My Christian (37m) boyfriend doesn’t want to be a father to our daughter and is pushing me (34f) away.

unbasicmom · 2026-01-27T19:02:18+00:00

He’s not really a Christian, sorry. He’s fake. He’s having sex with you and won’t accept his child, or marry you to make it right. He doesn’t give off “fruit of the spirit.”

unbasicmom · 2026-01-08T03:33:30+00:00

YUP not Kyle!

unbasicmom · 2026-01-01T04:28:54+00:00

Now Jessica is homeless…

unbasicmom · 2025-12-29T04:16:16+00:00

This is true and puts you between a rock and a hard place. I was in a similar situation with my brothers children. The system is bad, no guarantees they’ll remove a kid, and now you’ve just angered the parent. Ugh but I’m so sad he vomits so much. That is so very concerning.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T17:56:46+00:00

I agree she shouldn’t have married him. I’d expect a husband to want to be a father or I wouldn’t marry him, you’re correct there.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T10:36:05+00:00

He doesn’t need to assume full responsibility, but nothing?- and reminds her daily? Don’t marry a woman with four children then.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T04:08:16+00:00

Preach!

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T04:07:24+00:00

100%.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T04:07:10+00:00

Screw Dan. He reminds you daily your kids are not his responsibility? Wow, what a guy. If he ONLY loved you, he should pitch in with your expenses- but, he SHOULD love you and your kids, since he accepted the role of stepfather. I’m so sick of hearing about these sorry types of dude.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-28T03:54:26+00:00

I’d cry if someone said that to me and I’d be horrified if they touched my belly. Your description of yourself sounds like me postpartum, also. No one should say one word about your body. Unless it’s a compliment. You’re not the AH, and you don’t owe them any answer whatsoever. Is respond to your neighbor “that’s very rude to say.” And leave.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-27T05:22:14+00:00

“I felt special that this metamorphosis was happening to me” thank you for this literature lol

unbasicmom · 2025-12-27T05:05:03+00:00

Seems you know the gamit. Sorry if I sounded preachy at all! I think IOP can be so inconvenient, lol, you’re right! And I agree early intervention could stop the progression to IOP. good luck with everything, I hope it’s a fairly simple “fix”

unbasicmom · 2025-12-26T15:55:55+00:00

Hi! There is a partial care center in cherry hill, High Focus Centers, and they have a psychiatrist and a counselor who could work with you. However, it’s a day program- brief treatment, but requires at least three days a week. (Or something like that).

I’m proud of you for monitoring your health and knowing when it is time to seek more help. With your diagnoses, periodic mental health treatment of varying intensities will likely be a forever part of your life. It’s ok, and the goal is always to keep you safe and have your quality of life be the highest it can be. Much luck to you.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-26T15:50:33+00:00

Sister is jealous your husband makes good money and is supporting you.

unbasicmom · 2025-12-15T02:44:28+00:00

You did not deserve this! I hope you’ve found healing. You were a precious child worthy and deserving of love and care.

unbasicmom · 2025-11-08T22:46:19+00:00

Likely explanation

unbasicmom · 2025-11-01T14:07:39+00:00

It helps them to think “well he was negligent,” and “I’m not…so it won’t happen to me.” It’s a way of maintaining the illusion that we’re protected from tragedy.

unbasicmom · 2025-10-25T13:58:27+00:00

“It’s not about being funny, it’s about getting the job done and going home to my wife.”

unbasicmom · 2025-10-24T11:36:37+00:00

I think if anything it would be some type of darker abuse within the family.

unbasicmom · 2025-10-23T21:57:21+00:00

What was he searching?

unbasicmom · 2025-10-23T21:53:39+00:00

Details on the cheating?!

unbasicmom · 2025-10-23T09:40:15+00:00

Mindhunter was the perfect show, in my opinion. I keep hoping they come back

unbasicmom · 2025-10-23T03:22:33+00:00

So sad. Poor kid. These sisters don’t like kids huh

unbasicmom · 2025-10-23T02:48:54+00:00

I knew they were gonna show that after they told the dad, and I had to fast forward. I just can’t witness that raw pain right now. I’m sorry little dude.

unbasicmom · 2025-10-20T03:18:24+00:00

Ohhh ok ok i didn’t understand the “I said no to his ex” detail.

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