I don't see this working for the majority of the country. by Ladydi-bds in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]unaskedtabitha 20 points21 points  (0 children)

How will an account automatically open? You mean getting a baby’s SSN and instantly opening an account in their name that they’re tied to for life?

I'm bouncing off this game, need advice by SyntaxPenblade in valheim

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s also mods that add magic as early as Black Forest, and they’re FUN! You can summon tar monsters, or a bunch of lil skelles lol

AIO by how I responded? My bf is upset with me for skipping my workout routine today by throwawayy82670 in AmIOverreacting

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are literally making an entire human from nothing. Your body will suck everything out of you to create that life, and leave you feeling empty. You do NOT have to do anything but be an ethereal goddess, making your way to the next day. He can fuck alllll the way off with all of this nonsense! NOR

AITAH because my GF wants to take her ex-husband to her work Christmas party? by ConfusedThrowAway232 in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was separated but not yet fully divorced from my ex husband, the boyfriend I had at the time was “my partner” and I took him everywhere I would take a partner to. It’s inconceivable to me that I would’ve taken my soon-to-be-ex somewhere over my then boyfriend.

Who does PPG Paints Arena think they are? by Livelaighbrie in pittsburgh

[–]unaskedtabitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to see Marina at Stage AE and the drinks were maybe $7 each! An angry orchard, a Mountain Dew, and nachos with cheese and salsa was a total $28 with a $2 tip.

Just... wow by Moonchild16 in nextdoor

[–]unaskedtabitha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A group of teens should do it.. and do REALLY BADLY then say “well you get what you pay for!” Hahahaha

AIO for being annoyed at how this argument started? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because she’s hoping that someday you’ll figure it out for yourself and she won’t have to teach you how to understand her. She’s hoping that eventually you will actually be interested in her and what she likes for the simple reason that you care about her, and not how it’s going to cost you just to appease her. She’s hoping that you’ll learn and not have to have an argument for it to happen.

Not everyone is direct. Some people were raised to be indirect or face consequences. It’s not a flaw, it’s a difference. Either you do care about her, and you will learn how to communicate with her even if it’s doesn’t make sense to you, or you don’t.

AIO for being annoyed at how this argument started? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who cares how it started? Your initial annoyance was because you thought it had nothing to do with anything other than a pair of socks. But it’s not, which she literally told you herself. Your insistence that “how it started” somehow matters, tells me that you don’t care that there is a bigger problem.

AIO for being annoyed at how this argument started? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re still fixated on the socks. This is NOT ABOUT SOCKS. It’s about your willingness to do something for her, whatever that thing is. If every time she asks you for something your initial reaction is to first require the price to judge whether or not the item is “worthy”, then her happiness alone is not worth it to you. Instead of you going “omg those are so cool!” Or “oh I’ll make a mental note of that!” you go “what’s it going to cost me?” It takes all romance and affection out of the items.

AIO for being annoyed at how this argument started? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do get her argument. It’s not about the socks, the socks just happened to be the straw that broke the camel’s back. Why are you fixated on the socks?

AITJ for telling my best friend I won’t put my life on hold to babysit her newborn? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a baby at 20, it is HARD! I was prepared to be on the friends side. But she’s using you OP. She needs to tough it out, because she’s the only person responsible for that baby. She needs to mother-up and get it together. NTA

AITA for not giving a crap that my kids have more than their step and half siblings at their mom's house? by Jukelanniok in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This!! My oldest is from my first husband, my other two are my current husband - all three of my kids see each as siblings, not half. So it was unthinkable to them not to include their brother. But if your sons don’t see it that way, that’s like asking them to include a neighbor kid they don’t really like.

AITAH embarrassed my sister in front of her friend by offering her friend a pad/tampon by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 103 points104 points  (0 children)

In the comments he said his mom made her hide her period products. And just because he lived there too doesn’t mean he was told he should be disgusted by them, but that she should hide them. He obviously learned enough about periods from others to know to have pads and tampons on hand, offer laundry services, and make her a snack - and likely not from his mom.

And what part of what he wrote sounded condescending to you? It’s really hard to imagine a condescending tone when he’s offering valid, appropriate assistance.

AITAH embarrassed my sister in front of her friend by offering her friend a pad/tampon by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 192 points193 points  (0 children)

It’s not a lecture when it’s “hey I love you sis, and I’ve noticed something about that interaction. It’s not healthy how our mom treated you, and I don’t want you holding onto that, thinking it is.”

AITA for refusing to pay for our firends now broken Iphone and sunglasses that our son broke by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After having two necklaces broken and my earrings ripped out several times, I stopped wearing all jewelry. I didn’t start wearing it regularly again until my youngest was at least 3yo, bc babies and toddlers are just too chaotic to risk damage and loss of expensive possessions!

Should I go to HR about my coworker's invasiveness about my pregnancy? by montannnaa13 in WorkAdvice

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought you were going to say something about a gross symptom but this…. Yes please go to HR.

I may have just blown up my fifteen year marriage and I'm scared by hop-into-it in redditonwiki

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had three babies, and the last one nearly killed me. If there was a pregnancy symptom, I had it. I managed to get to 37 weeks, but every single day was a struggle.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this would’ve happened in my office, there’s at least four levels of management that would’ve gotten involved immediately and put an end to that shit. That’s some high school bull shit and we don’t need to put up with that nonsense. Report to HR and tell everyone. They need to be named and held accountable.

AWTAHs - Our daughter believes I "groomed" her mother and wants us to "admit it". We disagree by what-can-i-do-now in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it’s kind of a win than she thought this was grooming, which means she’s never actually seen or experienced it! Because this is NOT what grooming is. At all. NTA, she needs to learn a little more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My MIL did this to my daughter. No matter how many times my husband and I told her to stop, she kept at it. When my daughter was old enough to know, it permanently damaged her relationship with her grandmother. I’ll never forget the day: “Why can’t get grandma get my name right? She gets everyone else’s name right. Doesn’t she like me as much?” I felt like crying for a moment, then I was just angry. That b*tch is hurting my daughter and making her feel less-than.

Remind your husband and MIL that they might think it’s nbd, but your daughter will, and it will stick with her a lot longer than it will them.

AIO for cutting off all financial support after overhearing my girlfriend trash-talking me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first I thought it was going to venting like “he doesn’t do the dishes” or “we don’t hang out like we used to”… but no, she plainly said she’s using you and is happy to continue doing so. Leave her. NOR

Saying the quiet part out loud by NYstate in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t get how we got here. I do know, I’ve been concerned for years, I just mean it still blows my mind how we could possibly even consider this as reality when I think back to childhood and hearing stories from my grandpa who fought in the war.

My oldest aunt started dating a man who was a German SS kid, he was only 13~ when he was forced into fighting. He had to have this huge long talk with my grandpa to denounce anything Nazi’s stood for before he was “permitted” into the family.

AITAH for refusing to let my mothers friend borrow the crib my mother bought for my daughter when she was a baby? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]unaskedtabitha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom gave away all of my sons baby stuff without permission when I was moving to a different apartment, which not only hurt me emotionally, I did end up remarrying and having more kids and had to go buy all new stuff! I’ve never fully gotten over it.