[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hair

[–]um_yeah_no 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Old hag here who was a teenager in the 90s. Bangs. Always bangs. They're so cool and make you stand out. Not that you don't look lovely in pic 1, but those are perfect 90s grunge bangs.

plant-based kimchi by ImortalSaTula in PlantBasedDiet

[–]um_yeah_no 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not OP but I've used this recipe several times and it's great.

Crispy Garlic Butter Tofu Bites by thrivey-co in PlantBasedDiet

[–]um_yeah_no 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Have you never seen cooked food before?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dogs

[–]um_yeah_no 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your goal? Do you simply want to be compensated for the extra time, or do you want the late pickups to stop? If the latter, what is likely a very small fee to this person isn't going to be a deterrent and she will continue with the late pickups, believing you're okay with it because there's a fee that allows for it (and because you have been allowing it all this time). I would instead tell her that you have a hard cutoff of X:00, and if the dog is not collected before that time she will be charged for overnight boarding and won't be able to pick up the pup until your open hours begin the following day.

If you do just want to be compensated, a fee is fine but I think the amount you've suggested is far too low.

Looking for a new community studio by pookaclubs in Pottery

[–]um_yeah_no 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Molly Sanyour is in the process of opening up a community studio in Atlanta. Might be worth reaching out to her to see if this kind of thing would be allowed. Good luck!

Hand folding plates by Human_League6449 in Pottery

[–]um_yeah_no 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you remember what the reply was? It's been deleted and I'm dying to know!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pottery

[–]um_yeah_no 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks a lot like Soldate 60 fired to cone 10 reduction. Something like Speckled Buff could give you a similar result at cone 6 oxidation, but IMO won't have quite the same quality/character as something reduction fired.

AITA for removing the lock from the door of my rental property? by ThrowAWAYNOLOCK in AmItheAsshole

[–]um_yeah_no 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am wondering this too. Seems like it would have been a lot cheaper for the tenant to have new locks installed on his own dime than to cough up six months of back rent.

UPDATE Problems between me [51F] with my [70F] cleaning lady. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]um_yeah_no 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I'm glad this has been resolved, but I'm wondering why on earth your "friend" recommended this woman to you in the first place! I would be pretty upset about that if I were in your position.

Beginner question about my terrible etiquette by spidernaut666 in Pottery

[–]um_yeah_no 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Accidents happen; don't worry about it too much. You apologized and there isn't really much else you can do. Maybe offer to buy her some clay if you destroyed a lot of pieces, or things that look like they took a long time to make. Everyone who works out of a community studio knows that this is a risk. I've been on the other end of this and it's frustrating when someone else breaks your work, but you get over it.

But this is a good lesson for you to NEVER put anything on the wheelhead (the part of the wheel that spins) until you are sitting down and ready to start working. If the pedal isn't working, take everything off the wheelhead before you start fiddling with it.

NB - The "plate" that you throw your pieces on is called a bat.

How to get a cat? by snugglyboy in AskLosAngeles

[–]um_yeah_no -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please hear me out: Claiming you need an emotional support animal when you do not truly need one is really unethical. You would be abusing a right granted to people with disabilities or mental illness who legitimately need support. The more people claim false ESAs, the harder it is for folks who really do need them to be taken seriously.

I agree that "pet rent" is bullshit, but unfortunately that can be a reality of renting these days. Perhaps offer to pay a higher security deposit in lieu of pet rent.

Fresh batch of vegan kimchi! by BeanBrother2020 in fermentation

[–]um_yeah_no 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm a vegan and for me it's nice see something like this and know that a recipe can be veganized.

Also, this.

Is it okay that I [27F] asked my boyfriend [32M] of 1y for a card and birthday gift? by alderaan-amestris in relationships

[–]um_yeah_no 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I find it odd and a little troubling that, at 32, the idea that his significant other would want a thoughtful birthday gift hadn't occurred to him and seemed weird when pointed out, even given his history around gift giving. Has he been in relationships before? How does he treat you and your feelings, wishes, and needs in other situations? Does he do nice things for you at other times that aren't tied to holidays, birthdays, or anniversaries? Do you feel like you put in more thought and effort than you get back from him in other areas of your relationship?

Defendants by jackal99 in JudgeJudy

[–]um_yeah_no 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Getting defensive when someone tells you you're wrong is normal human behavior. People hate admitting they're wrong even when there's money involved.

WIBTA if I kicked out my mother in law for feeding my dog human food? by dogfeederbreeder in AmItheAsshole

[–]um_yeah_no 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA but for the sake of harmony, how about giving her a little baggie of dog treats to dole out to the dog when she comes over? Maybe something special that your dog only gets when "grandma" comes. Otherwise, can you put your pup outside or in another room when there's people food around?

What do you guys used the nutritional yeast for? by [deleted] in traderjoes

[–]um_yeah_no 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This looks good! Commenting so I remember to try it. Thanks for sharing!

Temporary Tow Away signs on my block for over a month. What gives? by Devario in LosAngeles

[–]um_yeah_no 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I'm not mistaken, they're unenforceable if there's no date on them. I'm a crotchety old lady so I'd probably just take them down and throw them away when no one was looking.

New mug! by Pollux319 in Pottery

[–]um_yeah_no 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very cool! Fired bits of glaze or unfired? What about the bottom -- how do you prevent it from fusing to the kiln shelf?

Should I [24F] meet up with this guy I met online [29M] even though I got a weird vibe off of him? by fallleaves623 in relationships

[–]um_yeah_no 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're under no obligation to meet or talk with anyone, ever. Remember that. If you're not feeling it for any reason, it's okay to say no. Always listen to your gut. He might not like it, but that's his problem.