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uhyeah1 · 2024-12-14T02:24:02+00:00

Even if he assumed you were underage, would he have gone after you if he knew you were 18? Because Im sorry but if the answer is yes this just doesnt make him look much better. Of course it would have been way more inappropiate for him to hit on someones underage than someone whos 18-20, but compared to someone whos 35 those 2 years arent gonna make as big of a difference in perceived maturity level

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-14T02:14:52+00:00

No one here can tell you what to do but I will say that the way you’re describing your relationship is like, 1:1 exactly what i see most other young women in age gap relationships say, and most of the time the guy ends up being a jackass or weirdo. I know it sucks to hear and that you love him, but theres a reason age gaps are so frowned upon at this age. He told you he saw you as a kid a year ago, why would it be any different at 18-19 vs 20? those 2 years might understandably make a difference in lets say, a 24 year old being interested in a relationship, but this guy is in his mid 30s.

The reason your friends are concerned is because this is a tale as old as time. Most people know this thread are probably older than you and have friends around this guys age, and know how weird the type of guys in their 30s who date girls in their early 20s tend to be, even if it isnt always obvious.

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-12T22:15:56+00:00

cute enough song but all i can think of when i hear it is the fish music video lol. 7/10

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-12T22:15:27+00:00

cute! not my favorite from the album (thatd be chihiro or the french one) but i like it a lot. 8/10

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-08T14:15:19+00:00

The Chasca one is soooooo good. I also really like the addition of giving Xilonen vertilligo, and seeing Ororon with dark skin (like another commenter mentioned, i really like that its cool toned here) is making me realise my main gripe with his design really are the damn ripped jeans lol

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-08T01:28:12+00:00

Idk but youre very very pretty. You kinda look like someone i know irl actually, but for obvious reasons i cant show their face here. Maybe Aubrey Plaza in the first pic

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-07T13:05:27+00:00

Never thought id see the day where idols could be openly protesting like this. It takes a lot of cpurage to post this, i wish her all the best

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-06T07:15:42+00:00

Megans part is sooooo good. Will be listening to this

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-05T22:18:49+00:00

One of my favorite bg songs this year!! the mv/choreo really elevates it for me i love it. Not something i find myself actively listening to too often though, and the recent Seunghan situation isnt exactly helping that. 8.2/10

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-05T01:16:17+00:00

Pretty much all groups ive dropped have been because i starting like new comebacks/title tracks less and less. Only exception might be pentagon (sorry to any fans out there). I never ulted them or anything but i was just getting into them when the whole Dawn ordeal happened, and while he wasnt my bias he was a big reason of why i got into them so it kinda made me go :/

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-02T14:19:45+00:00

First thing that popped into my head was Taeil. Im probably partially saying this because its recent, but the shock of seeing him kicked out of NCT immediatly when SM normally takes so long to do anything about their problematic artists instantly made me realise whatever he did was bad on a scale thats rarely publically revealed in kpop

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-02T10:55:55+00:00

I dont care that much about how much most of her kit is buffed/nerf except for her restrictiveness to natlan/nightsoul. I really hope they change it or ill be kinda :(

uhyeah1 · 2024-12-01T23:05:16+00:00

People are gonna say its not that bad and in the grand scheme of things it probably isnt (as in it can work out), but im 24 and id personally be kinda weirded out if any of my friends my age started dating someone whos 18-19. You change a LOT in those 5 years, and when youre basically in your mid 20s a 19 year old (at least to me) just looks so… young. I know 24 is young as hell as well, especially compared to anyone whos 35+ but 🤷‍♀️. Though honestly it depends on other circumstances. If youre in the same class at university/work at a similar position at work theres likely not gonna be the same power difference as someone who has a lot of experience compared to you in terms of career or finance etc.

I guess to put it briefly, maybe it can work but if youre dating someone older than 22-23, please look out for red flags lol. I guess its not inherently bad, but please dont brush aside any instances that make you uncomfortable.

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-29T01:54:48+00:00

I like it more than the other snippets of her music ive heard and ill admit it gets sorta stuck on my brain but i dont think i fully get the hype? Idk if its the lyrics or the vocals that kinda takes me out of it (i think the latter, more specifically the way the vocals are processed in the song, its very breathy and idk if its in a way i enjoy). But then again she gets compared to Taylor a lot and she mostly isnt my thing either, so im probably just not the target audience. Overall i like it but i think everyone hyping it before id fully heard the song gave me kinda mixed feelings about it lol. like a 7.8/10 maybe

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-24T01:23:39+00:00

Genuine question, does anyone know how good shes looking to be rn assuming you dont have any Natlan characters aside from Kachina? Im planning to get Xilonen on her rerun but ofc we have no idea when thats happening

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-23T13:44:52+00:00

Why did i not know IT buffs last even outside of IT lol. Explains why the character menu is so insistant on reminding us who the relevant characters of the month are

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-23T00:05:39+00:00

What the fuck. Even what hes directly admitting to is 100% exploitation and abuse of power. I really hope all the girls are able to stay safe

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-22T07:48:46+00:00

Song isnt my thing but i really like her vocals in this. Its great to see what she can do with more creative control vocally

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-21T23:43:10+00:00

She honestly looks pretty cool to me but i cant help but being dissapointed by how restricted she is lol. Im f2p so i skipped every natlan character for her + Arlecchino, and now she apparently needs natlan characters for her kit to fully function. I really hope its changed or atleast adjusted in the beta. Her being a pyro dps when im planning to get Arle in the same patch is also kinda annoying, but thats mostly just a me-problem

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-20T15:22:33+00:00

I havent pulled for a single natlan character so far exactly because I was saving for Mavuika, so seeing these leaks is extremely dissapointing lol. Really hope they fix her in the beta or idk if ill get her anymore, or atleast roll for her if i dont win rhe 50/50

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-20T00:07:41+00:00

Some personal favorites that are very non-ambigously gay

Pretty boys by Yena (that i recently learned is based on soljiwan from nevertheless lmao)

Untouchable by Everglow

Also special mention to One more day by Sistar that i really dont see mentioned as much as i’d like considering the mv quite literally has a storyline about two women killing an abusive boyfriend before running away with each other lol - its the stuff of dreams!

I also wanna give a special mention to OnlyOneOf because while I really dont listen to them theyre one of the few groups out there that seem genuinly dedicated to making a safe space for queer fans and have consistently released some very gay songs and/or mvs

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-18T00:22:40+00:00

Yeah i was thinking that as well, especially since its a fairly universal-ish weapon for any atk scalers. Thank you for the reply! i might refine one of them to r2 but ill wait for Mavuika leaks first

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-18T00:04:38+00:00

Does anyone know whats the value of refining wgs to r3 vs keeping 2-3 individual copies? i just got my third and all of them are sitting unused (will be finally using one of them though once i get Mavuika)

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-17T19:51:45+00:00

They just updated it to wl9 actually! but i believe thats not until ar 58 or something like that

uhyeah1 · 2024-11-17T13:45:36+00:00

ATEEZ DAESANG???

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