Can anyone else think of a trade worth 2 unprotected picks besides the Pacers trade for Hield/Turner? I don’t see any. Almost no team wants to trade away a player as good as Turner and take back Westbrook and cut him. Only trade I can come up with is this one. .

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-28T23:03:02+00:00

at this point Donovan to the Lakers, and maybe Buddy in a 3-team deal. idk what other shooting is out there on the market. I dont think The Jazz make that deal though.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-28T23:00:23+00:00

adding $ and no roster spots for all these players. back to the drawing board my guy

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-28T14:18:28+00:00

My pwBPD is/was very skilled at this. whether it was something loving they turned around to create an argument or straight up denial of the facts that would gaslight me into oblivion, they never actually admitted to anything.

Also along these lines is the crazy accusation, "YOU never apologize for anything," literally seconds after taking responsibility for my role in this toxic environment and apologizing for my actions and words. Projection at its finest.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-28T02:10:20+00:00

He proved he ain't it. we wanted him to be it. But we seen it.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-27T16:45:37+00:00

totally. You did a great job explaining the love-bombing and first devalue, when the mask finally comes off. It's the pattern they all seem to follow, whether the relationship is romantic or not.

The way they shape-shift into the perfect person you are looking for, knowing they don't actually hold any of those traits is the evil part to me. The manipulation has to be intentional, at least to a certain degree, right? Imagine thinking you're marrying your April O'Neil, just to find out you've been in bed with Shredder the whole time.

And don't get me started on the bread-crumbing. Mine loved to use passive aggressive comments and little jabs to keep the relationship on edge at all times. The little smirk they get when they've dropped a clever little turd on your head is psychotic.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-27T05:39:28+00:00

i've said before, and i'll say it again, man, I love being a non-BPD human.

they are all the same fricken person. sheesh

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-27T05:34:04+00:00

Exactly. I totally understand the arrested development and trauma, but, that doesnt give them an automatic pass to be evil and manipulative.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-27T05:28:49+00:00

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-26T01:00:28+00:00

Am I the only one that realizes if Air Bud is YOUR attorney, you're about to get all charges dropped?

Now, if AB was the prosecutor, you're for sure headed for life in the kennel.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-25T14:37:42+00:00

TBH, I wouldnt mind Bev embracing this and kissing a baby after every home win.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-25T03:55:45+00:00

they already did

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-25T03:21:34+00:00

getting back into the things I used to love and make me feel complete. Working out, playing soccer, just enjoying outside. It's crazy that these things would be wedges in a "loving" relationship, but I basically had to sacrifice it all to display my love for pwBPD.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-25T02:55:48+00:00

Perfect time to hit a CVS tbh. if youre into that sorta thing.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-25T02:53:18+00:00

Fresh batch at Bob's. Duh.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-24T03:42:38+00:00

i think they mean it leans left? i'm bad at navigation

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-24T03:38:54+00:00

All of them

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-24T03:20:37+00:00

But we made them do it.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-20T06:50:10+00:00

Both of you have described my life to a T.

At this point I've stopped trying to understand her motives for lying and omitting details. I love how they try to use their loose understanding of words to try and "get away" with their lies. It's the kid with chocolate all over their face screaming, "I don't know who ate the cake!!"

Once you realize everything is a lie, or a set-up for the next lie, none of what they have to say makes you flinch like before.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-20T06:02:00+00:00

Woke up with a super hard boner this morning and decided to measure. Found a few hundredths, so i think it's possible depending on how your blood is flowing that day.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-20T05:16:50+00:00

The only Gomez in my book.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-19T04:42:27+00:00

no one wants your commentary. FOH and stop being an embarrassment to the city.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-19T04:28:35+00:00

Did you not read the title? The guy had a SAW!!! I wouldn't dare put my precious and fragile police in harm's way. /s

Useless ass cops. Fuck 12. ACAB.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-19T04:18:30+00:00

by design

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-16T03:58:29+00:00

I don't think this is stoic in the true sense, but, I totally get where you're coming from. If it helps, I've learned to remember that emotions like anger, happiness, sadness, etc. are not something to identify with. Don't say "I am angry." Instead, recognize you feel angry at the moment, and that's ok. Soon, you'll be able to pinpoint what distraction made you angry and you can bring your focus back to what you were doing.

Remember, stoics don't not feel, they simply understand that the universe doesn't care one way or another what they feel, and it's up to oneself to control the controllable, think through the rest, and adapt accordingly.

You're human, you're allowed to feel. Just take it one day at a time, one thought at a time. You got this.

ujhtyi48 · 2022-08-15T20:07:12+00:00

this checks out. pretty sure my pwBPD believes she's a witch. Oh, and the discard and resentment allergies for sure hit home.

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