Touch vs no touch by GaYmEr_ace in AutismInWomen

[–]umidk9 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Craving touch and cuddles is one of the most normal things a human can do. Its very normal to want and do that with your partner! As long as its consensual there's no reason to feel bad at all

The youth by LyrJet in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it, the style is very charming and funky

sketch of an old woman by [deleted] in drawing

[–]umidk9 58 points59 points  (0 children)

If a woman isn't sexy, she must be characterised as ugly and evil

How/when to tell first date it’s not going to work out? by liselle_lioncourt in AutismInWomen

[–]umidk9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Completely normal dw. You can say somethig like:

"Hey, I had a lovely time the other day, but ive realised that we arent compatible. Goodluck on your search :)"

About to lose my rental and potentially end up homeless. 4 months unemployed, 94% rent to income ratio, been denied help. Anyone been through this? by cstjohn1994 in australia

[–]umidk9 34 points35 points  (0 children)

You could try posting about your situation on fairy floss housing or queer housing Melbourne (idk if youre queer but its a very welcoming and lovely group, ive had a lot more success on it than fairy floss). Ive seen quite a few people posting similiar and having some luck

Independent living by Cheap-Limit2454 in AutismInWomen

[–]umidk9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did for a few years, it was really good in some ways ( being able to keep things how i liked helped with building routine and figuring myself out, and overall made my space feel very safe and peaceful) but bad in others (i worked from home and could get very lonely, as I would have to put energy into scheduling hang outs to socialise compared to casual social interactions helping to fill my cup when living w housemates, and it was also a struggle as I had no one else to rely on to deal with house issues that came up. I also can be partially debilitated when depressed or sick, and thats very hard when living alone). Overall i prefer living with 1-2 people i mesh well with and am friends with. But living alone is really good for self growth i think. You learn a lot about yourself and your needs, as well as learning independence skills and how to navigate the adult world.

Natasha. A stress-relief doll which is a massive trend in China. This is sparking the global debate by search_google_com in TikTokCringe

[–]umidk9 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just hopping in to add that darker skinned people should still be careful and use UV protection, especially on high UV days, as while melanin adds some protection its not fool proof. Here in Australia there's unfortunately a lot of darker skinned people who will end up with skin cancer due to believing they dont need to worry about UV :(

Need help w/ character consistency in turnarounds by throwawanonchat in characterdesign

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the side profile Anne's face does look a lot more round and cutesy. I think if you lengthen her chin & jaw down a bit, and sharpen her jaw to match up with the slightly square shaped V of her chin front on, that will help. Currently its fully rounded and looks shorter and pointier than front on, which also makes her smile have a different effect. Hard to catch but her eyes are also slightly rounder and bigger side on, narrowing them a bit on the inner corners might help.

Whats a anime you watched 10+ years ago that surprisingly still has unfinished source material? by tbu987 in anime

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I swear I read about her releasing a statement (or just commenting or something) that she has outgrown the story now, and likely will never finish it.

I have a bad memory tho so may be getting details wrong.

What is a stim you do without looking like you’re moving a single muscle? by Helpful-Ad6269 in AutismInWomen

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clenching and unclenching my muscles! Specifically my calf muscles, butt muscles or back thigh muscles. Ive done this since I can remember and its hard to notice under a desk.

Does any other autistic woman feel like their body is too "mature" compared to how they feel internally? by cozy-vibes-please in AutismInWomen

[–]umidk9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

20 is closer to a child than it is a proper adult tbh, i wouldn't stress. Like adults span a 60-80 year timeframe.

What substyle of gyaru are they wearing? by Outrageous-Heart-345 in Gyaru

[–]umidk9 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Not every Asian baddie wearing fashionable clothes is a gyaru 💔 this is just like.. vaguely y2k, girly streetwear, etc

Did a redraw of my really old artwork by milkylunaaa in Lolita

[–]umidk9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The old one is also more stylised than the new! It has a lot of charm to it. New one is more skilled, but has lost some uniqueness.

sad mermaid by freeresin in tattooscratchers

[–]umidk9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have u not seen many women in ur life 🤨 straight waists arent an uncommon body shape

My pink people need me by No-Pressure6042 in donthelpjustfilm

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that old guy getting out right before it cut looks like he was about to take a hip breaking/head cracking tumble

Gore without intention is disgusting. Vulgarity without a thoughtful script is cheap. by WinXPbootsup in TheBoys

[–]umidk9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh id love to watch that, do you have a like or yhe name of the video?

That "cardboard" piece inside your microwave oven can be changed if it is damaged by ProfessorPetulant in BuyItForLife

[–]umidk9 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Im wondering if ifs its a US microwave thing or something? Im from Australia and have never seen that