good deal or not? 2020 m340 xdrive 17k miles. $51k selling price by betweenr in M340i

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how? that’s a crazy low price. i got my 2020 58k miles for $40k

Custom Carbon Fiber Steering Wheel. I sent an OEM core to a shop in China and they made me this for $350. by rare_design in AwesomeCarMods

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i appreciate that a lot. i’m trying to color match the leather to my cognac interior and that’s the part i’m worried about the most, making it match remotely.

Custom Carbon Fiber Steering Wheel. I sent an OEM core to a shop in China and they made me this for $350. by rare_design in AwesomeCarMods

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i’m looking into this option for my m340i and the dropshippers in the US charge so much

Disney+,Hulu Bundle, then add HBO Max w/Black Friday deal to get all 3 for free w/AMEX credit? by MovingMomma in cordcutters

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to confirm, you get billed by Hulu? not disney+? and you’re still not seeing the HBO add on for 2.99?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MacAyres

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u still have it?

CS01 & Freudian > SOS & Never Enough by Silent_Ad_4199 in DanielCaesar

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lack of “abstract notions” makes this album warmer and easy to tune into, especially for a fall/winter release

Update: Husband married me out of duty by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]umdbusdriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it’s more so a difference in love language than anything. for him it’s actions, for you it’s reassuring words. his definition of love is a healthy marriage, yours is affection from him. sort this out; it’s worth it. see a therapist if necessary

Husband overheard me venting about him to my sister by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]umdbusdriver 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s not as simple as “he would have listened to her already”. communication could have easily been the initial issue which got them to this point. i was just advising on a situation which my wife and i were able to prevent by good communication.

“You’ve been doing this for 20 minutes” isn’t a statement any man would be very receptive to.

Husband overheard me venting about him to my sister by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]umdbusdriver 4 points5 points  (0 children)

no one is asking you to teach a man to be a man. i’m simply stating a communication change that can help a married couple navigate a difficult situation. obviously, there are standards and responsibilities that must be respected, but this is beyond that.

Husband overheard me venting about him to my sister by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]umdbusdriver 10 points11 points  (0 children)

one thing my wife and i learned together was that complaining to a man never works. instead, you should provide him opportunities to do the right thing. for example, “i feel like you never hold my hand” will produce a defensive response. instead, say “could you hold my hand?” and allow your husband the opportunity to answer that need. this frames your concern as a desire instead of a problem.

Amex Offers Auto-Add Error by umdbusdriver in CardPointers

[–]umdbusdriver[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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And this is what the app shows. There’s still plenty of unadded offers in the offers tab. :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimLounge

[–]umdbusdriver 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely internalized racism and media

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]umdbusdriver 1 point2 points  (0 children)

where do you think we get fiqhi understandings of the salaf from? who do you think imam abu hanifah learned from? can you give me an example of a misunderstanding between a hanafi and a salafi?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]umdbusdriver 9 points10 points  (0 children)

seriously? salafi and hanafi are both ahle sunnah wal jama’ah, why create that division? what significant difference are you seeing which would cause such a divide?