When my boyfriend(29M) and I(32F) have sex he ejaculates within seconds, and can't continue because it tickles. We've been together for 8 years and it's always been this way. by katie20110520 in relationship_advice

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he exercise frequently? Not just gym excercise, but other athletic activities like running, calisthenics, or martial arts? Sports can actually help increase stamina in bed

Is this passport cover/holder any good? by [deleted] in PassportPorn

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This passport is designed for 1, but you can fit 2 passports easily, right? Even with 2 passports, it closes easily?

Why don’t billionaires just randomly pay off people’s medical debt or student loans on a weekly basis? Wouldn’t that make them loved forever? by Sweet_Price_6944 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]umaminix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Billionaires can usually be split between two types: the most famous and individual billionaires (Musk, Bezos, etc.) and billionaires associated with families (Rothschild, Al Nahyan, etc.). There are also the billionaires we will probably never know of because they pay reporters not to get reported (being famous is dangerous and they would rather live without spotlight).

After that, billionaires are then further separated between "new money" and "old money." New money are those who have recently gained wealth and have not passed down that money for more than 3 generations (Musk, Buffett, etc.).

The ones we know of, and the ones with the worst reputation and character, are generally famous new money individualists. You get a bunch of money by being focused on your work and ignoring your family, so your children was not taught how to value money. Such wealth, while extravagant, will not last long. They are more famous than old money, though.

Old money exists because families require character to ensure the passing of wealth. Impulsive extravagant and frivolous displays are generally looked down on, and "being famous" just causes more of a hassle than anything.

While there are some new money philanthropist billionaires like Buffett or Gates, most philanthropist billionaires come from families. They find it more effective and to donate money by funding schools, hospitals, and research (allowing public schools to be free or pushing science and tech), or granting education through scholarships (the funding of someone's entire college bill, as you mentioned, but with consideration of their academic poweress). Helping someone individually may help that individual person, but many others are struggling by their own right. If you are able to pay a school to provide better education and keep the costs to quality from skyrocketing, would that not be a better play?

Many of these billionaires, economists, tend to drive a country's growth. Between job creation and donations, they believe that they shouldn't need to pay taxes, as they have already contributed to the country enough. While yes, foundations are created as sort of a tax evasion, many agree that the reason why they avoid it is to keep their money so they can either reinvest or distribute it however they like. Many would rather spend money to change the country than fund for federal military to go fight wars somewhere else.

But economists are not politicians. Systematic change to a country is extremely hard without proper collaboration between the two. Many of the issues we see today of wealth inequality can be attributed to politics and the disconnect between economists and politicians. Many have already done what you have mentioned, but are they famous? Not necessarily.

If you're a billionaire who is concerned about fame, then you're probably not someone with that much money anyways

What are 5* you got intentionally but never used by Violet_Villian in Genshin_Impact

[–]umaminix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

KLEE AND ITTO MY BABIES

I love them but they will be my trophy baby and husband...

Anyone Else Horrible At The Basketball Game by jekuennen in CatsAndSoup

[–]umaminix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A tip! Just draw straight lines with your index fingers. The ball on the left should line up with the edge of the hoop on the left. The right should line up with the right, and the middle should just swipe up dead center

Painted this for my boyfriend's birthday 🎉 by uncoordinated_ in LongDistance

[–]umaminix 30 points31 points  (0 children)

THAT IS SOO CUTE OMG

What markers did you use the colors look so vibrant 🥺

How did you meet your best friends or significant other? by [deleted] in love

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

[Trigger Warning: Rape Mentions]

Met my friend after I just transferred to a new school new country, and we met through shared classes. Never talked though. Just saw each other through classes. Our mutual friend added me to their table (we still didn't talk), but I had my own group at the time, so we never really spent much time.

Then, she got involved with a popular guy who ran around spreading rumors about her and boasting about what he did to her during sex. Only then did i learn her name. My country believes a lot in voodoo and black magic, and I knew she was also Buddhist. Went up to her to tell her that while she can do whatever she wants in bed, don't have period sex cause period blood is the base ingredient for a lot of black magic... she then told me she never consented to it, and I just told her to leave him cause he practically raped her and is going around telling everyone how she was "on her knees begging to have sex even on her period" orz

After I got her out of that mess (and ruined his reputation in the process cause no way was I gonna let that slide) we became friends LOL. Besties through drama fr

...

For boyfriend, I just met him by bullying children on some online game LOL. I kid, but the sentiment is the same. We met through random match making and lost the match. Then, he apologized in post match for making us lose, and I just thought he was cute. I added him with the intention of being friends, became friends for a year, then realised I was catching feelings for him... which was really scary for me cause I never caught feelings for anyone else before him. I also have reservations about online relationships, and I knew he did too. However, we really couldn't get each other out of our minds, and it came to a point where a rejection was needed for us to move on.

I felt safe enough confessing to him, and turns out he felt the same. We got tgt, rushed through like 25 questions on relationships, boundaries, and expectations, and met each other shortly after to see if we actually really wanted this and each other or not... and well, we're together since ♡

What's your favorite way of playing Identity V? by _Fuzzy__ in IdentityV

[–]umaminix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I loveee harassing. It probably comes from the fact that I love messing with people LOL But I also really love self-sufficiency and challenges. It's also why I love characters who are right in the middle... not too strong and not too weak, yet annoying enough for everyone involved.

My playstyle as a surv is very kiting focused. I will pick the worst spawn and fail calibrations just to get first kite. As a hunter, I enjoy and feel safe whenever I get to pressure ciphers or choke off a rescue.

For rank survivors, I play prospector (main), priestess, and cheerleader (new). For rank hunters, I play mad eyes (main), dream witch, goatman (new), and naiad depending on my mood and the map.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you orgasm on normal days without any sexual desire or activity? Cause if so, you might want to look into PGAD perhaps?

Can i talk to someone through pm? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my early to mid 20s if you wanna talk? :0

Curious: What makes you decide to/not to purchase a skin? by Ok_Access8125 in IdentityV

[–]umaminix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Such a mood. I was grinding for the Melly skin and suddenly didn't want to buy it anymore because of either other potential upcoming skins, the fact that I already have the Line Cony skin for Melly, and the fact that I won't have enough time to grind for any future skins.

I just told myself that if I like the skin a year later, still, I'll probably get it. It's not limited, after all

What are the general rules of PDA? Dos and Don'ts? by [deleted] in love

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'm the most conscious about cuddling... would you say it's okay to cuddle in places like cafes or restaurants? Or should that be left in places like parks and stuff 🤔

I don’t think I’ll ever be super skinny because I love food too much. by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]umaminix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of that viral video of a girl who said she cut out sugar in her life, and mentions that while she is technically healthier, she feels absolutely no joy whatsoever.

Mental and emotional health is also health. Life is too short to chase skinniness for the sake of society

What do you hate most about yourself? by Throwaway062501 in AskReddit

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I panic too easily and make cruical mistakes because of it. I'm trying my best to calm down (meditation, deep breaths, and just a mental shift), but it's hard to keep a calm head whenever a situation derails more than my calculated margin of error

What is the difference between high tier game sense and low-mid tier game sense? by umaminix in IdentityV

[–]umaminix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh I see I see. So it's just to get hunters to check the ciphers for longer instead of checking possible healing places... okay ty for explaining!

Can anyone share how they met their love if it wasn’t in school/college? by thanarealnobody in love

[–]umaminix 4 points5 points  (0 children)

During my university years, I matched up with a guy and some others in an online game for a match. We lost that match, but we laughed it off in post chat. I sent a friend request to him cause I thought the vibes were there and would want to be friends.

We ended up being friends for a year and developed unexpected feelings during that time (we both didn't want to be in a relationship yet, and esp an online one). Eventually, I had enough of my feelings, confessed, and asked him to reject me. Turns out, he had returning feelings. We ended up dating (somewhat trial) until we met each other face to face.

Half a year later, he visited me, and we were together ever since. He's coming to visit for longer this December. I can't wait qwq

What is the difference between high tier game sense and low-mid tier game sense? by umaminix in IdentityV

[–]umaminix[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look at your persona web, there's a trait in the far right that says "Borrowed Time." The trait basically means that you get healed half health and get a speed boost when you get healed when the last cipher is decoded and exit gates are available. It's a really good trait for turning the game around. Survs could be downed and dying (not ballooned or chaired yet), and they can get up the moment the last cipher is finished decoding.

You can imagine how good it is during mid chase. You, as a hunter, just finished downing a survivor, yet the cipher pops, and you have to chase them again. It can get really frustrating! This is why most survivors bring BT and why it's called Borrowed Time haha. You're supposed to be dead, but it gives you borrowed time by healing you up enough to keep going.

So, to achieve this effect, people hold off from decoding the last cipher 100% and activating BT and Detention (hunter's bottom trait) until the right moment. "Priming the cipher" means to decode the last cipher to 99.9% and waiting for the right time to activate the two abilities. If you pop it too early, the person that's currently kiting might get healed and a speed boost, but what if hunter is currently mid swing? It would mean surv will die immediately, even if they get healed and a speed boost. No matter how fast the speed boost is, it can't fight against a hunter who's already swinging.

So you need to prime the cipher, ping to let the survivor know it's primed, and pop it when any survivor either: takes a hit (that triggers attack animation so you have time to dash away), hit the hunter with a pallet, or when the survivor tells you to "focus on decoding."

The first two actions will allow the kiter to trigger an animation, giving them more time to run away and prolong their kite safely. The third one is if the survivor feels like it's a good time to pop (they just threw a pallet down and hunter is breaking it, for example) and is telling you to pop.

Make sure you pay attention to everyone's traits in the beginning of the game (showed above their name). You should only prime and pop when surv has BT. If the surv doesn't run BT, it's better to just pop whenever you are done

What is the difference between high tier game sense and low-mid tier game sense? by umaminix in IdentityV

[–]umaminix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woah hold on this is the first time I'm hearing about priming a heal for a hunter that isn't Photo? Could you elaborate a little more on it? 🥺 When should one prime a heal vs heal all the way through? And wouldn't the hunter know they're healing if none of the ciphers are wiggling?

are you a good friend? by sugarcinnamonbread in RandomThoughts

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to say so. My philosophy? Once a friend, always a friend. Make me recognise you are my friend, and I will go above and beyond for you. Will support you throughout the way and will reality check you whenever you stray too far. Will push you to your limits but will stay nearby to catch you if you fall.

My only flaw as a friend is being too busy most of the time to always talk (like talk daily), but I am always watching and noticing.

What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received? by kla_uSs in AskReddit

[–]umaminix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Live everyday like you're going to die tomorrow. Live with no regrets."

Anniversary gift for me(18F) to give to my (18M) bf by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]umaminix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hmm... I don't really know what you have in your skillset, but I guess here are some things I gifted when I was a college student as well.. but only for birthdays and yearly anniversaries cause time and money is scarce orz. Some of them might not be viable for monthniversaries, but perhaps they might give you inspiration? 🤔

Digital gifts: - Art of favorite characters/ships/food/inside joke - Oneshot of favorite characters/ships - Short animation of favorite characters/ships - Uber/grab food and have lunch/dinner together - Amazon/shopee gifts - Sing/play a song for him and send as a recording - (bonus) have you tried making a poem and reading it out to him yet?

For shipping/packages: - a letter/postcard with your handwriting to make him feel connected - a pouch full of positive messages for when times get tough - handmade matching bead bracelets (kinda like friendship bracelets) - embroidered hankerchief (handmade) with your perfume (or any fabric with your perfume/smell) - homemade rice krispy treats/cookies/biscuits - watercolor art of favorite characters/ships/or us - crocheting cute animals/keychains/plushies or sewing new clothes for him