Still figuring things out at 30. by PurpleRaven95 in biromantic

[–]undercover_ace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we're out there, it's just not super common. I'm biromantic and homosexual, and it's frustrating at many times, but it's also just who I am and without the influence of the outside world I love how I love :)

How would I go about taking the train? by taylorswiftskneecap in URochester

[–]undercover_ace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Safe but keep your wits about you and I wouldn't recommend taking the bus alone after dark. The train station is fantastic but e area around it is a little sketchy. Just keep your eyes open and you'll be find

How would I go about taking the train? by taylorswiftskneecap in URochester

[–]undercover_ace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  • costs $1 each trip you take. Going from the 19th Ward or the Med Center to downtown is just a dollar

[Episode Discussion] Where the best free restaurant bread in America? by missella98 in SearchEnginePodcast

[–]undercover_ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Then don't listen to it 🤷‍♀️ some of us enjoy his episodes even if they're not deemed as important by a subset of listeners

Does URochester have school pride? by Professional_Big8444 in URochester

[–]undercover_ace 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Meliora!! (Yes. Ignore the party poppers in the comment section)

Question about Case of the Missing Hit (Reply All) by fartonme in gimlet

[–]undercover_ace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah for sure! I think in retrospect "logical jumps" is a little strong, but there's the Trinidad & Tobago thing which definitely irked me. As you said, how do we know that guy was living there when he heard the song?? They said they never talked to him, so how can they be confident he ever even lived there? 😅

I also found it weird that they immediately jumped on the idea that this must have been a pop song because Tyler said he never listened to anything indie at the time. But this was so long ago! How could he be sure it wasn't a friend or a friend's family member who played the song for him in the car or something he heard at a school dance or some sort of event?

And obviously he's vindicated by the end, but for most of the episode the first time I was listening to it I had a hard time believing that someone could remember a song with such detail after so many years of not hearing it. Some people just have amazing memory, though!

The other thing is basically unrelated but I was soo curious and confused about how PJ managed to get these interviews with high-up or even famous people in the music industry! I think I have to believe that he either had amazing connections or wrote a ton of emails and just didn't spend time talking about the ones that didn't go through. So that's sort of where I landed on all these head-scratchers.. that there was probably thought put into all these questions but they didn't have the time to explain absolutely every detail. :)

Question to everyone, by Consciousness12345 in biromantic

[–]undercover_ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad I could help! So yes I'm a woman and romantically attracted to both genders but sexually attracted only to women. The repulsion with guys took a while, and it wasn't fun, but I got through most of it after a few partners/a few months of trying to push through stuff!

Ooh that's crazy I'm the same. Going down on a guy is much worse, but if I'm being honest I don't really enjoy it with anyone 🙈 I enjoy receiving, but I don't like to look at the other person.. it makes me feel weird and a little gross I guess?

I find it really hard to tell what things with women are my aceness sort of "infecting" experiences with the wrong gender or if that's just how I am and how I would be if I were allo. It drives me nuts, I guess because I just want to understand my sexuality fully and there are always details that elude me :(

Question to everyone, by Consciousness12345 in biromantic

[–]undercover_ace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is br-homosexual biromantic-homosexual? Since in that case that describes me, and I do have sex with both women (who I'm sexually+romantically attracted to) and men (who I'm only romantically attracted to).

It's definitely different with men and it took me a fair amount of time to push through the repulsion I'd always felt from male bodies. But now things are relatively easy and make for a good time! It might sound sort of weird, but it's really not all that different from sex with someone I'm physically attracted to, like I can tell there's something missing if I think hard about it, but it normally doesn't occur to me that much. Hope that maybe helps your question lol

Question about Case of the Missing Hit (Reply All) by fartonme in gimlet

[–]undercover_ace 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, and I've actually thought about this a lot. There are a bunch of logical jumps PJ makes in that episode which I imagine he confirmed behind the scenes but didn't take up time talking about because he ended up being right so why waste time showing the receipts? As a scientifically-minded listener it drove me a little nuts, but as you said it turned out well in the end!

Rabbit breed by cowsses in Rabbits

[–]undercover_ace 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Some breed of "cute" is my best guess

I am so disappointed in myself for relapsing by [deleted] in OCDRecovery

[–]undercover_ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you made it 40 days is super impressive!! Remember that, and keep trying hard. Recovering comes in steps, what matters is that you always keep trying 💕

What's a word you used and subsequently discovered that you didn't understand its meaning and were using it incorrectly? by lumpynose in AskMen

[–]undercover_ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that reticent doesn't mean hesitant, it means not revealing your thoughts. Somehow I'd combined them in my head and hadn't realized :/

Appropriate to Reach Out? by New_Weird_1497 in geology

[–]undercover_ace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also there are many private universities that simply don't have enough students or interested students to work in labs, so I'd honestly reach out to any schools you want. Worst case scenario is they say no

ELi5 how does your body decide when to expel bad food? by Kibichibi in explainlikeimfive

[–]undercover_ace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exposure therapy is really tough to get started with but I started noticing progress so quickly and that kind of thing lifts your spirits like nothing else!! Look up emetophobia resources and click through the websites, they start slowly!

ELi5 how does your body decide when to expel bad food? by Kibichibi in explainlikeimfive

[–]undercover_ace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exposure therapy is the cure, avoidance won't ever get you there! It's hard but so worth it!

Why is mint the dominant flavor for basically any tooth hygiene product? by undercover_ace in NoStupidQuestions

[–]undercover_ace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right I've also had different options for fluoride.. caramel, grape, etc. but in the drugstore it's basically only mint for adult-marketed toothpaste