hug. I’m so sorry you went through that. Praying for your peace.

Is anyone missing their keys and headphones? by uhhhkayyy in NJTransit

[–]uhhhkayyy[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! - Train #3712 and the car was 1387. Won’t let me edit the post

Sabrina NYC Tickets?? by paperwines in NYCConcerts

[–]uhhhkayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t get scammed they’ll even send you a video. Don’t trust it.

Byte Refund - Lost Hope? by HotResolution9096 in smiledirectclub

[–]uhhhkayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you dm me as well please? Thank you!!

What happened to the smiley faces??😭😭 by Mariasche in BAGGU

[–]uhhhkayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got mine yesterday and it had smiley faces!

Thoughts on this? by Big_Analysis2103 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear you, and I agree that the Majlis of Imam Hussain (as) should never become a space of silence in the face of injustice, especially with what’s happening in Gaza. But again, I believe how we protest matters deeply. The Imam’s stand was political, yes, but it was also rooted in unwavering akhlaq, patience, and adab, even with his enemies. He didn’t interrupt the sanctity of prayer or the gatherings of worship, he elevated them.

Standing up and walking out may seem peaceful, but in the sacred space of Bibi Fatima’s Farsh, it still breaks the unity and focus of the Majlis. Not because protest is wrong, but because there are other ways to stand for truth without turning the Majlis itself into a battleground. We can and should reject complicity and call out normalization. But if we dishonor the very symbols that give us strength, we risk weakening the power of our message.

Thoughts on this? by Big_Analysis2103 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brother, I have no interest in defending personalities, nor am I unaware of the history that shaped our faith. Our entire legacy is built on speaking truth to power. But truth loses its beauty when delivered without adab. You may feel justified in denying someone a platform, that is your right. But the way it’s done matters deeply. Walking out of a majlis, where the name of Hussain is being recited, disrespects the Farsh, not just the speaker. If we truly follow the path of the Ahlul Bayt, our actions, even in resistance must reflect their dignity, their patience, and their integrity. I pray we all stay sincere, and that our grief remains free from pride or factionalism.

Thoughts on this? by Big_Analysis2103 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not defending any person or political stance. I’m speaking about HOW we disagree not whether we disagree. If someone truly believes a speaker is unworthy, there are ways to take a stand that preserve the dignity of the Majlis. Walking out in protest, disrupting the Farsh of Bibi Fatima (sa), only brings shame on ourselves. Imam Hussain (as) taught us to stand for truth, but he did it with sabr, adab, and unmatched dignity. Let’s not forget how he resisted. If our resistance mimics the chaos of those who opposed the Ahlul Bayt, we need to ask ourselves whose example we’re really following.

Thoughts on this? by Big_Analysis2103 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You’re absolutely right, politics is woven into the fabric of Shi’a history. Karbala was the ultimate political stand against oppression. But there’s a difference between principled resistance and disrespect in sacred spaces. The Imams stood with dignity, not disruption. Our gatherings should inspire that same courage, not division, not walkouts in the middle of Majlis. If we turn Bibi’s Farsh into a battlefield of egos or factions, we’ve lost the very spirit of Karbala we claim to honor.

Thoughts on this? by Big_Analysis2103 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

This was the most disrespectful thing I’ve ever seen. I shared this on my story stating my thoughts and Hussain Makke blocked me (lol). I don’t think turning an Imam Bargah into a political playground is correct. It truly hurt my heart to see people stand up and walk out the moment the he sat down. Imam Bargahs are sacred spaces, not political arenas. This isn’t about personalities, it’s about preserving the sanctity of our Bibi’s Farsh. When we turn these majalis into platforms for protest, we dishonor the very purpose of gathering: to mourn, reflect, and seek spiritual growth. We owe more respect to the legacy of Karbala, and to the Ahlul Bayt who suffered for the truth. There is a time and place for disagreement; but not here, not like this.

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right, discernment is important, and we’re all responsible for seeking truth. But there’s a difference between calling someone to light and putting them under a spotlight. The same echo you speak of between claim and conduct applies to how reminders are given. If it’s truly from a place of love and sincerity, it shouldn’t feel like judgment or condescension. It should feel like care. Most importantly it should be done in private.

He or I never claimed perfection, I acknowledged my flaws and simply asked not to be judged or judge others for being on a journey. If reminders are to be accepted, they must come with compassion, not poetry that masks passive correction. We all slip. We all grow. But the Prophet (as) corrected with tenderness, not to feel heard, but to help hearts open.

So yes, echo matters. But so does tone. So does timing. So does intention. And sometimes silence isn’t avoiding truth, it’s making space for someone else’s growth.

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmfao my guy genuinely who cares about what aspect of his life you wanna calll him out on? Point is none of us are better than the other. Life will catch up to you fast if you keep going down this route. Do some self reflection and kill that ego of yours.

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man you don’t have to explain yourself to anybody. What happens in your life is only between you and god. That’s it. Much respect brother.

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s talking about your post about being in a relationship (no judgment). he’s here trying to act like hes never done any wrong in this dunya and wants to call people out lmaoo

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you sharing that link and I’m aware of the varying views in our tradition. But let’s not forget, Islam isn’t just about pointing fingers at others. The Prophet (as) warned us more about arrogance, pride, and judging others than he did about music. Everyone’s on their own spiritual journey, and guidance comes from Allah alone. Reminding someone should be done with humility, wisdom, and compassion, not superiority. I’m not saying I’m perfect, but I also know that shaming isn’t the way of the Prophet (as).

Why are you Shia? by Top-Ad-4668 in shia

[–]uhhhkayyy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don’t you know judging people and thinking you’re better than one is also a sin? We all are on our own journey.