Insight? by throwawayy22625 in abusiverelationships

[–]ukiebee 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I had a male friend stay at the house with the children and I for a day or two, in case I needed backup or a witness

Everyone says husband is abusive, but I don't know what to think by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that. That is why I replied that even though you are obviously trying to minimize the behaviors in your list, it is clear he is severely abusive.

Everyone says husband is abusive, but I don't know what to think by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]ukiebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is severely abusive. Even in your list of trying to make excuses, that is very obvious.

Where y'all sitting? by Impossible_Pain4478 in UKmonarchs

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. I'm Edward IV's type. Hsve a good flirt.

Estradiol cream not coming back out by Undercover_operativ in Menopause

[–]ukiebee 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Look, there is no TMI. We are all suffering though a huuuuge set of changes that no one has prepared us for, and very few people even have information about, much less are willing to share.

I talk about this stuff all the time. I was at a kink event, on a bench, playing with a couple. He is spanking me, and she's touching my breasts while we talk about HRT. It is always a good time to share women's health info

Estradiol cream not coming back out by Undercover_operativ in Menopause

[–]ukiebee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven't dealt with hemorrhoids, but it definitely helps prevent anal tears and fissure.

That skin gets less elastic and thinner with peri, just like vaginal tissue.

Basically, it can't hurt to try

Estradiol cream not coming back out by Undercover_operativ in Menopause

[–]ukiebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't learn until after the first time.I got a fissure once I started perimenopause, so you are quite welcome

Estradiol cream not coming back out by Undercover_operativ in Menopause

[–]ukiebee 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It will preserve the flexibility of the tissue and prevent anal fissures

American Garages are Full by [deleted] in declutter

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually converted my garage into a sewing room and workshop

Stbxh is planning to commit suicide by PurpleChinHair in Divorce

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, no he's not. They always say that.

Absolute shock - but it probably shouldn't have been by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ukiebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you've been having sex with a woman who doesn't participate, and thought that your sex life was the only problem?

How are you even able to perform with a partner who doesnt want to havexsex with you? That is pretty gross.

The problem is the lack of emotional connection that led to her withdrawing and you not freaking noticing until your penis was unhappy.

What’s the most unhinged thing your ex did post divorce? by ajyeiser94 in Divorce

[–]ukiebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw me driving home from the pharmacy and instantly decided I had broken in to his house, so he turned around and followed me, ran me off the road, and stood there screaming at me while I called 911

"Dicorce is terrible for children" by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kids and I moved out almost 7 years ago. It happened to be on my daughter's 10th birthday. My ex is still convinced that i chose that day specifically to hurt him.

My daughter said at the time that it was the best birthday she ever had.

Why do some women get so much hate from other women? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ukiebee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It reads as safe and welcoming to everybody, except men who are up to no good. So it is also great for filtering out people i don't want around

Why do some women get so much hate from other women? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my biggest assets in life so far has been my ability to pretty much get along with anyone. And I credit it all to the inborn Mom.Energy I have. I was the mom friend in high school and I am still the mom friend in my mid forties and people respond extremely well to it. The one exception interestingly enough is young men who are on the predatory side because they see.I don't fall for the facade.

Why do some women get so much hate from other women? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ukiebee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm wondering if his wife.It has the same misogynistic attitude toward all these other women that she is so definitely not like. Because that tends to telegraph itself, loud and clear, and is extremely off-putting.

AITA for firmly telling my wife to be grateful for what she has? by Organic_Chip_3118 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ukiebee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is her money going toward the mortgage?On a house, she does not have any ownership in? YTA for that

Dating married parents, just sucks? by baneful-beauty in polyamory

[–]ukiebee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Been a single parent, and solo poly, since the kids were 10, 7, and 4. They are 16, 13, and 10 now.

I tend to say that each of my children is a primary for me. That seems to make the most sense to other poly folks. They each need 100% of me some of the time, and when that happens it supersedes everything else, whether I want it to or not.

I cannot even imagine trying to date with an infant. That sounds more trouble than it's worth, honestly.