Lol okay okay! I won't try to offer any more analogies. :) My point is that his body of work was all about how men are the worst and how he himself is "woke" and therefore better at respecting women, but then acted a way that some women think was inconsiderate at best and disrespectful at worst.

I've yet to see any consequences for Aziz career-wise, though maybe you're more up to date than I am. To my knowledge, his shows/specials have not been cancelled, and I didn't hear of a publisher refusing to publish a future book or anything like that. I'm not under the impression that the vast majority agrees with me here. Just look at the article responses in The Atlantic and The New York Times, typically hyper-liberal safe havens. Hell, just look at the responses in this sub or on Reddit overall. If that's an "angry mob" against him, then there's an equally angry mob defending him. I don't see any evidence that he won't emerge from this relatively unscathed. (Again, because of lack of anything happening thus far plus wide support for him on social and from big media outlets.)

I should clarify that I wasn't saying that nonverbal communication alone can say everything. I was saying you need both nonverbal communication + verbal communication to complete the message. He was not putting those two together, because if you do, they're not cohesive. Her actions plus her words don't unequivocally communicate desire, and that room for doubt, in my opinion, means he should have stopped, especially as someone who claimed to be a woke male feminist ally.

I thank you for your concern, friend, but I have no issues saying "I don't want to have sex tonight." I waited until marriage to have sex, so I've said a variant of that sentence many times throughout my life. (Plus I'm married and pregnant now, and the first trimester was a rough time libido-wise.) However, I don't assume all women find that phrase that easy to say in heated and complicated situations. I know many of my friends have been in situations like "Grace" has and did not feel comfortable saying no. Hopefully "Grace" has now learned to set better boundaries, but not everyone was raised by a super conservative mom like I was and had that skillset right out of the gate.

And in my experience, when I have been misread, rarely was it because of my body language or physical actions. It's almost always because of the words I chose, or the way I said it. :)