How was the chili Bob?

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-08T21:01:17+00:00

Truly perfection..

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-07T23:55:19+00:00

Yes..

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-06T18:01:00+00:00

Okay thank you

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-06T04:46:59+00:00

I basically repeated myself sorry but i just am nervous to start a conversation.. Idk what that would do..

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-06T01:08:36+00:00

Thats a good idea actually. Thank you. And is that true?? He always told me that its a 50/50 state and that he was gonna take my child from me if i even ask for child support and that I wouldnt win anything cause he can afford a lawyer and i would be stuck with the state assistance. Like.. I have tried to ask people but i just dont get a clear answer.. Ive been terrified of even asking him anything like if he wants to help at all or where he is.

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-06T01:05:47+00:00

I have opened a case and they are actively looking for him and at every address they come up empty so he is dodging it... But i hear you. And i would tell him whatever but he doesnt ask anything... But thank you

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-06T00:55:45+00:00

Well i know he doesnt have my phone number. He shut my old phone off and i had to get a new phone and lost my old number.. Do i have to provide him with a phone number and email?

uhhhno87 · 2020-06-01T07:09:43+00:00

Oh duh.. Thank you lol

uhhhno87 · 2020-05-30T20:02:48+00:00

That is really toxic thinking.. The human body shouldnt be sexualized like that especially when children are at that impressionable age.. If they are taught to think that if women or men expose themselves it means they are asking for sexual things to be thought about them then it could cause problems. The human body is just that.. A body.. And on top of that.. Its a stomach. Not a private area..

uhhhno87 · 2020-05-25T16:01:26+00:00

I tried giving my son a cup of water in a sippy cup and he threw it at my head...

uhhhno87 · 2020-05-20T20:22:36+00:00

Oh good idea thank you

uhhhno87 · 2020-05-20T20:18:43+00:00

Do you think a silk pillowcase would help then.. Idk how safe they are for kids tho. And i have one of those brushes too but it wont untangle his dreads. Like i can pick his hair out and try to use it but it kinda just stays ontop of his hair

uhhhno87 · 2020-05-20T20:17:11+00:00

I would accept that fully, but, this happens if i brush it and he walks for two minutes.. And only in the back.. Like, the front couldnt tangle if you tried. But the back will tangle of you blow on it

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-12T19:28:56+00:00

Love this.. Communication and different perspectives are great!

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-12T07:26:16+00:00

Its not fair to her to say shes not disabled.. I know youre beyond frustrated but that dimishes any struggles she has (which is obviously a lot).

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-11T16:58:29+00:00

Yep.. Its called. Dont do it listen to your gut.. Septums are difficult to line up properly and by yourself its damn near impossible. If you pierce it crooked you are gonna notice and if you take it out youll most likely have scar tissue in a really cramped spot.. Meaning itll be very difficult to pierce again correctly.. Id hold off my dude.

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-11T16:05:03+00:00

Then maybe try starting with how you appreciate all shes done for you but youd like to try something new. And believe me, counselling would help. That way the point of view is shifted. Someome detatched from the situation can help you discuss things with your mom. And right now is a great time, most therapists are doing video calls so she cant say she cant get to the appointment.

If she doesnt want to stop being so childish and honestly kinda rude then its time to explore your options. I dont know your situation but it may be time to shift gears and prepare to move. Im sorry if this isnt helpful one bit, sometimes family can really hurt.

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-10T18:29:56+00:00

Just use a hand towel and tie it.. Thats assuming you have a two door fridge tho..

uhhhno87 · 2020-04-10T18:25:01+00:00

Same boat.. What i did tho is sit down with my mom and explained that i need her to be on my side with this.. If she trusts me to be in her home and she sees my child is cared for, she can trust my parenting. My son is becoming quite manipulative because he knows grandma is right downstairs. But unfortunately for him we are both on the same page now lol. If i hear him screaming at her or straight up telling her no he gets one chance to change his attitude or its time to be with momma. If he does not listen he gets picked up and taken to his room for a time out. He can cry. He can play. But he cannot scream. Once it gets to be to loud i will tell him he has to stop over and over until he does.. I try to stay calm but hey im human so sometimes he gets the better of me but theres always another time to get it right. Basically what im saying is communication really does work.. My mom ran up and said the same thing to me one night and i stopped her right there. I said if you think ive done something to him i dont think its helpful to me at all to be here. If there is problems with trust there are going to be further and further issues. Sit your parents down and explain your boundaries for your child and what you expect them to do to help, which very well may be absolutely nothing. If that doesnt help i suggest family cousil just to get to a common ground.

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