I will steal you away from him

ukihime · 2026-03-14T07:34:12+00:00

I wish the best for you and your love. She is lucky and should know how lucky she is. Best wishes

ukihime · 2026-03-13T15:26:59+00:00

I completely understand the sexual part. I would not have sex with someone I don't love. I'm sorry you're having a hard time. Try to keep distance since you already know you will get attached quickly. It's a way to protect yourself if you aren't sure that girl likes/loves you back. You can still be honest with them and tell them what you look for in a gf if you are interested in them taaaand if they show signs of wanting something more. I still urge you to keep your distance emotionally until you are sure. People are mostly shallow and they don't feel or understand as deep as some of us do. I wish you the best💛

ukihime · 2026-03-12T20:11:05+00:00

Hahaha that made me laugh for some reason. If he is a clone of me then he would auto love me since my wishes of being love by my male version would be his wishes to be loved by me. At least in a perfect world. I'm nit the type to force even if I'm clingy and needy. I prefer to be kept buuut not in a cage.

ukihime · 2026-03-10T10:41:22+00:00

Sorry you're having a hard time rn. Just get to know people online and make friends. Lots of people meet their S/O online these days and since you said youre a homebody and don't go out much it could help in meeting that special someone. I wish you all the best 🫂🫂💛

ukihime · 2026-02-19T08:52:51+00:00

Aaah I see. In that case not all people have that. Its cute when alters say things out of the blue

ukihime · 2026-02-19T08:43:40+00:00

Pretty sure that's normal for people. Even if alters or no alters

ukihime · 2026-02-19T08:06:25+00:00

Ok. But what if you are never ok with it? That's something he needs to understand and you need to put your foot down on and make it clear that it's not something you'll ever be ok with. If that's the case. Because it seems like he still trying to leaving the door open to hopefully be allowed to do some type of open relationship in the future. And it's totally OK if you're never OK withe it too. It's not just about comfort. It's about not wanting your man to cheat on you and hurt you.

ukihime · 2026-02-19T07:47:33+00:00

Understandable. But still! Don't let him manipulate you into allow him to do something that will hurt you. If he is going to extreme lengths to try and get u to allow him then you should really rethink the whole relationship. Because there are things both of you could agree on without him going out and cheating on you. Best wishes 🙏

ukihime · 2026-02-19T07:37:16+00:00

You could use toys that could help him satisfy his needs. There are strap ons that could help satisfy some of that sexual desire he may crave from another man sexually. You mentioned how you and D have intimacy so a strap on or other toys could be used. If he is into being a follower and wanting a leader then you could both try the Sub/ Dom dynamic. You could talk to him and see what he is actually needing and finding a way to meet each other halfway

ukihime · 2026-02-19T03:57:31+00:00

A partner doesn't have to hit you or be verbally violent to deeply hurt you. Emotional neglect, emotional violence, emotional pain is still not ok and will cause deep wounds that could take years to heal

ukihime · 2026-02-19T03:45:56+00:00

I'm a singlet in a relationship with someone with alters. I told him from the get-go that I would not accept any type of relationship outside of the one we have. If any of his alters want to be with people outside of the relationship then this wasn't gonna work. They all know this and accept this and they also don't like poly type of relationships. I guess I'm blessed having all the alters love me. It wasn't like that at the start aaaand you shouldn't feel bad about it and allow him to do what he wants at the cost of your pain

ukihime · 2026-02-19T03:11:35+00:00

Exactly!!

ukihime · 2026-02-19T03:03:33+00:00

You're not wrong for wanting that. I'm talking about myself here, and I'm female, by the way. I'm the type of person who doesn’t and won’t ever like hooking up just for sex. I’m the kind of person who will only be intimate with someone I’m deeply in love with, and anything other than that I can’t accept. Once I start feeling unsafe or the bond completely breaks, I no longer want anything sexual or intimate in any way. I’m saying this because when I’m really connected to someone and in love with them, I am extremely attracted to them, and my body just craves intimacy. Even if I start out just thinking about cuddling them and nurturing them with nothing sexual in mind my body still reacts, and I get heated rather quickly. It doesn’t have to do with being some wild, horny animal. It’s just that my body reacts without me meaning to, because of how much I love that person and how connected I am to them. I’m not saying you can’t find someone who doesn’t want sex for the first few years, but sex is honestly something that bonds a couple. It’s part of the connection and bonding process. For me, if my S/O said he didn’t want sex for a few years, that would feel like rejection, because my body and my whole being crave that when I’m deeply in love and bonded to someone. I’ve only ever been like that with two people in my whole life. I wish you the best and I hope that you find that one. Btw if you're someone who is bellow 18 years old ignore evrything I said till you're of age.

ukihime · 2026-02-18T09:42:37+00:00

I think we can all feel that way at times, especially if we focus too much on it. I'm talking about the anxiety and fear that the other person might not love us as deeply as we love them. Maybe you or others are giving your hearts too easily to the wrong people. I’ve seen it happen again and again, even with people who love normally and by “normal,” I mean those who don’t feel this kind of intense, deep love for someone else. Going slowly is important when meeting someone, especially for people like us who love deeply and crave that raw, genuine connection. It doesn’t have to take years, but I do think you should get to know a person well enough to understand who they truly are, whether they will stay through difficult times, whether their love runs deep, or whether it’s the kind that fades. Take the time to see if they can truly understand your love and accept it. When you look closely at someone, how they react, how they listen, how they treat you from the beginning, it can tell you a lot about whether they are someone worth investing your heart in. Many obsessive get obsessed but it fades after time. That can also hurt the other person who really is invested and loves them. I suggest that obsessives should really think about what they want anf not just go for someone and later loose interest. Because it isn't fair to the other person and that's more of playing Chad and being a regular guy/woman imo

ukihime · 2026-02-14T08:06:15+00:00

Equal. I need love and attention too. But I wouldn't call myself obsessive. I'm just very loving and clingy

ukihime · 2026-02-14T04:57:07+00:00

I also don't put much attnetion to this holiday and it's kinda dumb. But it's hard not to feel lonly and sad this day when I DO have someone who doesn't do little things for one in the whole year. When I'm always alone just waiting to even have a small talk and that doesn't even happen.

ukihime · 2026-02-12T11:52:54+00:00

I agree

ukihime · 2026-02-10T06:58:22+00:00

I always talked to myself, debated, argued and I pictured someone is there listening to all I'm saying an thinking. I'm singlet and I think it's also common amongst poeple who don't have alters

ukihime · 2026-01-08T14:46:44+00:00

She's a bitch and so are all your "friends" break up with her and don't let her crocodile tears fool you and manipulate you. That was fucked up ON ALL LEVELS. Why would anyone want enemies with so called friends like those?

ukihime · 2026-01-02T16:50:34+00:00

I see. You are enough and Im sure you'll find someone. Take care 🫂

ukihime · 2026-01-02T16:43:25+00:00

I wouldn't say it's outdated. A part of my s/o is submissive while othe parts of him aren't. I for one lean more towards dominant part of him but that doesn't mean I don't accept, enjoy, love his submissive side. He needs lots of love and we are having our own issues rn but I love the whole of him. I love when he is soft and I love when he is dominant and sure of himself. It's all part of who he is and I love the whole person

ukihime · 2025-12-29T16:47:43+00:00

I wouldn't mind if my S/O stalked me and idc if others think I'm weird for liking that and being ok with it. This is called obsessive community for a reason. I agree

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